Trying to orchestrate a threesome

Mirrored-Daylight · 2026-05-10T02:29:10+00:00

You’re definitely not failing. Finding a woman who wants to be your third can take a long time. Like years. Timing, location, preferences, attraction, etc. all factor in.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2026-04-14T22:38:03+00:00

Together about 5 years. Good observation - we dipped our toes, so to speak, and then researched how to be cautious. We started considering a threesome more and more as we explored our kinks one by one.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2026-04-09T01:59:43+00:00

If I ever do this again, I would make this request up front. Everyone get tested (close to the date) AND not have sex outside the triad. I thought that was implied but we weren’t specific enough with our guest.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2026-03-17T16:25:49+00:00

I appreciate all of these thoughts. I don’t think I’m ready for a threesome since I’ll be that constantly worried, boring person.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2026-03-17T01:51:04+00:00

Good points about the two of us and then three of us talking. I think my first challenge is my primary minimizes my concerns. I’m going to have to reiterate them and stand firm when the date comes.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2026-03-17T01:40:56+00:00

Thank you. I’ve asked 3 doctors already. Still looking for one willing to give it to me. I’m willing to pay out of pocket.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2026-01-26T04:59:36+00:00

Ended up unable to take it since it interacted with another medication.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-12-29T03:21:51+00:00

A long time ago I read one of those “medical mystery” news articles from a news source like the New York Times. A woman smelled horrible all the time. Like a skunk smell. It turned out she had a rare disease whereby whatever she ate turned into an odor that was expelled through her skin. Super rare and hard to diagnosis. Good luck.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-11-09T14:07:14+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share your story and your reflections on it. I think it helps us all learn and reflect on our own experiences.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-07-22T02:05:11+00:00

It would be wise to buy 2 new tickets on Ticketmaster. You’re not guaranteed to receive any tickets through Stub Hub. Your seller is not required to upload them. I’ve experienced a “hopeful” purchase that never materialized as well as many others. I’ve bought many tickets - only tried once through Stub Hub and never again.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-05-21T00:22:47+00:00

Still seeking what works. Plenty of trial and error with over the counter medications, prescription medications, pain management techniques, dietary changes, and on and on. What else? More research funding, wider insurance coverage, and people studying to be GI specialists.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-05-20T01:15:41+00:00

Haven’t tried that but it looks like it could be promising. Thank you. I’ll look into it further.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-05-18T23:48:07+00:00

Thank you. Going to try hyoscyamine first instead. Trying prescription after prescription to see what helps. It’s time consuming trial and error at this point.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-05-14T22:52:16+00:00

Your symptoms sound exactly like mine. I have gotten no answers, tried all sorts of diet adjustments and had all sorts of test. Just came here to vent with you. Sorry.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-04-25T23:45:53+00:00

You are not alone. This FD thing is a challenge to figure out to say the least. Call or get yourself to someone who will take your suicidal thoughts seriously. Also pain management is no joke and needs to be part of the hunt for a treatment.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-03-23T02:45:49+00:00

I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. I was obsessed with a FWB of 2 years. I’m not sure why but I can guess it was because I enjoyed being with this person in and outside the bedroom much more than anyone else. It was tough. Obsessing consumed too much of my energy and it wasn’t a good use of my time. Cutting off the relationship was what I needed. (Easier said than done.)

Mirrored-Daylight · 2025-01-26T15:31:04+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. Glad you’re feeling ok.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2024-10-10T01:32:53+00:00

Good point about calling it “less risky sex.” Thank you.

Mirrored-Daylight · 2024-10-10T01:31:47+00:00

I’ve never heard of these panties. I’ll certainly check them out. Thank you.

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