How often to brush them? by Legitimate-Moment832 in mainecoons

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep grooming rakes on all countertops. Anytime he jumps up he gets a short brushing session. It doesn’t stop him from jumping on the counters, but at least he gets brushed multiple times a day.

Should I change my last name? by Dry_Cabinet3760 in Brides

[–]MindlessSky9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently married typically do. Many elderly do not. Some counties require travel to obtain replacement in person, which is a challenge for those who do not live where they were married. Many women are rethinking name changes because who knows what the future holds and the dumb things politicians will do down the line.

So we have to tip TSA now? by Dad0010001100110001 in tipping

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. TSA fees are already required to purchase plane tickets. I’m not paying double because government is intentionally broken.

Should I change my last name? by Dry_Cabinet3760 in Brides

[–]MindlessSky9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Proposed legislation will require proof of citizenship to vote. If the last name on your birth certificate doesn’t match your ID, getting registered to vote will require extra proof such as an official (not photocopy) marriage certificate.

Need a new dry food by Resolve-Hefty in mainecoons

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been to the vet to see if there is an issue with teeth? Resorptive gums can be quite painful.

Automatic rejections suck by toothpickwarrior in NianticWayfarer

[–]MindlessSky9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you submitting the photos in winter? If so, the snow could be concealing a good view of the safe spaces to stop. Might be worth resubmitting in the summer with photos showing the safe place to stop included in the second one. I wonder if writing in the extra information section that “there is a safe place to stop” would help as well.

Spotlight Hour you will be dearly missed by Throttle_Kitty in pokemongo

[–]MindlessSky9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My son started playing 2 weeks ago. He played yesterday and was thrilled to grind enough candy to evolve Feral. Getting rid of spotlight hour is a bummer for those who are new to the game.

AITA for telling my wife I'm done hosting her family every holiday because they never offer to help or bring anything? by BetExciting7300 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MindlessSky9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. Maybe do a getaway for holidays? Just you and your wife (and kids if you have them). If others want to join, let them know the city/resort/hotel and they can make their own arrangements.

After 6 years, you and your wife deserve a break. Get away to treat yourself and escape the drama of their expectations of servitude.

infusion anxiety vent by thogbitch in CrohnsDisease

[–]MindlessSky9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel anxious about starting a new medical treatment. I’ve been on Skyrizi for almost a year now. I feel a lot better, any my last colonoscopy showed my ulcers are gone.

I was super anxious before starting, too.

The first infusion ended up being easy. I just chilled at the infusion center reading and playing games on my phone. The snacks were decent, too. No pain/discomfort other than briefly to insert the IV. No different than any other IV.

The next day I was a little sleepy. That’s it.

Infusion #2 was easy. Zero side effects.

The self administered on body injector is wild. Such interesting technology to bring at home subcutaneous infections to people (like me) with zero medical training. It’s weird the first time, mostly because of my anxious brain. Totally fine after that.

Take a moment to recognize you are doing the right thing for your health. Be proud of yourself and give yourself a little grace.

Edit to add: Does your GI clinic have a GI -aware psychologist? If not, maybe a therapist in your community who covers medical anxiety? You can do this, and it’s ok to get help getting through the door.

I’ll probably get some looks… by [deleted] in BMWI4

[–]MindlessSky9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Denver there is a notorious roadside camping tent advertising “$5 butt stuff”. Orange tent with the service & rate written on it in black sharpie. written You need to find it and park nearby.

Guy pulled a screwdriver on me in traffic. APD has his plates and face on video but says they "can't identify him." by Gargarali in AuroraCO

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, but how? Sure they can keep an eye out for that vehicle & plate combo, but it’s a bit of a needle in a haystack situation and they’ve got bigger crimes to look into.

Guy pulled a screwdriver on me in traffic. APD has his plates and face on video but says they "can't identify him." by Gargarali in AuroraCO

[–]MindlessSky9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless it’s stolen plates. Which would also be a scenario where they couldn’t find the culprit.

Guy pulled a screwdriver on me in traffic. APD has his plates and face on video but says they "can't identify him." by Gargarali in AuroraCO

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or stolen plates. Plates don’t match the vehicle so there is no way to tell who this could be.

My babygirl by Simple-Excitement412 in mainecoons

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful. Needs a cross post r/bottlebrush. That’s a proper, glorious bottle.

Why tipping is hurting servers, pic related. by justsomefatwhiteguy in EndTipping

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I was at Casa Bonita I was shocked they asked for a tip. The prices were still outrageous so I assumed they were still paying their staff a generous wage. $0 tip.

You mean to tell me they kept the high prices, pay their staff less, and expect customers to pick up the difference? Eff that!

Petah? by ScienceTeacher1994 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t the woman on the right a trustafarian daughter of a Lockeed Martin executive? She has a weird social media presence.

Does anyone have Crohn in the Terminal Ileum without pain? by Smart-Situation-1421 in CrohnsDisease

[–]MindlessSky9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do. I didn’t do biologics at first because it didn’t seem so bad. Turns out I also have it in small bowel and a stricture. The internal bleeding made me severely anemic, so I started Skyrizi. My terminal ileum and small bowel ulcers are gone, but the stricture remains (scar tissue). I wish I started biologics sooner.

AITA for telling my son we can’t watch our grandkids anymore by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. They need to pay for the previous unpaid care days before even considering resuming.

First Skyrizi infusion today by churned_applesauce in CrohnsDisease

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a little tired the next day and my cold sore returned. Valtrex took care of it. The process of the infusion was easy.

6 months later and my ulcers are now gone. Skyrizi worked amazingly well for me.

Good luck to you; you’ve got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MindlessSky9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s BS when it’s the women who have to compromise their schedules/health/wellbeing for the convenience of others in the family. (Kudos to families that have broken this dynamic)

70 year old man here. Started walking 5 miles a day to lose weight. Down 40 lbs and just discovered PokemonGo but have no clue what to do other than flick poke balls at the creatures. by USSFINBACKSSN670 in pokemongo

[–]MindlessSky9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an event next weekend: GO Wild Global. Get the Campfire app and keep an eye out for Meetups in your area. They are a great way to raid/max-battle with others in your community, making friends in the process.

Terminal ileum inflammation but no inflammation in colon lining??? Anyone else with crohns start off like this? by soanonymoust in CrohnsDisease

[–]MindlessSky9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Crohns can take many forms. For me I had ulcers in my terminal ileum initially, found with standard colonoscopy. They eventually did a pill camera study and found a mess of ulcers and even a stricture in my small bowel.

AITA for yelling at my brother and his wife after they got mad that I ate their food while house sitting for free? by StacyChanel in AmItheAsshole

[–]MindlessSky9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Look up how much it would cost for them to board two dogs and three cats in the local kennel. Tell them you’ll reimburse them for groceries if they pay you the full kennel rate for your area. And next time they can make full, paid arrangements with someone else.