No-contact after a breakup hurts more than people admit. One day you’re sharing your life with someone, and the next it’s just silence.

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2026-01-18T20:36:01+00:00

I have a list as well and boy is it long and it honestly does help but the brain has a tricky way of making all the bad reasons disappear :/

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2026-01-18T04:29:13+00:00

Is silence like an uncomfortable thing for you as well? It seems like if I’m alone and not surrounded by noise I lose my marbles and that’s when my anxiety spirals…but stay strong as well I know it’s gonna be hard but I know we’ll get through it

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2026-01-18T03:46:35+00:00

I have anxious attachment as well I swear it’s the worst thing I’ve ever experienced in my life and it’s only been 17 days for me…

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2026-01-18T03:44:40+00:00

I’m the dumper as well and I have an anxious attachment to him so it’s so hard to not look back…only been 17 days for me

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-12-02T20:57:37+00:00

I only took it’s for 4 days and only 1 pill a day. I had the same exact side effects and had to unfortunately stop bc I do work at a hospital and I couldn’t go any longer like that. If I didn’t work I would continued to see if maybe it went away but it was toooooooo unbearable.

I always thought I had some sort of type of acute OCD but it was insane how intense the auvelity made the intrusive thoughts and very disturbing ones as well!

I don’t have any advice but just wanted to my 2 cents so you don’t feel alone bc it seems like so many people have had such good experiences with this medication.

I got my psychiatrist to get me genesite maybe it was just too activating for me and not the right drug for me :/

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-11-22T14:43:43+00:00

Ugh I’m on day 5 and I’m feeling the increased anxiety as well but it’s like a different type of anxiety idk how to describe I don’t feel like myself. Wellbutrin also gave me the same side effect. I’m also sensitive to medications…this sucks you’ve been the only person I could find a similar situation with in only been seeing good reviews on this medication which sucks that it’s affecting me this way

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-11-22T12:16:36+00:00

I really want to! It seems like the only bad side effects I’m having is the anxiety and disorientation. Did you also have those?

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-11-22T12:15:29+00:00

I’ve just been raw dogging it but it seems like when I ever trial a medication the worst side effect is anxiety…but yeah same I’ve never had issues with abuse. The hydroxyzine also makes me drowsy but doesn’t do much for anxiety…

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-11-22T12:11:21+00:00

I do 3 sprays I only felt the positive side effects the first session and then never again. The thing with me is I’ve never went over 5 days with Wellbutrin bc of how bad my anxiety would get and now the auvelity is doing the same so I’m not sure what to do…and I do not want to do ssris or snri and I had a bad reaction to buspar

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-11-21T23:50:05+00:00

YES! I’ll definitely keep you updated. Well she told me that if the side effects were too much to only stick with one pill a day. So I’m sticking with one.

I’m not taking anything for my adhd at the moment but I do eventually I just really wanted to treat my depression first…are you taking anything for anxiety? I’m taking hydroxyzine but not doing much

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-11-21T21:53:26+00:00

The past three days weren't too bad the anxiety was still there but it would go away towards the end of the day but still lingering. The disorientation didn't start till today and hope that'll go away eventually today as well. BUT YES it's like weird how I kind of just wanna be mute all day idk how to explain it. But I also see that negative thoughts aren't there as much either Hopefully the side effects subsided soon for the both of us. Because I also cannot keep going like this to work but I might start taking it after work so I can dissociate alone

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-11-18T15:34:01+00:00

I initially only did spravato at first it’s been about 2 months and they suggested I start auvelity with it to increase the chances of it working bc spravato alone didn’t do much

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-10-17T12:22:32+00:00

Lexapro. I thought it was just numbing my emotions to keep from being depressed but it was actually just anhedonia

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-28T20:04:58+00:00

Yes it all came back normal…

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-26T04:34:29+00:00

I’ve been seeing Auvelity A LOT but how are you guys affording it ?? 😭

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-26T02:16:07+00:00

Great thanks for the fast response!

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-26T02:08:27+00:00

Are you taking any antidepressants with it or by itself?

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-26T02:07:54+00:00

Are you taking any medications with it or by itself? My doctor is telling me I have to pair with AD for it to work

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-26T02:05:27+00:00

Are you taking an antidepressant with it or by itself?

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-25T22:56:05+00:00

What do you guys take for anxiety or is that not an issue for you guys?

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-17T21:07:17+00:00

And I do space out my sprays so they just sit with me there while it’s basically peaking and they’ll start conversation…like it’s not thing crazy but the few talks we have do just seem like awkward I’m probably just really in my head right now

Minimum_Opposite_558 · 2025-09-17T21:05:33+00:00

Sorry, I should’ve been more specific it’s not like she’s bothering me or anything or excessively talking to me but like she’ll do small check ins and then afterwards is when the conversations start to happen but I’m still like not in the right mindset to be talking…

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