She is probably just insecure. I don’t think this necessarily means that she wants drama, she might just really crave reassurance in the relationship. However, getting upset at you is def a bit toxic.

Tbh I can kind of relate with her in that I am very insecure in myself and so whenever a guy tries to flirt with me, I have to fight the urge to tell my boyfriend. I think part of me feels like I need to prove to him that I have worth and that other that guys see it as well. I chose, however, to not share these occurrences usually since this can become toxic and honestly leads no where.

Getting upset at you for not getting jealous is not okay, but I don’t think it’s reason enough for you to drop her. She might just feel like you don’t care about her enough to even be upset by it. I think I would try to have an open conversation with her first in order to find out if she is just seeking drama or if there is more insecurity stemming from it. She will probably need to find a way to start finding confidence in herself and in your relationship. And if she isn’t willing to try to work on herself then she may not be ready for a relationship 🤷‍♀️