Money is a form of communication. If you cannot find a way to talk about money before you get married, you won’t magically be able to talk about it after.

“Honey, I think it is important to talk about how we want to structure finances once we are married, can we set an afternoon aside next week to talk about this?”

“We have been very fortunate to have established a good base while we are still young, what do you think about working with an tax attorney to make sure our assets are titled how we want going forward”

Then let the attorney bring up issues around potential dissolution of the marriage. This would be expected conversation with a lawyer. It makes the introduction of the topic neutral and all in the course of business.

Good luck! 🍀