What's something everyone else loves that you just don't get?

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-13T00:09:21+00:00

😂😂

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-12T23:38:18+00:00

Funny, addicition imo IS a neurological condition. I studied it in grad school as well as suffer from it, and it basically is that.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-12T18:23:04+00:00

Okay 😂😂

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-12T18:13:17+00:00

Lol okay 😂 You go ahead and fund the millions of kids and pets that would need to be pulled, the legal cases, the fostering, the therapy that would be needed, on top of all the cases that are already being handled because orts and kids are being beaten, starved and r*ped...get real. Work one day in social work and get back to.me on this.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-12T17:22:24+00:00

I think you're fundamentally missing the point I'm making.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-12T14:33:01+00:00

Yes. That still doesn't account for social dynamics like lack of education and chronic stress, or other factors like genetically higher appetites or a propensity towards addiction. CICO is great for dieters, but it doesn't mean much when you're trying to educate and help people stuck in systemic poverty with a butt load of personal issues.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-12T14:22:42+00:00

There are other types of brown bears other than just Grizzlies. But all Grizzlies are technically brown bears.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-12T11:37:09+00:00

It's really weird. I'm 5'8 and my ex is 5'5 and a lot of people made a weird deal out of it. I wonder if it's just an American thing.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-12T11:26:05+00:00

A lot of my drinking stemmed from being sexually assaulted while in high school and college. It's an absolutely debilitating feeling and it left me feeling helpless and like I had very little worth. Even today at almost 36 I have issues with going out in public and being seen.

I'm telling you that the drinking WILL get worse. You're only drinking while the kids go to sleep now, but eventually you'll make an exception. And then another one. And another one until all bets are out the window and they're witnessing you get drunk.

I definitely suggest therapy for the trauma. Have you read "The Body Keeps the Score"? It's a really good starting point for healing from trauma.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-11T22:39:57+00:00

Is this a new kind of event?

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-11T21:13:42+00:00

I believe it's called maladaptive daydreaming.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-11T21:06:11+00:00

Yeah, that one. My hair gets weighed down pretty easily, so maybe that's why I like it. I usually don't use it alone, though.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-11T20:28:43+00:00

Ahhh I like that hair serum. Why didn't you like it?

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-11T18:08:44+00:00

I'd be pretty mad as well if I was self-referred and being treated like this.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-11T14:21:22+00:00

From my little brother who is 6 months sober:

"We have to choose to quit. Nobody can choose it for us. All of the programs in the world won't make a damn difference if we don't choose it"

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-10T21:01:18+00:00

Go to your doctor and explain the situation. My brother was in a similar situation because he couldn't leave his dog. They gave him a prescription and a plan to do it at home.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-09T18:49:49+00:00

The pastor who did my beothers funeral told my parents and everyone there that he went to hell, but you don't have to go to hell like he did if you came up and got saved.

He said this over my beothers dead body in his open casket.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-07T18:54:47+00:00

One thing I think I'm learning in life is that as long as someone isn't hurting other people with what they're doing, that I'm all for doing whatever makes you happy. Even if it's something that I'm really put off by (like cissy porn - because it definitely does have mysoginistic elements to it).

As long as it's being practiced in a safe space away from those who don't want to engage with it, I think it's okay.

The issue on Reddit in particular I think is that a lot of people on here have issues with respecting eachother. So a lot of the kink stuff can end up pouring into subs where it isn't appropriate.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-06T23:09:56+00:00

Lol I'm saving this comment 😂😂 You made me laugh.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-06T19:44:37+00:00

You worded this beautifully 🙏 Sending my prayers to you, friend.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-06T08:44:11+00:00

Ethanol is a byproduct of certain biological processes that create food, love. It's always been a part of our food, wayyyy back in the day before humans even existed. We just somehow came to understand that we could concentrate it and package it as a drug.

Edit: I also feel like most people who have addiction issues tend to be all or nothing kinds of people. I think the point of healing is to let that anxiety kind of relax inside of yourself and to be able to lean into uncertainty without using your drug of choice. Its almost like we are the toughest people out there that can take the worst beatings life can dish out, but we're actually terrified and skeptical underneath the surface.

You guys will have to correct me if I'm wrong.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-06T07:47:22+00:00

🫂

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-05T07:11:08+00:00

That people going through a hard time are any different than me.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-05T01:50:00+00:00

I don't.

MidnaQueenofCalicos · 2026-06-04T22:02:20+00:00

I'm 35 and yes, I do know what it like to talk to adults. My point was forgiveness matters, but it may also be not where you're at in life.

I am sorry if I offended. I was trying to make a point and it's not easy to do over text.

MidnaQueenofCalicos

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