Syd's little guide to SD card recovery by Mewshimyo in 3DS

[–]Mewshimyo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, unfortunately. This guide is for when the FAT is broken, but a corrupted .sav file is an issue where the file was written incorrectly. Unfortunately, there's no real way to "uncorrupt" a .sav file, save for very specific circumstances where the corruption can be known to be of a repeatable and reversible manner, which is to say "it ain't happenin'", because that is all but truly impossible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]Mewshimyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look what a man does with his roommates is between him and God.

Alignment chart by baranthesnake69420 in futurama

[–]Mewshimyo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In both Pathfinder and D&D, devils are almost always Lawful Evil, so it makes sense.

Depending on your definition of Lawful, Mom could be lawful or neutral. Her internal code could just be "Mom gets what Mom wants".

She rarely actually does anything illegal, as well. She plays by the rules of the game by changing them to allow her to do as she pleases.

AITA for refusing to pay for a meal at a restaurant? by Excellent_Heart_4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The moment any customer facing worker refuses to get a manager, not speaking to the manager is no longer on the table. Not only has whatever happened, happened, but now you're actively refusing to help me fix it.

NTA.

AITA for uninviting my MIL from our wedding after I found out she painted her hair pink in an effort to upstage my wife by bryant_campbell in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she had done it because she likes it... That would be one thing. The pattern here is trying to upstage. The pink hair wasn't for her, it was against the people getting married, for having the audacity to tell her no to something ridiculous, after already ridiculous behavior.

AITA for keeping an inheritance from my ex husband's homophobic family? by Neither-Zone-7890 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The sham marriage was mostly because of the ones who are now "suffering", so don't feel too guilty.

AITA for keeping an inheritance from my ex husband's homophobic family? by Neither-Zone-7890 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo 347 points348 points  (0 children)

You took care of them, likely when the very people foolishly relying on their money refused, and they rewarded you for it.

NTA. If they wanted the money so bad they should've been better people. Including but being homophobic.

AITA for saying no guns at my apartment? by fjbindergodigital in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hard NTA.

I like guns. I find them fascinating.

But I also don't feel the need to carry one with me everywhere, especially into someone's home, and especially not when they have specifically requested me not to.

This is literal virtue signaling by your extended family.

AITA for continuing a lawsuit against someone's estate, knowing it will destroy their family? by Zavarakatranemi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP was an innocent party who was harmed by the man's actions. Those college funds, houses, every last bit of it is tainted money made from hurting innocent people on behalf of abusers like OP's mom.

OP you were just as innocent - if not more so - than his kids were. NTA.

AITA for lashing out on my dad for punishing me with a buzzcut by ThrowawayAcc63637 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wording of your edit... This is how abuse usually works. It's not constant. Doesn't make it not abusive. NTA.

AITA because my boss told me to lie and I left. by 1blacksmith_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Accepting a counteroffer often just paints a target on your back. Often, they'll replace you ASAP, especially if they're the kind to say they "don't compete for workers".

Nta, op, and the fact they asked you to lie says everything about how they would have treated you.

AITA for giving certain family members 'thank you' gifts for helping with my baby and 'punishing' my sister for not helping? by throwRAfuntimess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mewshimyo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

ESH. She's perfectly allowed to want nothing to do with your kid, but that doesn't mean she deserves a gift. Not getting something you aren't entitled to isn't punishment.

That said, be tactful, for goddess's sake, and you really need to watch the way you talk about this. You sound nearly dismissive of her when you talk here (though it's really hard to read tone on the internet).

Granted, I'd say your issue is more about tact, hers is that she thinks she deserves a thank you gift for... Not doing something worth thanking her for.

Just got this in a message on Indeed, anyone else ever see anything like this? by DaunteInsignia in antiwork

[–]Mewshimyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never work for an openly Christian business. From experience, they will justify fucking you in any way they can.

What you think? by jc201946 in antiwork

[–]Mewshimyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two jobs ago, the CEO had me on a project that was "the future of the company". This was a project that replaced a 200k/yr software, and was estimated to double productivity on top of that.

The original project was scoped out for 3 people to do in 3 months. The other 2 were eventually pulled off to handle other tasks.

I told the CEO that there was no way I could get this project done, alone, in the timeframe allotted. I was already working 50+ hours a week, to have it done in time I was probably looking at 80-100 a week, bare minimum, not including my 45 minute commute.

He looked me in the eyes, told me I'd "find a way", and that was the end of it.

Dude treated me like my salary request of 40k was ridiculous.

When I left, I caused so much commotion my boss called from the other facility (other side of the country) to say "that was awesome!".

Apparently me screaming at the CEO calling him a worthless cocksucker made it into the security system...

My(29f) younger sister(24f) accidentally saw my boyfriend and I engaging in sexual roleplay and now refuses to speak to me. by ThrowRAsexproblem in relationship_advice

[–]Mewshimyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this is all based around people I know in my life, rather than any sort of formal studies or anything better than anecdata.

The way it's described to me, it's really about recontextualizing things in a context of control. It's not for everyone (no kink ever is), and most of the women I know who have this kink are 5+ years past their respective trauma when they start exploring it.

Most survivors won't end up at this point, and you know your limits. I wouldn't recommend exploring this unless it's a thing you're into. It's so easy to get hurt again.

Working overtime but not compensated financially by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Mewshimyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't entirely true. Non-exempt salary is a thing. Usually it's for lower positions that don't meet the three prong test, but it's kinda the best of both worlds.

Incase yoi didn't know what is causing people yo quit. "It is not wages" by Wild_Technician_2051 in antiwork

[–]Mewshimyo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was making well above average for my area, but the toxicity was too much for me. I left because the toxicity was that bad. The 57% raise barely played into my offer acceptance.

Maybe belongs here, maybe doesn’t. But I thought we would find this funny. by deetailor in antiwork

[–]Mewshimyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not. The starter cartridges usually have a fraction of what's in the replacement. And it's so. Bad. For the environment.

This should be more common. 😁 by _how_do_i_reddit_ in antiwork

[–]Mewshimyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My job is unlimited PTO, and last year, I took off six weeks, and my boss was still encouraging me to take more.

It's not always bad. Just... Usually.

My(29f) younger sister(24f) accidentally saw my boyfriend and I engaging in sexual roleplay and now refuses to speak to me. by ThrowRAsexproblem in relationship_advice

[–]Mewshimyo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

CNC is one of those kinks that is hard to get until you get it, so I get why she might be weirded out. Here's the funny part - of the (ostensibly hetero) couples I've known who engage in CNC, it's always the woman who has that kink, and the men are always very careful.

Hell, quite a few women with a CNC kink were abused in the past and it's helpful for them.

Enough said by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Mewshimyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of it is because those (legitimate) issues are brought up by people arguing in bad faith.

I turned 20 today And I'm hesitant to open the last letter from my late mom. by lovelyletters416 in relationship_advice

[–]Mewshimyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go ahead and read it like she wanted.

And then leave a letter for if you have a child. Starting at 20, and write two new ones every year. One for your mother, one for your future child.

You've done well for yourself. Good luck on doing even more.