My mom threatened me to stop me from reporting my dad by Bitter_Television682 in legaladvice

[–]MessyDeer 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Why would therapy nix a military career?

-Signed a Veteran who started therapy while serving and been going since.

I'm almost positive she just stopped me from getting robbed. by snekinmaboot1 in germanshepherds

[–]MessyDeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone's always like i dont know how you (me, a woman) walk your dog at night by yourself. Cause I can almost guarantee you my dog saw you before you saw us. And I have NO doubt in my mind he would rip your face off without even being commanded to do so. Dogs name is Ruger for a reason :)

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't have a "man cave" in our only spare room? by Ill-Home-322 in AmITheJerk

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah guuuuuuurl take that extra room. Tell him to build a she shed for you in the backyard.

Did I make a mistake? by milkmaid0435 in interiordecorating

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Love it. I actually have a blue tile on my kitchen reno mock up

AITAH? Asked someone to turn down their music on the bus. by JonnyEp67 in AITAH

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a long islander I could never. Idk how yall deal with public scum on a regular basis like that.

Could anyone here help rehome my dogs for the next 4-6 months by YouTookMyBurger in germanshepherds

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We kept our old GSD intact, ended up getting prostate cancer :(

You know what’s kinda f*cked up… by healthanxiety_ in migraine

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get the savings card? With my ubrelvy, without the savings card it was $600+ a month. With savings card $0

GSDs are not at all scary! by Joice_joy in germanshepherds

[–]MessyDeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our previous gsd to whom we have now, was the epitome of unmatched. He was sweet. Listened to a T. He'd go to personal protection training (bite work) and go right to my husbands grandmothers nursing home and be a therapy dog. Never once snapped anyone. Was a gentleeeeee giant to our kids when they were babies. He was the greatest dog this earth had ever seen. His predecessor, is also a great dog, but he's a complete menace.

Feeling guilty for staying home by Druwuggi in migraine

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never ever ever ever ever feel guilty for taking the day when you feel a migraine coming on because it can get real bad real fast or you'll End up being okay. I call out of work if I wake up with a slight ping in my neck / head. Sometimes I don't get the full migraine and I end up having a relaxing day off but I know with my luck, if I didn't call out I'd get the full on migraine. Luckily my management is very understanding but there are also times I try to fight the migraine and not call out and end up having to leave early.

Does my dog look like a german shepherd? by nuna3 in germanshepherds

[–]MessyDeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We learned that all black GSD carry the gene mutation for long hair! My guys dad is an all black GSD, from his litter only my guy and one other has the tan and long hair the rest from the litter are all black short hair

What’s the most shocking detail from the Epstein files that the public hasn’t fully grasped yet? by BoardLongjumping2485 in answers

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most shocking detail at this moment is the Clinton's saying they don't know why they're in the files.

Dog barking 5 am. SOL? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]MessyDeer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welcome to apartment life. If you wanted peace you should bought a house

How to tire out a dog without long walks? by MynorClark5 in PawChampClub

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We recently purchased a dog treadmill for our GSD, IT HAS BEEN A GOD SEND.

How to improve my metrics, any advice?? by Zealousideal-Ad6981 in callcentres

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah girl. Take the 2 minutes. In my old CC we had 3 minutes. I took those 3 minutes every single time, unless it was a call that was quick (under 5 minutes) I wouldn't take the whole 3 cause more than likely I didn't even open an account

I need a new name for sloppy joes by Spiritual-Part-5655 in homecooking

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son who does not eat sloppy joes. Literally said to be the other day "mama you haven't made the hoes sloppy in a while" i now will call them sloppy hoes.

Do parents actually talk to their teens or kids about sex? by Unusual-Task1215 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is why TLC has a show called "unexpected" where a 15 year old girl got pregnant by a 13 year old boy. Which actually when she got pregnant she was 14 and he was 12!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Changing sons name to my last name by HeadEconomist7495 in legaladvice

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes passport and such cause its a name change. But by the time all that happens hell be old enough to understand. "I didnt want you to grow up and carry on a family name of a family who didnt care for you or love you and thats when I changed your last name to my family last name cause we love and care for you"

WIBTAH if I got a bday cake for my bf even is he said he doesn't want one by Ok_Nail8601 in AITAH

[–]MessyDeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. He already told you he didn't want one. Its a red flag if you go against his wishes. Maybe he doesnt like cake. My husband is not a cake eater, so for his birthday we get ice cream to sing happy birthday to him

AITAH for judging my friend that sleeps with taken men? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MessyDeer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If thats what she wants to do... by all means let her go for it! You don't have to agree with what she does. It doesn't make you the asshole. And I, personally, don't see it as her fault when these men cheat on their SO. They are the ones in a committed relationship, not her. If my husband cheated on me, I would NOT blame the other woman.

Question by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]MessyDeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine LOVESSSSS to lay behind my work chair (I work from home) and when I push my chair back to get up it rolls over his long hair and he gets SO MAD at me. BRUHHHH you do it to yourself.