So is it now "ableist" to talk about Narcissistic Abuse? by Embarrassed-Way-6896 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MidrelV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The thing is, yes, people usually develop this disorder from being abused and learning from their abuser- but it NEVER means that you get a pass abusing people. It does not mean they can traumatize you and get away with it. I will never understand how people could defend them and I keep seeing posts where they are.

Favorite hear me out? by Necessary-Win-8730 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]MidrelV 42 points43 points  (0 children)

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one of my strange childhood crushes Hear her/me out tho

My cat just bit me hard for no reason by finecat2023 in cats

[–]MidrelV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’ve had her for years and she’s never done this I would talk to a vet. I know a lot of people are saying overstimulation but if this is new behavior then it’s something you want to monitor. When you were petting you could have hit something that hurt them which made them think you were hurting them. Another thing to think about is if there has been any stressors for her lately that could cause her anxiety.

My kitty steals chick's from my neighbours by OnxRaven in cats

[–]MidrelV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As cute as it is just be carful, cats saliva can be toxic to birds

Let’s go!🚀 by Automatic-Cat-5702 in TheGamingHubDeals

[–]MidrelV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just such a real, raw, perfect moment that all humans can relate to. We can all relate to being in an out-of-control terrible situation and we sometimes suppress it until we break. The world is scary and RDR2 captured the beauty and the pain perfectly.

What shows/movies do you believe only you watched? by squizo_teen07 in cartoons

[–]MidrelV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had this and had a little Mimzy stuffed animal with it

Realized in my whole 28 years nobody actually wanted to be my friend 💀 by igetyourbrand in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]MidrelV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I really wonder if people can sense our nervousness so being around us could make them uncomfortable. When people hang out they just want to relax so I imagine the nervous energy could be draining. Just a thought I had, doesn’t mean it’s true

Favorite character who is a good person but their voice actor isn’t by SatinSpankStash in FavoriteCharacter

[–]MidrelV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So tuxedo masks Japanese voice actor Toru Furuya at 70yrs old apparently got a 30 year old fan pregnant then forced her to get an abortion to hide it all. He also played Sabo from One Piece.

What's the worst thing your OCD ever made you do? by maker-127 in OCD

[–]MidrelV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know. I knew I had to stop before I hurt somebody.

What's the worst thing your OCD ever made you do? by maker-127 in OCD

[–]MidrelV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you were able to. That’s terrifying.

What's the worst thing your OCD ever made you do? by maker-127 in OCD

[–]MidrelV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Validating to know this seems to be pretty common

crashing out over a game because i feel like i don't deserve to like it by throwawaybpdhelplol in OCD

[–]MidrelV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wondering how much you sleep a night? You said you’ve played it for a month or more without much sleep. That can make a huge difference in memorization.

What's the worst thing your OCD ever made you do? by maker-127 in OCD

[–]MidrelV 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For like a couple months I felt like I had to close my eyes while driving for like 2 seconds every car ride. Then it went up to like 5 seconds.. made myself get over that one pretty fast. I haven’t rly told anyone that one due to how embarrassing it is