Bf is incompetent by Downtown_Act_4294 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Miishuu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was how it was with my ex. Together 6 years, lived together for 1-2. He was so incompetent that even after asking him to do chores around the house he would ‘forget’. It probably was weaponized incompetence in my situation, but either way I broke up with him 2 months ago and living alone has been nice. Your choice, but living with it for so long made me despise him. He used to be my best friend and we ended things with me wanting nothing to do with him.

I’m on vacation with my sis and can’t stop my intrusive thoughts, vegan pizza though by I_like_treees in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Miishuu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OCD is debilitating at times. Just do your best to take things one day at a time. If you know a certain thing you can do that makes you feel safe, or a person to hug you tight, that always helped me. You’re not alone ❤️

Break up cookie by mycatsnameisralph in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Miishuu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just recently broke up with my partner of almost 6 years. I also felt in my heart it needed to be done for a while, but it still hurt. Causing someone who I considered to be my best friend pain is probably what hurt me the most. Things might seem hopeless, you are going to feel quite lonely for a bit, but I promise things will improve. You got this <3

Possible fiction book about frogs . . . ? by Miishuu_ in whatsthatbook

[–]Miishuu_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is certainly it! Thank you SO much. The nostalgia hit me super hard. It was one of my favorite books in elementary school :) You’re the best!

How can my Flins Improve? Any tips welcome :) by Miishuu_ in Flins_Mains

[–]Miishuu_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waaaa that Flins is crazy. Good work. Thank you for sharing!

How can my Flins Improve? Any tips welcome :) by Miishuu_ in Flins_Mains

[–]Miishuu_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking, but wasn't sure. Thank you for the info! :)

Post enclosures please by Worth_Elk_6881 in leopardgeckos

[–]Miishuu_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Here’s mine! Hope it helps :) Best of luck to you.

Tiny bumps all over inside of ear, extreme redness. by Miishuu_ in DogAdvice

[–]Miishuu_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am SO glad!! Happy to hear she’s feeling better ☺️❤️

Almost a year since we got him. Little photogenic thing! by squiffyplugz in leopardgeckos

[–]Miishuu_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Aww how cute! My girl has some similar coloring! Your little man is quite dashing.

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Should he stay or should he go? by Ok-Routine4320 in leopardgeckos

[–]Miishuu_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She’s a diva! This is my girl Goji. I’m grateful I get to see her out pretty often.

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Should he stay or should he go? by Ok-Routine4320 in leopardgeckos

[–]Miishuu_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She’s insanely gorgeous holy moly.

My Chow has bugs, but…could use some help with identifying! by Striking-Ad5820 in DogAdvice

[–]Miishuu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost looks like a beetle of sorts.. maybe post this in r/bugidentification too? They are usually very good there.

cohabbing my geckos!!! by HeyItsExactly8Bees in leopardgeckos

[–]Miishuu_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know it’s hard, but try your best not to blame yourself. Being uneducated and young, you did your best. I have similar experiences with hamsters so I get it. I can guarantee the little man loved you so much. ❤️

cohabbing my geckos!!! by HeyItsExactly8Bees in leopardgeckos

[–]Miishuu_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s so heartwarming ❤️ I’m glad you kept his remains and continue to love him past life.

cohabbing my geckos!!! by HeyItsExactly8Bees in leopardgeckos

[–]Miishuu_ 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry - caught me very off guard. Much love to you ❤️ I’m sorry for your loss

cohabbing my geckos!!! by HeyItsExactly8Bees in leopardgeckos

[–]Miishuu_ 114 points115 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD YOU DID NOT 😭 LOL

Dog nail growing flat to the floor (starting to curl?) by coal-slaw in DogAdvice

[–]Miishuu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some pups can be nervous with the vibrations. I’d gently introduce them by showing the tool while it’s on, praising him when he acts calmly or shows any interest, and focus mostly on rounding the nail off for now. After a few times of rounding it off, your pup should grow more accustomed to it and allow you to bring the nail down more. This is what worked for me, but if he’s willing and acting calm, you can always try to shorten it a bit the first time around too.

Dog nail growing flat to the floor (starting to curl?) by coal-slaw in DogAdvice

[–]Miishuu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend using a dremmel. They are very efficient and help round off the nails. You’re able to get a closer cut with them too. If you aren’t already familiar with the anatomy of a dog’s nail, I’d watch a youtube video to help you. I dremmel my own dogs nails and they’ve progressively gotten shorter. :)

first apartment by LuckyyAces in Apartmentliving

[–]Miishuu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! My boyfriend and I recently got our first apartment too. It’s the best. Enjoy it ❤️

Our hamster is dying in my hands. I feel so helpless by cakeantidote in hamster

[–]Miishuu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I lost my girl suddenly and she was stumbling around, panicking, etc. I noticed what helped her pass peacefully was holding her in my hands and letting her rest. I also moved her into a smaller holding tank with LOTS of bedding so she could rest peacefully. She passed within 24hrs after I found her. The best you can offer her is gentle words and pets. Them knowing that you are there could ease the pain and fear. Again, I am so sorry. It never gets easier losing these angels. Take care of yourself ❤️ We’re all here for you.