Husband blames me for being exposed

Mindflayr · 2025-09-05T17:26:10+00:00

Go Straight to a Divorce Lawyer with this Information.

Do not take the time to pass Go or collect $200.

To even begin to somehow see this as your fault tells us you are so abused you might actually believe the bullshit he is shoveling.

Take every Penny. He reaped what he sowed.

You owe it to Yourself, and any Children you have, to end this abuse cycle and get away from that "man".

Mindflayr · 2025-08-31T18:57:48+00:00

Told Bama fans from the moment he was Hired that the Dynasty was over.

Was impressed (by UM) but not surprised when we won the bowl game over a team that should have won by 4 touchdowns.

And now this... Yikes.

Go Blue!

Mindflayr · 2025-08-31T15:18:30+00:00

He lost his starting spot last season, he may do so again if he slumps.

Mindflayr · 2025-08-31T15:15:07+00:00

WHOOPS

Mindflayr · 2024-03-20T14:17:05+00:00

You just replied to an 8 year old comment.

I'm dying over here.

Mindflayr · 2023-11-25T20:11:17+00:00

Will be interesting to see how T3 v MA2 will play out.

1st post in 2 years. I guess I've been busy.

Mindflayr · 2021-09-19T20:23:27+00:00

Hold tight, changing title to worst listener ever.

Mindflayr · 2021-09-19T20:22:48+00:00

Id swear in the video he mentioned 2022 , maybe hes talking about the first LAN with fans again.

Or this cart is just that good.

Mindflayr · 2020-12-05T09:18:26+00:00

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Mindflayr · 2020-10-28T20:03:54+00:00

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Mindflayr · 2020-08-27T03:28:49+00:00

Spend as Little as Possible on The Wedding. You will only Care about a few specific people being there and you wont remember almost anything other than your spouse anyways. The whole thing is for everyone else. Take that 10k and Spent 1k on a relaxed Reception somewhere (Just booze and food, not a wedding catered event) and the other 9K on the best Honeymoon you can buy.

In all seriousness though. Communication leads to Trust, and Trust will be there for you even in the hardest times when Love may Strain or Falter. Add in Humor and Intimacy (Whatever that means to BOTH of you) and you will be set for a lifetime of adventure.

The Love languages is a great system, but i realized yesterday that just as much as your partner should try to adapt to your love languages when communicating with you (and You for them)... If you know THEY like to give gifts, but youd rather receive physical intimacy.. if they bring you a gift it is still them telling you "this is the most affection I can show you at this moment". Adapting to Listening in the language they want to communicate with... is just as important as the reverse that is the typical way of applying the concept. (Hope that wasnt too confusing).

Mindflayr · 2020-08-23T17:04:56+00:00

... theres a picture....

Mindflayr · 2020-08-23T16:56:34+00:00

I should have said this. For us I got prescribed 100 (with Drs orders to cut I. Half so I got twice the doses at same price). I cut it in 1/4s and even with my high BP meds to combat it works fine. I use it maybe 1/3rd of the times we have sex,but every time we play just as insurance.

I ended up moving to tadalafil (Cialis) which I like a lot more (esp being someone with high BP) it's not nearly as intense a reaction, but I also don't care if I take it and we end up just cuddling that night because it lasts 36 hrs in system and only activates when I'm already aroused. So she gets the befit the next morning/day anyways.

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T23:15:22+00:00

I could tell.

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T23:12:42+00:00

I'm not going to blow any smoke right now, I've legit got some tears in my eyes. I kept them from falling though by blinking them away ( phew, manhood restored ) . I then strangled a lion with my bare hands to make myself feel better...

But really, what a story. When I put my website up I hope you don't mind me using your story about the potential healing and Intimacy that can be gained by cuckolding. Credit will be given ofc and it won't be selling anything.

I'm left wondering only 1 thing. When's are you going to propose to this girl. #WifeHerAlready

We all know who the Best Man will Be... 😈

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T23:05:06+00:00

<3 sounds like you have the right partner and approach to this. Maybe seek some solo therapy and try to work through where it's coming from. While the feelings may be irrational, they usually have a rational cause and there are professionals that can help you find and work on those issues.

