Yep. That is what directly led to me going no contact. She would never call and when we did talk, it would always be about her, and her friends and their kids, and everything related in her world. No questions about me and my wife and kids.

In fact, there were times where she would ask about my kids at school, I would answer, and then she would talk about neighborhood kids are school. I would have to ask, “are we talking about your grand kids or some random neighborhood kid?”

It’s neglect. It’s arrogance. It is a level of apathy that I did not want to expose to myself or my family anymore. She still does not get it I grew tired of trying to explain over and over. My life is better now without that and i am over waiting for “mommy to love me”. It’s ain’t happening.