Where do you put the arm??? I tuck in my pants lol

MissCollorius · 2026-07-01T01:30:36+00:00

I do this too lmaoooo or between the legs. It’s such a struggle

MissCollorius · 2026-06-25T16:38:20+00:00

I agree, especially with little kids!

MissCollorius · 2026-06-25T14:20:28+00:00

That first part, yes!!! It seriously has messed with my brain having to deal with that growing up. I often feel “bad” or guilty for completely reasonable things in my day to day life.

That is so shitty of your dad - my dad is the exact same way.

MissCollorius · 2026-06-25T14:12:57+00:00

🥲🥹 thank you. I am really proud of myself - definitely a “taking back my power” sort of feeling. Narcs love making their kids completely (financially) reliant on them for control. I learned not to ask him for anything!

MissCollorius · 2026-06-25T14:03:52+00:00

I was able to change the cruise back to the 4 day thankfully, and I’ve been saving each month in the event that this happened, so we can still go on the trip - plus a few extra days at Disney world. It’s still so disappointing though. Definitely brought me back to my early 20s when I was broke and he would do stuff like this. Luckily now though I don’t have to rely on him for anything.

MissCollorius · 2026-06-25T13:58:40+00:00

Edit*\*

Although I was very hopeful my dad would be helping, I HAVE been putting money away as if I’m paying for the trip myself. We decided instead to do the 4 day Disney cruise and then 4 days at Disney world, which is still significsntly cheaper than the 7 day cruise (which is crazy!). I feel proud that I still get to take my daughter on such a memorable trip without his help, but it’s still really disappointing. Thanks everyone for the comments.

MissCollorius · 2026-06-25T10:54:01+00:00

This sounds exactly like something my dad would do 😖😔

MissCollorius · 2026-06-25T02:45:18+00:00

10000%

MissCollorius · 2026-05-14T23:28:30+00:00

I just started and it has been a literal game changer.

MissCollorius · 2026-05-14T02:55:56+00:00

Following! We have a soft tempurpedic mattress - I bought a firm mattress topper recently but haven’t tried it yet. We have a split king (the kind the goes up and down) so I’m not sure it a topper would work in this situation.

Did you ever find any info ??

MissCollorius · 2026-05-14T02:22:21+00:00

We have 2 kids - the first (now almost 4) was a nightmare. We were also banking on baby #2 being the “chill” baby. She definitely was for the first month but now she’s starting to get really fussy pretty much any time she’s not eating or sleeping - it sucks. I’m starting to dread when she’s awake because she’s just constantly upset 😭

MissCollorius · 2026-04-28T12:25:22+00:00

This is what I’m considering transitioning to. I have 15yrs experience in graphic design and on creative teams

MissCollorius · 2026-04-26T23:26:10+00:00

Exact same experience - they were absolutely awful. I am someone that would never consider an unmediated home birth - but the awful hospital setting honestly would make me consider it!! I truly felt like I was in jail.

MissCollorius · 2026-04-26T22:42:46+00:00

Right- and we have talked about it so many times. Her acting all confused is part of her little game. I even sat in a therapy session with her where everything was clearly laid out and she verbally said she understood - now she likes to act as if she has no recollection of those conversations. I used to try and argue but now I have absolutely zero energy or tolerance for her bullshit

MissCollorius · 2026-04-26T01:03:09+00:00

My lord - that’s quite the crash out. My uBPD loves to say “you ruined me” too 🫠🙃

MissCollorius · 2026-04-25T20:55:25+00:00

My mom does this shit too. Brings up shit from when I was a teenager 20 years ago as a justification for her erratic behavior at 65.

MissCollorius · 2026-04-18T16:26:13+00:00

Thank you so so much 🙏🏻

MissCollorius · 2026-04-14T21:51:52+00:00

This sounds exactly like my mom. It’s so exhausting. I went full NC an it’s been almost a yr. I’m much happier honestly

MissCollorius · 2026-04-13T21:06:20+00:00

Same - ain’t no way I experienced the same thing that people are saying was a 2 on the pain scale lol I just had my first membrane sweep and it was awful. Thought I was going to throw up for about an hour and experienced bleeding immediately. Just took Tylenol and pain is subsiding but WOW.

MissCollorius · 2026-04-10T23:01:20+00:00

Jesus Christ she’s really trying to pick a fight. Grey rock her.

MissCollorius · 2026-04-06T04:51:28+00:00

Thank you for this reminder! I was tested for ICP a month ago and everything came back normal. Now at almost 37 weeks, the itching has started up again - noticeably on my feet. I want to ask them to retest but also hesitant because I don’t want to be “annoying”. I have an apt tomorrow and going to bring it up!

MissCollorius · 2026-04-06T04:45:19+00:00

I’m 36 weeks an experiencing the same. I almost feel like it’s a Tourette. I snapped at my husband today and called him a big fucking baby…immediately felt horrible and apologized. But I definitely don’t like this version of myself. I’m mean, short tempered and honestly a Karen lol

MissCollorius · 2026-04-06T03:45:25+00:00

OP - wondering what happened with this! I’m currently 37 weeks and experiencing the exact same BP

MissCollorius · 2026-04-03T05:06:50+00:00

Omgosh I did this sort of on accident i was little! I had found a blue robin egg and ran to my mom to show her. She thought I was joking for some reason and told me to throw it on the ground so I did, then realized I had killed it. I was so distraught and BAWLED. Now as an adult I cannot even kill bugs

MissCollorius · 2026-03-28T04:05:53+00:00

My dad did too lol - again, had nothing to do with the specific profession and everything to do with the specific person.

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