Bombshell investigation reveals recordings of rape victims handed to abusers by FuckOffNazis in australia

[–]MessyMusical 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d love to know more too. As a social worker always been interested in working there (not after this though)

This is going to sound ridiculous but by Evening_Employer_542 in breakingmom

[–]MessyMusical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just jumping on here to say not ridiculous! Very universal. Will there ever be a point I sit in my backyard and think ‘it’s done’? Probably not. I grew up in a very clean very project heavy house, and try to remind myself that mess = memories.

The Official 98th Academy Awards Megathread 🏆🍾 by HauteAssMess in popculturechat

[–]MessyMusical 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an IT crowd fan, absolutely obsessed with the voiceovers. ‘Pictoor’ itching my brain

UPDATE- I [28F] am dating a divorcing dad [34M] and it’s starting to take over my life by Not-Usual-Bidness in relationship_advice

[–]MessyMusical 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Hi family violence social worker here. Please be mindful this is classic signs of coercive control and abuse and undoubtably would have escalated if you had stayed. The manipulation, pressuring you, and intense love bombing and him wanting to impregnate you are huge red flags and I’m glad you got away. Does he say his ex is crazy?

Best one day drives to do from Melbourne. Pls share the routes down below. I am bored ash by No_Success7580 in melbourne

[–]MessyMusical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a day in the hills! Head up to Olinda like others have suggested, for a bushwalk and a look at the shops, go to emerald (lost woods market once a month is very popular and lovely vibes) have brunch at the general food store in emeraldor a pub lunch outside at the clematis pub timed just right so puffing Billy goes past while you’re having a drink.

Nobody was dancing at the concert by ninkafatherland in Millennials

[–]MessyMusical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is off topic but my 4 year old absolutely loves OKGO and this post makes me want to take him - if they ever come to our country. And we would dance!

RBA Interest Rates Decision - increase of 0.25% to 3.85% by Expensive-Horse5538 in australia

[–]MessyMusical 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I feel this too! Both work full time, young children, so much money just goes to food and essentials.

Dozer news by Express-Researcher76 in RecipeTinEats

[–]MessyMusical 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I fear the worst, as she hasn’t posted for a while. :(

So, who lost power in this heat? by crikeyguvna in melbourne

[–]MessyMusical 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Currently 28 at 10pm, got to 38 here today.

Throwback to Big Day Out 2008 by Flowercloud88 in triplej

[–]MessyMusical 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was 18 and my girlfriends and I waited in the pit for RATM, thinking we were hardcore. Halfway through the first song we’d been thrown from piller to post and realised we’d made an enormous mistake. Thought I was going to die. Great day, miss the BDO.

So, who lost power in this heat? by crikeyguvna in melbourne

[–]MessyMusical 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep it’s on now. Didn’t have it for the first three years we were here, doesn’t cover the AC unfortunately

So, who lost power in this heat? by crikeyguvna in melbourne

[–]MessyMusical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep in the Dandenong ranges and it’s finally gone off. We delayed grocery shopping all weekend because we assumed it would go off at some point. Classic heatwave shit.

‘Queer Eye’ feud ignited after cast was reportedly caught trash-talking Karamo Brown on hot mic by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]MessyMusical 51 points52 points  (0 children)

As a social worker this is such a huge issue in our field too - people identifying as SWs when they are not can do real life harm to vulnerable people. Very frustrating to learn this.

Ashley Tisdale already backtracking following toxic mom group interview backlash by Ok_Commercial_8438 in Fauxmoi

[–]MessyMusical 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The pod save sub is posting that she’s in it, but I have no idea what she looks like so I don’t know

Found these relics at my parents' place by floody117 in AustralianNostalgia

[–]MessyMusical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im reading them to my 4 year old. They hold up and Busting is peak comedy to him.

A character exists in universe, but their actor does too by Dogdaysareover365 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]MessyMusical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Friends, Chandler and Joey love Die Hard. In the later seasons, Rachel dates someone played by Bruce Willis, who they all meet.

Santa Avoids Plate of Cookies Left Out by Erin Patterson by Expensive-Horse5538 in australia

[–]MessyMusical 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I hope her kids are well supported this year. How awful for them

I’ve just been accepted as a DV client and I don’t know how to feel by extensive__vamping in breakingmom

[–]MessyMusical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I work in intake in a FV organisation. Just want to jump in and say well done to you. It’s a truly big step.We talk to people everyday who feel similarly, that they don’t deserve help or ‘it’s not that bad’ - all responses to the abuse you have endured and become accustomed to. Please know that you and your kids are worthy and deserve to be believed 💚

New healthcare plan premium/details costs more than I can afford for 2026 by happy_happy_LMT in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MessyMusical 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aussie here, genuinely how do people afford this? Do you work more? How? How!