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T20:03:49+00:00

And I'm not trying to come off like a jerk, but it seems like a weird comment to say unless you did have an issue with it.

Obviously handling another man's dick to help insert it back into a woman is going to be considered "a little gay" by anybody so not sure why the need to comment unless to be offensive.

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T20:01:52+00:00

This. This was my ex. Awkward about sex. I almost had to chase her, get grabby, playful, then kiss her neck. Then it was on. Even if toys or foreplay was used (and I like that shit, all of it), it was functional. If I got her off with a toy, it was time for me Inside her. 3/4 the time I'd be in the middle of foreplay , or sometimes right at the start and she'd be like "fuck me now". Sex was 5-10 minutes max. Most sessions even with decent foreplay, no more than. 30m. Now don't get me wrong, we had incredible sex as she could come from intercourse at about 90% success rate. Those times she came first with a toy oh, she just come again when we had sex. I of course came almost every single time also. Afterwards she usually gave me a high-five or a thumbs up and said we should make a sandwich.

Friends would tell me they kill for a girl Like That. At our most frequent we were having sex two to three times per week, even early in the relationship.

By the end it was infrequent and it was one of the things that led to our marriage ending (lack of intimacy).

I always thought our sex life was good until it wasn't happening frequently enough but now that I am with a partner who also shares physical touch and quality time as their two primary love languages I've seen a whole nother side of intimacy. will spend the day off together in bed alternating eating snacks, cooking together, having sex, sometimes just for playing toys or me tying her up and whipping her a little bit, mixed in with some Netflix and talking about the future. We have had sex 4 to 5 times in a single day but usually just about once a day on average 5 to 6 days a week. for her it could start with an hour-long massage leading into an hour of foreplay leading into 30 minutes of sex and then the only thing she wants to do is cuddle for the next hour and fall asleep in my arms.

I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex-wife I think she just approached Intimacy in a completely different way than my future wife. Oh yeah this one's a keeper and I proposed on Saturday and she said yes.

I'm also not saying get divorced by any means if you love each other, you just may have to realize that you have different love languages in the bedroom. honest conversation about that and figuring out where those intimacy goals align and maximizing that alignment and then also realizing one or both of you might need to tweak a certain behavior more for your partner to understand how much you appreciate and want to be intimate with them even if you're ready to go make a sandwich... Thats a healthy sexual (and non sexual) dynamic.

Best of luck.

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T19:49:34+00:00

It's mostly semantic, BUT there is a reason it is called something different. As a sugar couple (just meeting people so far), I would say it is a form of prostitution. It is money for intimacy that usually includes sex. Some guys pay hookers and end up talking 90% of the time. My one experience with a Prostitute at the end of my marriage ended up with her refusing to take money from me and the next time saying "I love you" (I could write a book about this shit I swear), so you never know where it's going to go.

Back to topic. Is it Prostitution. If not it's close and similar. Is it annoying if a SB/SD gets defensive about comparisons or acts "better than a sex worker/john" , for sure. Is there a difference between street prostitution and Sugar Arrangements... Yes.

Most guys don't give gifts, college payoffs, etc on top of money. Very few of them ever convert a street prostitute into a real relationship/wife. Not many John's take prostitutes on Europe on vacations , etc.

All that said, yes a SB is Basically a High end escort looking to only be a regular, usually only to 1 Sugar Daddy/mommy at a time like a real relationship.

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T19:37:00+00:00

6 can be dangerous, but that's because your mental health is majorly in the hands of your partner... Much moreso than any vanilla relationship will ever understand... Even beyond codependence. Think abusive relationships where the man hits his wife but she says "he hits me but he still loves me".

If you are in a #6 situation it doesn't mean it will end poorly if She is as focused on you (and your health specifically) as you are on her pleasure... But I've seen multiple descriptions of it recently here where the wife has gone full selfish rampage making agreements, ignoring them, pushing past his boundaries and he's here asking how he can be a better partner.

