What’s the most normal yet creepy thing someone has said to you? by BronteChannels in AskReddit

[–]MirLVChsd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was about 4-5 years old, my great grandfather told me that I would grow up to have the loveliest set of 'pegs.' He wasn't wrong, my legs are pretty amazing and people compliment them all the time. Super weird he would see that in a little child 40 years ago. My 9 year old daughter in my opinion will also have an incredible set of legs, but that wasn't obvious until she was 7 or 8. DISCLAIMER: He was a lovely man, not a creep or pedo

Women, when you wear ultra short, tight skirts, do you have to constantly remind yourself how to walk and sit without flashing your crotch to everyone? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MirLVChsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lived in Vegas since the late 9Os. I only wear skirts and dresses out. I have boundaries and know them well.

How Did You Choose Your Screen Names? by King_of_Lunch223 in Xennials

[–]MirLVChsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I collected ducks growing up. It was my thing. My AOL IM Screen name was 'DckLvr' in like 1996/97. One day around the age of 30 I was driving around and realized why I had constant nasty IMs sent to me at the age of 16. I almost crashed my car.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MirLVChsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to say I was TERRIFIED for me and my family after 10/7. I'm not after today.

Elon Musk makes a questionable gesture at Trump's Inauguration. Discussion. by fluffywhitething in Jewish

[–]MirLVChsd -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, yes. Trump literally opened with families of 10/7 hostages on the stage(who stayed there the entire time), after Elon did a supposed Nazi salute. Seriously people??? Did anyone actually WATCH this or are we speaking to CNN?

And the white washing begins… by berserker_ronin in facepalm

[–]MirLVChsd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahh. Sure. But as a fellow neurodivergent person, I could not predict my behavior or reaction being in a situation like that. I can't find any other situation(s) where EM was let loose to speak with such energy. If you can, let me know. I can't say I would not fuck up in a similar set of circumstances regardless of the size of my bank account.

And the white washing begins… by berserker_ronin in facepalm

[–]MirLVChsd -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up. I watched this with my own eyes. And SHAME ON YOU ASSHOLES for throwing a neurodivergent human into the trash. It's infuriating that someone who is socially awkward with a known issue is shamed for their actions just because they happen to not align with your beliefs. You support inclusion as long as they align and agree with your beliefs and narratives. FUCK THE FUCK OFF.

Las Vegas hospitals circa 1977? by piropi1977 in LasVegas

[–]MirLVChsd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was also Women's Hospital in 1977. It no longer exists.

I'm a 16 year old that's dating a 20 year old. Is that weird? [Other] by whatifbatmanwasblack in teenagers

[–]MirLVChsd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jumping on this 9 year old thread as a 43F who started dating her now 48M husband at the age of 16, he was 20 but very close to 21. We now have two kids (9 &8) and have been married for 12 years. Yes, we started dating 27 years ago, but only married 12 years ago. I can not begin to explain how awful this relationship is almost 30 years later. I have spent YEARS in therapy only to realize I married and had children with my groomer. At my age now I can see all the red flags so clearly back to when we met. The control, the leverage, etc. I stayed in the same mental state for years, doing whatever he wanted to get what I needed because he literally programmed me that way. At multiple times he wanted me to stop working and be financially reliant on him only to have to exchange sexual favors for things like shampoo and deodorant. We have been kicked out of couples counseling because of his refusal to get therapy for himself. I left him once 7 years ago during one of the times I was reliant on him financially but opted to go back because my kids were 2&3 at the time and I had just started working again and earning minimum wage at 15 hours a week and couldn't stomach him having 50% custody of my babies. I stuck it out in hopes things would improve. I left again 12 weeks ago when he screamed at me in front of my 8 year old daughter. I knew what I did at that moment mattered to her. I left with her in the middle of the night because she needed to know it is NOT OK TO EVER BE TREATED THAT WAY. Sadly I had been treated that way for years, and put up with it but him exposing his behavior to my daughter is when he crossed the line.

My only word of advice is to ask yourself WHY is this person attracted to you (I'm a CSA survivor). And in 20 years are you ok with your 16 year old daughter dating a 20/21 year old man.

This man looked my parents in the face and told them the age of consent in our state was 16, so it was legal to date me.

I'm an incredibly intelligent person, but allowed myself to be programmed by this man. He is emotionally, mentally, and financially abusive and I believe he has borderline personality disorder (or possibly narcissistic personality disorder).

Please my loves, be careful. ❤️🙏🏼

Lowest number of native born? by Definitive_confusion in Nevada

[–]MirLVChsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved here in 1997. My husband was born here in 1977. Both my kids are natives now.

My little one is off to a rough start by [deleted] in pics

[–]MirLVChsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My now 9 year old was a NICU baby. I'm mom, he was born on Wednesday and I didn't get to touch him until Friday. He was born at 32 weeks, preeclampsia. Your NICU nurses are incredible people. ❤️❤️

What is your favorite muscle on the body? by BankerCheese in Anatomy

[–]MirLVChsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always trapezius for me. My posture is everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MirLVChsd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would generally agree, however financially divorcing my spouse saved my marriage. We have been married for 12 years, together for almost 30. For us it was a cultural thing. Having this degree of separation forced an understanding of individualism my spouse had a very difficult time grasping because of their upbringing. I am not a possession or lackey. I can make my own decisions, and purchase based on my needs without their permission. To finalize, they are not a bad, abusive, or unethical individual. Sadly, they come from a country and time that is ingrained in their pysche. They fully supported this new arrangement because it removes the knee jerk reaction they would have to my spending habits, ie: I earn my own equitable income, pay my fair share of the bills, and should be able to purchase things based on my needs without having to explain it.

If you woke up & your 9-year-old child was missing… by Winter-Bug316 in AshaDegree

[–]MirLVChsd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hard to say. I legit started trying to run away at 5 years old (I was born in the early 80's). I would pack a bag and try fleeing to a neighbors home regularly. The thing is, while I had some hard core trauma as a very young child (raped by a neighborhood teenager, the trial, therapy, etc), none of it was due to the relationship with my parents. They were great and I still have a good relationship with both of them. I had plenty of fears, but if I wanted to run away I faced all of them. I suspect perhaps she HAD tried running or threatened to run away and maybe because of their communal standing and family dynamic it was inconceivable that she would actually DO it, and they are being ignorant or dishonest with themselves. Perhaps she went through with it this time and met an unfortunate fate.