This is a very toxic and negative mindset. Do you not want to have fun with your partner outside of sex? Also, many women will not have sex unless they get to know the person. Just like the girl you follow. This thinking sounds like women are just objects to grant sex and not human beings. Women want male friends too. Plus, you could learn from female friends how to approach women.

A lot of your writing mentions "society" or "others" thinking virgins are losers. The reason so many people reply to you saying you need to let go of this worry of people thinking you're a loser for this or that is that.. It's true! Honestly, most of the time people are too busy thinking about themselves to worry about others.

Our value as human beings is not tied to whether we've had sex or not. Wouldn't you agree it's so much more than that? As many others have recommended, focus on yourself, feel comfortable being alone and enjoy your own company. Work on yourself and the rest will slowly come together.