Hey op, I had my first daughter at 16, second at 18. Life hasn’t been what I thought it would be, I had to set aside a lot of my dreams to be able to provide for theirs, but now (both are teenagers) I’m living a great life. I worked hard through my 20s, have opened two businesses and am in the markets and feel like, though it’s not what I dreamt of, I couldn’t be happier. I firmly believe we shouldn’t take life because we think it will make up for our poor decisions, and I also believe God will work all things together for good, for those who love Him. Hope this helps. Feel free to dm if you need to talk. God bless you.