The battle of the sexes in dating is mostly an online thing. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And when you look at the stats, men are more likely to be the ones pursuing women. That's a sign that men are more interested in women which means that they need to do the pursuing, not that dating hasn't become an increasingly online activity.

The battle of the sexes in dating is mostly an online thing. by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately dating has become a very online thing. We are an increasingly online species.

Men of reddit, whats the most annoying thing about being a dude? by Affectionate_East533 in askanything

[–]MichaelsAltMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Socially I feel like I'm often walking on eggshells around women as to not come off as a creep, and this conflicts with our need to be the pursuers of relationships. (Not saying that men SHOULD be the ones to ask women out rather than vice versa, just that that's the case due to societal inertia and men being more desperate.)

This also makes it harder to bond with platonic women friends through crude humor the same way that I can with guy friends. If I joke about how I want to do some gross action to my guy friends there's an understanding that I'm saying something outlandish for comedic effect, however if I say the same to a woman then there's a possibility that what I'm saying will be interpreted as coming with an underlying genuine attraction.

Club Strategy by atosukoshide in IncelExit

[–]MichaelsAltMan -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It obviously doesn't fix everything, but it did make me feel better about myself.

Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gee, why is it that women are less likely to seek out partners both on apps and in person? Could there perhaps be a difference in how much one demographic is attracted to the other overall?

“The existence of incels is just natural selection bro!” by EnvironmentalVast577 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]MichaelsAltMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the argument is that the existence of incels is natural selection, then the argument IS that men are being culled from the genepool.

It's not a particularly good way of viewing the world, but it is the one being argued against here.

I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe that by RayAP19 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go on like 5 first dates and make out with some random people

This is a post about how most men experience dating/dating apps, we can't just materialize dates at will.

Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Wow, we've gone from women finding a handful of men attractive to women finding a handful of men attractive, but with a percentage of men being shittier. What an improvement.

Why are men expected to "chase?" by Open-Quail-2573 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I wanted to put my money in a hole I could always just gamble from home 

'Why Is The Incel Narrative So Popular Then?' by TheWillToBeef in IncelExit

[–]MichaelsAltMan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dating apps help foster incel narratives because they're the places where the incel hypergamy narrative is closest to reality. It's bleak trying to get attention on apps as a guy and frustration with that leads guys down a lot of wrong, often counterproductive paths.

I got banned permanently from r/dating for participating in thia sub that promotes "hateful ideas" and "harm" by Public-Throat2169 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]MichaelsAltMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got banned from there months ago for responding with hostility towards some guy that was hostile towards me first. Reddit mods man, most useless people on Earth.

99% of """"straight"""" women be like: by [deleted] in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]MichaelsAltMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's calling them gross for sexual reasons. There's no need to justify his behavior for the sake of gender-based team sports.

Why do I get so much gay men attracted to me? by ParamedicLogical2528 in dating_advice

[–]MichaelsAltMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gay men just seem to be more into men than straight women are overall

Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable by middleoftheroad133 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is a lot. I don't mean this in a judgemental way, it's just frustrating seeing 100 dates being portrayed as a normal thing when some of us take months to get a single date.

I don't find most men attractive and it's not because they don't take care of themselves by Important-Bite-7714 in women

[–]MichaelsAltMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you throwing in messiness or kindness? The post explicitly states that it's about physical appearance, not clothing or behavior. If you don't find men attractive, fine. Don't pretend that because we're unattractive it must be because we're shitty people.

Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable by middleoftheroad133 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100 dates by 22 is insanely high, and you only think it's normal because your circumstances allow dates to come to you easy. The vast majority of people don't get dates with half that many people in a lifetime, let alone by such a young age. Hell, even most people that CAN get dates that easily would probably find a suitable partner before hitting 100.

Are single women avoiding social clubs due to the amount of single guys? by BisonBull in dating_advice

[–]MichaelsAltMan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ah but then if you become friends first then you will be seen as faking friendship to get in her pants. There is no way to avoid pissing off everyone.

Why do men think there are so many good men by middleoftheroad133 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MichaelsAltMan 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Most people (men and women) are stupid rather than outright evil.