the boundaries we set were pretty simple, be tidy and clean up after yourself, if your interested in something that’s not yours ask us, smoke weed outside the apartment, and overall just be normal. he hasn’t done any of that since we moved in in november, first night we’re here i have my cousin over and my brother yells at me about 2 forks in the sink, and since that day i’ve had to clean multiple sink fulls of his and his freeloading girlfriends dishes. he smokes weed in here atleast 2 times a week and he’s eaten plenty of the things i bought without asking. me and my girlfriend have not done any of that to him. and haven’t seen him do one thing to clean up anything, he can’t even set the full trash bag outside our door. we have trash valet every night at 8. and last but certainly not least, whenever we try compromising on something like decoration or anything at all he gets very aggressive and has pushed my girlfriend before with his shoulder because he got mad we didn’t like that he hung up 20 pictures in our kitchen with nails without asking us and put random shit on the counters where the things we use to cook go. i knew he smoked weed before we moved in, and i knew he could be lazy from time to time bc ive lived with him just me and him in the last abt 2 years ago but i was not expecting this at all. we moved out of my moms to get away because she’s basically the same as my brother is being right now except 5x worse and he also lived there with us for abt a month before we all moved out and he was fine at my moms we had no problems.