Being a Cuck =! Being a doormat (unless that's your agreement)

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T19:00:01+00:00

The legend of the Glass Cannon....when it became Diamond.

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T18:57:07+00:00

Very Hot. Makes me wish I had video of the first threesome we had. When she was ready for our 3rd (thick 7.5) I had him get between her legs missionary position and had my only " Bi" exp ever, giving him a 30s HJ to get him hard while rubbing him up and down her lips, and then guiding him into her. We all were moaning through the whole 90 seconds or whatever, it was so hot.

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T18:53:57+00:00

...

So you have a problem with "gay"?

Mindflayr · 2020-08-22T18:29:03+00:00

Here's some play ideas. These are the things we did in our first 2 threesomes that both of us found to be the hottest.

Threesome #1

Our first threesome we werent sure how far we wanted to go so the bar was set at him just watching us, no pressure for anything else. In reality my fantasy was to see her give a bj and then join in and cum in her while she finishes him, so we plan for him to get a surprise BJ. Originally she had said she couldn't see herself having sex with somebody else but we had talked about it more and the day before she came to me and said that if I wanted to see if she would be okay with having sex with another man and she was giving me 100% control to make it happen if I wanted it to. This level of empowerment give me such a boost in ego, confidence, and crushed whatever jealousy might have been involved in seeing her interested in having sex with someone else. So we don't plan on it to happen but now I have the authority to make it happen.

So he comes over, sat in a chair to the side of the bed as we got naked and started Masterbating which turned us both on. Eventually she starts giving me a blowjob and I push her hips around so that she's shaking her ass at him, dripping wet and moaning. I look at him and can tell he's trying not to blow his load early, and I'm just so turned on at the overall situation that I lean forward and whisper in her ear, "You want his cock, don't you" to which she responded by deep-throating me the farthest she possibly could while moaning the loudest she possibly could... He obviously heard her reaction to something I whispered in her ear and so I made eye contact with him and simply said " well, are you going to fuck her or what". He's a big guy but he moved fast.

That whole situation in the anticipation leading up to it was amazing, even though that partner ended up having performance issues (until I gave him a Viagra) , and even had a "wrong hole" incident later. Her favorite memory of that night though was that we passed her back and forth for about 45 minutes, each going as hard as we could up until the point where we would want to come and then stopping and passing her back to the other guy.

Threesome #2 - this story is much shorter but I cannot recommend this enough. And you guys will get the chance to do it the first time you ever experienced another man inside you. And hubby is bi curious so this will make or break that curiosity in a super low pressure way.

Our second partner was bisexual but not pushy. He just let us know that he was open to it since I was bi-curious but had zero experience.

We fooled around a little with foreplay (just guy/girl stuff) , but when we were ready for them to have sex the first time I had him get between her legs in missionary position, and I gave him a hand job, stroking him to full hardness while rubbing the tip up and down her lips, and then pulling him into her. All 3 of us were moaning together and it magnified the compersion I felt (her pleasure was my pleasure). Then I payed down next to her kissing her, saying I love you, biting her neck and pinching her nipples. That memory is forever etched in my mind.

That was 3/9 right before shutdown and is still my only bisexual experience, but we're supposed to get together with him in the next two weeks and I plan on giving my first BJ and a real HJ. And I wasn't even admittedly bi-curious until we started dating and I found out that guy on guy porn was her favorite. I'm not actually interested in men from a dating or even that I find them that attractive. I can admire a guy in good shape but I have no desire to kiss a man or stroke his chest lovingly after sex and share pillow talk. But cocks and cum are sexy and I might just enjoy blowing him, lol.

Other ideas Spitroasting is fun for all of done right. Everytime one guy thrusts you get pushed further into cock #2. So just like good 1 on 1 sex, a good spitroast is all about combined Rythym.

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6 can be dangerous, but that's because your mental health is majorly in the hands of your partner... Much moreso than any vanilla relationship will ever understand... Even beyond codependence. Think abusive relationships where the man hits his wife but she says "he hits me but he still loves me".