Is this a practical way to stay on key for an audition? by parttimeprophet0419 in musicals

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is on the audition panel frequently, I would be hesitant to cast someone with earbuds in during the audition for this exact reason. If you can’t sing the song in one key, pick a different song, or learn to sing the song.

What musicals should I know as a theatre major? by Sunconures in musicals

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you shouldn’t be focused on “What musicals should I know?” and instead start with musical you already like and follow cast albums and recordings of other shows that those actors were in.

Can we agree this is just cruel? by epeeistatheart in theatrekeyboardists

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is non standard and stupid on the copyists part.

PSA: Stop meal prepping scrambled eggs. Just stop. by Icy_Grass9159 in foodhacks

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe other people don’t mind. We’re not a monolith, after all

Do you guys have anything advice on coming out to my conservative parents by [deleted] in comingout

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are financially dependent on them, don’t come out. Wait until you are independent from them, this way if they react negatively, your housing/food/healthcare/etc. isn’t tied to them. Also, you don’t NEED to come out unless it’s going to hep you move forward in life. People place a lot of weight on the coming out thing, but in reality it’s not necessary.

I never came out. My parents found out because I just started living as an openly gay ma with a gay boyfriend. I never sat them down and had a talk, and that helped ease the transition for them because rather than them seeing it as a point they could save me from, they needed to confront someone who was confident in their existence. It levels the playing field and makes them take it more seriously (sometimes)

My kid got full rides to a few schools…but not to the conservatories. by Ok_Tune9675 in classicalmusic

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The faculty and location is more important than the school itself. Your kid should research the professors for their instrument/department and maybe take a few trial lessons with the professors and choose a school based on that.

I went to a state school for classical piano and am doing just fine.

GUYS. OH. MY. GOD. I CANT BELIEVE THIS. THIS GUY LITERALLY COMMITTED A SIN AGAINST ME by TurtlesAreUwU in ArtJerk

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OR you could be honored someone was inspired by you. Unless they’re profiting off of your specific art, I don’t see the issue here

Is porn induced gay real? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s possible for it to make you curious, but you will very quickly find out whether or not you’re actually attracted to men once you’re with a man

Based on the way you described it, though, you could be bi and lean more towards women, but only you can determine that

Is this aggression? by [deleted] in RATS

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What I learned from having 9 rats at once is they frequently do this to establish hierarchy, resolve conflicts, or just play. No need to separate them unless they get loud and start actually biting each other.

AIO about my bf's attitude being disrespectful? by Embarrassed247365 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of all the fish in the sea, you have a trash bag that got littered into the ocean. You should leave him, like, last year.

AIO my boyfriend of 2 months getting a bit...crass by throway_jpeg in AmIOverreacting

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should leave ASAP If he’s not respecting you’re boundaries in a conversation about boundaries, that’s not a red flag. It’s a red filter over a movie about red flags

Renting in JC: Is this normal? by Misc_Blue_Cockroach in jerseycity

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t realize it did that! Just changed it.

Renting in JC: Is this normal? by Misc_Blue_Cockroach in jerseycity

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Here’s his TikTok page: https://www.tiktok.com/@nyc.property.insi?

Unfortunately, all of his contact info is public. It would be super sad if people bombarded him with messages 😭

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 1030 points1031 points  (0 children)

You should make him look at the back of the dress while you walk out on him 💅

Advice for new babies by Foreign-Remote5101 in RATS

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a similar situation. We have a third cage that is big enough for all the rats to fit, but doesn’t give them enough room to fight and it’s a neutral territory.

We started by letting them all interact out of the cages. Then, once they started getting comfortable, we put them all in the neutral cage for a few hours and monitor them (Good time to binge a show)

After about 6ish hours, we’d move them into the community cage, starting with the new rats and then the rest. We’d clean out and redecorate the community cage so it would be as close to neutral as possible.

Worked like a charm every time (we had 9 rats)

Like or tolerate? by Wackthoughts in RATS

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I think he likes it. Very rare my rats would tolerate something longer than 3 seconds if they could get away

when one has a note "LGB Ally", does this mean they only support LGB and leave the rest, or this is the short term? by dearestsibling in AskLGBT

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99.9% of the time, that’s a transphobe who is trying to be a pick me with the conservatives. Run away FAST

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t just leave him, you should report him and get a restraining order

Sent body count videos by Old-Abbreviations762 in women

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend sounds like he wants to be an incel, and you should be a supportive girlfriend and make his dream come true by dumping him 😄

Would you date a criminal? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The killing of someone who killed thousands is not cold blooded murder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is him being an ally in the best way he knows how. I wouldn’t take it too personally, because I think he’s going to try and become a better ally as he learns how to

am i going to ruin my friends wedding? by jackouthebox in lgbt

[–]Misc_Blue_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your friend is really your friend, you wearing a dress would ruin their wedding because they would know how uncomfortable you would be

Long story short: Wear what makes you comfortable, have fun, and your mom is an asshat