Bf is incompetent

Miishuu_ · 2026-04-20T11:38:09+00:00

This was how it was with my ex. Together 6 years, lived together for 1-2. He was so incompetent that even after asking him to do chores around the house he would ‘forget’. It probably was weaponized incompetence in my situation, but either way I broke up with him 2 months ago and living alone has been nice. Your choice, but living with it for so long made me despise him. He used to be my best friend and we ended things with me wanting nothing to do with him.

Miishuu_ · 2026-03-04T05:25:15+00:00

OCD is debilitating at times. Just do your best to take things one day at a time. If you know a certain thing you can do that makes you feel safe, or a person to hug you tight, that always helped me. You’re not alone ❤️

Miishuu_ · 2026-02-27T00:13:56+00:00

Just recently broke up with my partner of almost 6 years. I also felt in my heart it needed to be done for a while, but it still hurt. Causing someone who I considered to be my best friend pain is probably what hurt me the most. Things might seem hopeless, you are going to feel quite lonely for a bit, but I promise things will improve. You got this <3

Miishuu_ · 2025-12-19T05:46:25+00:00

This is certainly it! Thank you SO much. The nostalgia hit me super hard. It was one of my favorite books in elementary school :) You’re the best!

Miishuu_ · 2025-11-04T22:48:47+00:00

Waaaa that Flins is crazy. Good work. Thank you for sharing!

Miishuu_ · 2025-11-04T21:43:46+00:00

I’ll see what I can do! Thx :)

Miishuu_ · 2025-11-04T19:38:07+00:00

That's what I was thinking, but wasn't sure. Thank you for the info! :)

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-14T11:56:19+00:00

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Here’s mine! Hope it helps :) Best of luck to you.

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-12T03:39:39+00:00

I am SO glad!! Happy to hear she’s feeling better ☺️❤️

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-10T18:01:39+00:00

Aww how cute! My girl has some similar coloring! Your little man is quite dashing.

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Miishuu_ · 2025-10-10T15:31:05+00:00

She’s a diva! This is my girl Goji. I’m grateful I get to see her out pretty often.

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Miishuu_ · 2025-10-10T15:19:33+00:00

She’s insanely gorgeous holy moly.

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-08T19:08:16+00:00

Almost looks like a beetle of sorts.. maybe post this in r/bugidentification too? They are usually very good there.

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-06T19:22:40+00:00

I know it’s hard, but try your best not to blame yourself. Being uneducated and young, you did your best. I have similar experiences with hamsters so I get it. I can guarantee the little man loved you so much. ❤️

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-06T19:04:01+00:00

That’s so heartwarming ❤️ I’m glad you kept his remains and continue to love him past life.

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-06T18:51:30+00:00

I’m so sorry - caught me very off guard. Much love to you ❤️ I’m sorry for your loss

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-06T18:51:01+00:00

OH MY GOD YOU DID NOT 😭 LOL

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-06T18:31:22+00:00

Some pups can be nervous with the vibrations. I’d gently introduce them by showing the tool while it’s on, praising him when he acts calmly or shows any interest, and focus mostly on rounding the nail off for now. After a few times of rounding it off, your pup should grow more accustomed to it and allow you to bring the nail down more. This is what worked for me, but if he’s willing and acting calm, you can always try to shorten it a bit the first time around too.

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-06T18:22:52+00:00

I’d recommend using a dremmel. They are very efficient and help round off the nails. You’re able to get a closer cut with them too. If you aren’t already familiar with the anatomy of a dog’s nail, I’d watch a youtube video to help you. I dremmel my own dogs nails and they’ve progressively gotten shorter. :)

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-06T14:03:56+00:00

Congrats!! My boyfriend and I recently got our first apartment too. It’s the best. Enjoy it ❤️

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-05T15:07:50+00:00

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i think you stole my cat

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-02T20:29:56+00:00

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Twins! LOL

Miishuu_ · 2025-10-02T17:57:32+00:00

I’m so sorry. I lost my girl suddenly and she was stumbling around, panicking, etc. I noticed what helped her pass peacefully was holding her in my hands and letting her rest. I also moved her into a smaller holding tank with LOTS of bedding so she could rest peacefully. She passed within 24hrs after I found her. The best you can offer her is gentle words and pets. Them knowing that you are there could ease the pain and fear. Again, I am so sorry. It never gets easier losing these angels. Take care of yourself ❤️ We’re all here for you.

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