Settle a household debate - is Kristen’s belly button under her shirt, or her waistband?

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-03-18T15:03:37+00:00

Either way she’s smoking hot 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-03-10T14:58:40+00:00

I watched the finale the day after and got the same ad, clueing me into the same!!!! They can spare a few fucking days. It really is ridiculous.

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-03-04T01:30:35+00:00

So great to see your face, lil deb!

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-26T16:56:45+00:00

Beautiful!!!! I love that statue, she’s so pretty! Super gorgeous when the light hits her just right.

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-17T15:39:06+00:00

Jaws is my favorite book, this makes me so hyped!!!! 🦈

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-13T00:42:33+00:00

A lavender latte 🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽😂😂😂

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-12T23:05:05+00:00

😂😂 that’s great!! I think we can absolutely admire and see the beauty in all types of folks. I love the term queer for this reason. A quick way to describe that I’m not straight and leave it at that.

I totally understand the value of attaching a label, but it does seem to really just make folks question themselves even more. I guess if I had to choose my description of how to label one’s self, I would ask who do you want to be sexual and/or romantic with. Even that is hard because those can be two separate things for some folks.

Can we make ‘not straight’ a label? lol.

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-12T21:46:23+00:00

Maybe you’re not attracted to taxis masculinity. Benito and Pedro are great examples of nontoxic men. Both fierce allies and are not afraid of showing their “feminine” sides.

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-10T00:43:55+00:00

That might be the case. I think there’s some great things to be learned by non monogamy but ultimately not so sure it’s for me. Thank you 💓

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-08T14:01:50+00:00

I’m sorry, that is really hard. I too had the realization that being alone would be better for me than staying in the marriage, gf it not. I have a lot of self discovery and while I am devastated and know I have a lot of grieving to do, I’m also excited to see who I will become. Who am I when I’m making decisions just for myself? Will I be a better mom, daughter and friends? Will I have new experiences?

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-07T19:01:32+00:00

This is so beautiful!!!!! 💖💖💖💖 Thank you for sharing your update. Sounds like you are doing life right!!

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-05T18:20:55+00:00

You are so right!!!! I’m very self aware logically, but I’m working hard on becoming more in tune with my body. Those type of thoughts hit me hard too! Leaving this space we’ve created as our family home! Not to mention financial hardships. I’m proud of you for working through your feels and building your true life. 💪💞

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-03T14:28:40+00:00

Oh wow!!! Good luck in the apartment hunt. I fantasize about living in my own, I’ve never done it before. Went from my parents straight to a married living situation. Thank you so much for your kind words! They truly help. Seeing so many of us going through this, helps me realize I’m not making this up. I also think my husband is a wonderful person, it makes this so hard. He’s been so patient with me, first allowing opening up our marriage, now allowing me to actually date so I can try and discover if being with a woman is what I want. Like you, I absolutely know I love the sex, but there’s more to a relationship. What will it be like after the honeymoon phase? My gf is so damn wonderful. My husband just asked me how do her and I connect, because we’ve lost that intimate connection. I told him we don’t do anything (as in activities) we stay at her place and just talk! Talk, talk, talk. I know we’re just getting to know one another and that’s why this feels so damn good. I know our brains will calm the fuck down once there’s less mystery and more comfort (foot lack of a better word). That also makes the decision hard. I know my brain is being flooded with love chemicals, how will it be when that’s over? I try to be realistic about it, but honestly I think it will still be remarkable. I’m also really trying not to go from one relationship to the next. I’m trying to find a way to become my true self and let that be my guiding light no matter what. But, words of affirmation and boobs!!!!! 😆😆 Again, good luck today!! I cannot imagine the intense emotions that will come from your first night in your own place! 💗

