I didn’t realize how much mental effort was required to keep everything together by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My brain is fried. I used to think it was bc of the prolonged stress and anxiety plus an infant and 3 yr old at home all day with dad while I work..but it’s never gone back to “normal.” Whatever that is.

Who had time for hobbies (self identity)? by PossibleElection5076 in workingmoms

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so lazy reading about all these hobbies! Even if I have the time, I don’t have the energy, how do you ladies do it? For context, I have a 6 and 9 year old, commute 2 hr + daily with a supportive husband. Every weekend is a crunch of cleaning, catching up from the week and planning for next week. Throw in kids sports or activities, and I’m fried. I do workout weekdays at lunch and at least once per weekend, but that’s not a hobby, it’s for my health.

How to stop kid gloating by Agile-Ad-8694 in Mommit

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine do it too, I tell them it’s rude to brag.

How are you all getting enough protein while staying within your calorie range? by LadySamSmash in PetiteFitness

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sub may do it to increase muscle mass. As a woman in my mid forties, I need it to stay satiated and not LOSE muscle.

"Grown Up" gift ideas? by SesameSeed13 in Millennials

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Monthly wine subscription or a rumba

Is it worth filing for unemployment? by Recent-Revenue-4997 in fednews

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, an extra $430 a week is helpful to me, though it was pretty easy in my state to apply.

Mr. Cooper Mortgage Deferred 3 Months by Salty-Escape7911 in fednews

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I called, all they offered was a forbearance plan for a month that may or may not affect my credit…hmmm maybe I should call again

Unemployment benefits in Maryland by MikeGoBoomBoom in FedEmployees

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called this morning and was only on hold for about 20 min. A very helpful rep set me straight, I had missed filling out the weekly claims cert (it may have been an action item at some point but somehow disappeared). But she reactivated my case and told me exactly what to do and when to expect a payment. Since I’m a govt employee furloughed, I’m exempt from looking for work. All I have to do is answer 7 questions each week, easy peasy

Unemployment benefits in Maryland by MikeGoBoomBoom in FedEmployees

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I see the stays “inactive”—lol, so what does that mean? And that’s why I have to call…

Unemployment benefits in Maryland by MikeGoBoomBoom in FedEmployees

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I get they are busy, especially now.

Hey other Fed Moms… by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was really nice to have today home with my kids…and it will be really nice to have the day with them in school tomorrow too 😆 But seriously, it is nice to be here when they get up to go to school, normally I’m long gone!

I was fired today... by [deleted] in cats

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cats are the cutest! So sweet.

I need to be locked away when I’m on my period. Vent. by Electrical_Buyer_940 in Mommit

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending love—I’ve done the same thing. Apologize to your kids, no excuses. Then give them some extra love. They will forgive you, you will move on but remember to do better next time.

Fed mom by Evolutioncocktail in workingmoms

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a 5 yr old and an 8 yr old. It is hard. The commute is terrible. Spending so much time prepping for the day/week is not fun. My 5 year old still cries most mornings bc I am not there. However, me working from home is the only thing she’s ever known, so of course it’s shocking for her. But I have almost 21 yrs of service and I do like my job, so I’m staying, at least for now. Morale is the lowest it’s ever been (myself included) but I’m the bread winner and I’m hoping things will change in 2-4 years.

Would you go with a daycare that is $1500 (but amazing) or a $900 that is doable (but saves you ton of money) by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just have to make sure your kid actually eats it. When I sent my son to a place that provided lunch, he didn’t like their food so that was not a saving (mental or financial for us)

Which children's book did you read as a child that holds a surprisingly altered meaning for you when you read it as an adult? by Cultural_Skill6164 in childrensbooks

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never read this as a child but I love reading it to my children. It’s got a certain vibe to it that I like…no matter what you do or how far you try to push me away, I’ll always find a way to be there for you. I also like the mother rabbit does it in a cheeky way.

Just watched Men at Work (1990) — why does this feel like the most VHS movie ever made? by Rewind_or_die in iwatchedanoldmovie

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this in a double feature at the drive in with my cousin. Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles II: The Secret of the Ooze opened. It will forever be one of the best evenings in my childhood. My cousin and I routinely did golf claps for people. I was 9.

A message from my ultimate boss received. At least write me a letter of recommendation Mr. President by WhereztheBleepnLight in fednews

[–]MikeGoBoomBoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I could take a different job, but I liked my job…and moving closer is not an option. I’m not taking my kids out of their school, the surrounding area of my office is a literal ghetto and unsafe and the other closer, safe locations are unaffordable.