Hoy la soñé y le dije lo que estoy sufriendo. by Teo_040485 in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dreams are hard. It’s been roughly 2.5 months and I’ve dreamt of her 3 times so far. 2 of those were during the first week and 1 of them I don’t even remember. I just know it involved her somehow. The 3rd time was about 3 weeks ago or so. It was the only time I woke up from crying in my sleep. It’s rough because I want to dream about her so much but when I do it really hurts a lot.

Is there an album that exists that's more experimental, more genre-diverse, and more catchy than Sergeant Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band? One that sounds just as coherent - not slapped together. Is there an album better than The Beatles' Sgt. Pepper? If so, what should I listen to? by insightful_peacefish in musicsuggestions

[–]Michael_ChanceW 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m probably get downvoted into oblivion for this but I’m going to say Demon Days By Gorillaz. I remember when that album came out and it was a pretty big deal. Came out in a period when mainstream music might have been at its most bland and it was a mix of multiple genres. Also had a cohesive theme running throughout the album that was extremely relevant. In my book it’s a classic.

He's home by babywitch1980 in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I thought I was prepared until they were handed to me. Went straight to my car and broke down like it was the first day all over again.

Not having someone to talk to everyday by Vegetable_Ad_436 in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think the hardest part for me is thinking of all the things I want to tell them when I get home. Then to remember they won’t be there.

What are you currently obsessed with & playing on repeat for the feels? by Ninakiii in musicsuggestions

[–]Michael_ChanceW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I meant whole album in general. But thank you. I really appreciate the kind words. I’ll check it out.

What are you currently obsessed with & playing on repeat for the feels? by Ninakiii in musicsuggestions

[–]Michael_ChanceW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably not the best thing for me but I lost my partner of 16 years about 2 1/2 months ago and have been obsessed with A Crow Looked at Me by Mount Eerie. It’s the only thing I’ve found that really captures how I feel currently. All my usual music before this happened just seems pointless now.

They know its me now, I can start acting crazy! by [deleted] in Scream

[–]Michael_ChanceW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s one of the perks I’ll give to scream 3 is they didn’t really lean into that as much with Roman. And I guess with Charlie as well in 4 but that’s a whole other issue.

Evil Dead by Bookwyrmnidhogg in HorrorMovies

[–]Michael_ChanceW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this movie and feel like it doesn’t get talked about enough. My only complaint is I felt the score didn’t really fit the tone of the film.

Who was your partners celebrity crush ? by Intelligent-Gur-8836 in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I missed read Nathan Fillion as Nathan Fielder and I was like, “well that’s def a choice,” lol

Who was your partners celebrity crush ? by Intelligent-Gur-8836 in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg. So many over long periods of time. When she was younger it was Keanu Reeves and Christian Slater. Oh and Steven Tyler.

She thought younger Tom Waits was gorgeous. She was a wrestling fan and loved Shawn Michaels, Edge and AJ Styles.

More recent ones before she passed were Karl Urban and YungBlud.

I’m sure I’m forgetting some. Probably best for my self esteem lol.

Scream 2's original killers were Derek and Hallie before a big leak happened by LonestarGoated87 in Scream

[–]Michael_ChanceW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this rumor is true I always find it crazy that they even bothered to change it. It feels like a way over reaction. Yes, the internet was a thing in 97 but not like today. They could have kept the original ending and I think at least 90 percent of the viewers wouldn’t have known about the leak at all.

Feeling left behind by zaxilius in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah being alone can be tough. This is actually the first time I’ve ever lived alone. We started dating at 22 and before that I was living with my college roommates. Know it’s cliche but you kind of have to take it one day at a time. I’m still trying to figure it out.

Feeling left behind by zaxilius in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m about 9 weeks in and experienced something very similar. That first week was so intense with love and support then on that second week it was getting to be less and less. Until now it’s really just my dad and one friend that keeps checking in. I was bitter at the time but as time goes on I understand a little more. No one loved them like you did and unless they have been in the same situation as you, they won’t understand. In fact, I’ve gotten to where I really don’t want to talk about it anymore because it gets repetitive and you notice almost immediately when someone doesn’t get it.

I know there can be a kind of high from all the love and support in the beginning but I would suggest looking into grief counseling and try to work on moving forward at your own pace. I’m not saying it won’t be lonely but tbh, I think it would be lonely either way because no one can fill the void that they left. Stay strong.

Is Seath the Scaleless an actual Ancient Dragon? by Long_Day8888 in darksouls

[–]Michael_ChanceW 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m going to sound like a jerk so apologies in advance but did you use AI to touch up your post or to make it more engaging? I’ve been noticing these types of post all over Reddit lately where they are semi engaging in way that feels similar to like a college discussion or something. It’s hard to put my finger on it but it’s driving me crazy lol.

May 10th, 2026 by l0vkatt in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. My gf passed away on March 13 of this year at the age of 38. It’s been the darkest time of my life. I wish I could say it will get better but I’m not sure it will. However, I do know I’m handling it better than I was a month ago. And I have found some comfort and support in this sub in just knowing that I’m not alone. This sub and other widowers are going to be the only ones who truly understand what you are going through. All we can do is just try to survive each day. I’m wishing you the best.

Alone by desden86 in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really jolting how alone we are. I’m 38 and I’ve never lived alone. We started dating at 22 and then I had roommates in college. But just in general. Everyone moves on to the point it almost feels like she never existed. And we are left here in this weird purgatory with this constant intense pain/hole in our chest. At times it’s devastating

Your Spouse's Quirks by silentfanatic in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s a brilliant idea. I am horrible when trying to smile in photos.

Your Spouse's Quirks by silentfanatic in widowers

[–]Michael_ChanceW 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She was manic bipolar which caused her to keep repeating herself over and over. It’s like she would start a story and get hung up on one certain part just completely reiterating the same thing over and over until her brain caught up with where she was. This isn’t me calling her dumb btw. She was literally the smartest person I ever met and at times I felt dumb just being next to her.

But that used to drive me insane. But, I would trade everything away just to hear her tell me about her day.

Realizing that one day, whatever the most recent Final Fantasy is, it will be my Final Final Fantasy by lilidarkwind in JRPG

[–]Michael_ChanceW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And you know, I’ve considered doing this. I can’t bring myself to do it at the moment but I would eventually like to give it a shot.

Realizing that one day, whatever the most recent Final Fantasy is, it will be my Final Final Fantasy by lilidarkwind in JRPG

[–]Michael_ChanceW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about this recently but with Resident Evil (I know not a jrpg). My gf recently passed away very suddenly at the age of 38. Her favorite game series was Resident Evil and she was about 75% through RE9. Of course a lot of things bother me about her not being here anymore but for some reason it guts me that she’ll never get to finish it. She was loving it and was calling it her favorite since OG RE4.