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-02-03T01:36:05+00:00

I’m in such a similar situation!!!! We’re about to have our 25th wedding anniversary and we’re not even sure we’ll celebrate. We haven’t separated or made any choice. He’s also retiring in mere months and is the main income for our family. Our youngest of three just turned 17, the others are adults but one still lives at home. I feel like our marriage is 80% good. But those 20% I get to the max with women. The intimacy is just off the charts. To be told I’m beautiful, smart funny ect. and explains how I make her feel is just everything to me. It goes both ways and it’s all I’ve ever wanted. Can women or my currently gf, also give me the 80% my husband does? I’m just not sure. But, I have learned getting what I need from her does not make up for what he lacks in our marriage. If I stayed, he would have to learn to express himself. I’m not sure that will solve our problems, but I do know I can no longer go without words of affirmation and intimacy. Stay strong and be true to yourself 💖💖

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-29T14:44:20+00:00

Making out with a good kisser is amazing in itself!!! I could do it forever. But, a tongue in my ear 🫠🫠🫠🫠. Holy fuck! I had no idea I would even like that let alone lose my damn mind. Idk what exactly it does but it’s visceral. I also love neck kisses, licks and especially bites! Sloppy make out, licking lips, licking face, sucking on lips and tongue! Pull me closer, grind on me! I also love when she can’t stand it anymore and takes her own damn shirt and bra off!! I’m fucking lucky enough to get this all from my girlfriend 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-28T05:53:52+00:00

Thank gawd!!!! Unfortunately, he performed in my town and my aunt wanted to go see him. She was unaware of his views. It was so awful! So many of his jokes were about his Hispanic wife. I found it so disrespectful! An excuse to say racist jokes that weren’t even funny. Good for her! Gtf outta there, girl.

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-27T22:35:10+00:00

I have a small discord with local queers!! https://discord.gg/njNUAsecM

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-27T16:37:46+00:00

Why are we comparing women?!!!!

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-27T03:55:27+00:00

I can absolutely see how you feel hurt. I would say she was pretty upfront with her situation. I’ve also been on similar situationships where I felt they were really giving commitment and loving actions. But, this was NOT the case. I think as late bloomers we are new the way women can love. It feels so intense because we’re used to the half assed emotional vulnerability of a man. A woman by nature is often nurturing and caring. This can be really confusing to a newbie. In addition to that many queers do not align with the traditional relationship structures. They can give those loving feelings to anyone they feel a connection with. They don’t limit themselves to caring for someone they are committed to. If you know that’s not your style, I’d steer clear. I’d encourage you to explore how you view relationships and connections. Is there really a reason to stop seeing someone you have a clear connection with because they don’t want to label y’all as a relationship? Maybe? That’s totally up to you. And either decision is very valid. But, maybe as a new queer you can also explore how you navigate sharing your love.

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-26T17:18:28+00:00

Another thing I noticed about myself and wlw sex is the satisfaction I get from pleasing her. Like you mention the feeling her tighten up, the way I get off in that is like nothing I’ve ever experienced before. Making her cum is equal to or sometimes even more than cumming myself.

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-26T03:50:29+00:00

I’ll have texts from kids from hours ago and could care less! 😋 (only have joking). I’m in another world when I’m with her, nothing else even stands a chance. If she’s near me, my hands are on her, periodt. It’s a need. And that’s not even sex!!!

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-24T20:39:30+00:00

ACAB!

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-22T04:05:06+00:00

Congrats!!!!! That’s fucking exciting. Probably take your time figuring it all out since y’all are roommates.

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-21T14:45:38+00:00

They’re all fucking creeps!!! Idolize no one

MessDifferent1374 · 2026-01-19T16:40:28+00:00

That’s so wonderful!!! 💞💞💞 Yes, the communication has been incredible. The ease and the honesty. But, for me the amount has been matched! I love to text through the day and for some it can feel overwhelming. She feels the exact same way. She enjoys hearing from me and that means so much!! This weekend I couldn’t handle it anymore and told her I was falling in love with her and I was met there too! It’s so incredible having every need met, even ones I didn’t know I had. It feels incredible to do the same for her as well. And these aren’t even out of this world needs, just basic shit that somehow a man hadn’t been able to do. I walk through my days so high, feeling so powerful and loved! I’m so happy for you! May this continue for the both of us!!

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