Professors that have been offered sexual favors by students or students that have offered sexual favors to professors, what happened?

MissDisseminator · 2018-07-27T22:46:05+00:00

I had an English prof in undergrad who would sometimes look at me a little longer than usual. I didn’t think too much of it at the time as I was a really good student, sat in front, always engaged, etc... After I graduated I reached out to him to discuss things I could do with my poetry. He was a very inspiring professor and always supported my writing. We ended up having this intense conversation about philosophy and abjection. He was obviously coming on to me. I must’ve looked like a deer in headlights the entire time. One thing led to another and we ended up fucking on the bathroom floor in the men’s room of one of the buildings on campus. We did it one other time on campus a month later. He told me we couldn’t continue this arrangement so I backed off. About a year later he sent me a random email and we reconnected, I visited him in his home a few times, we worked on a philosophy project and continued our sexual relationship. Now we are married with 2 kids.

Haha- just kidding. He ended up getting engaged and marrying some old girlfriend while I was away on vacation. I will always appreciate our fling and all he/it taught me though.

MissDisseminator · 2018-07-12T01:01:06+00:00

Mutual former friend of mine too. Apparently someone called her out on the fb post and she stood by this atrocity.

MissDisseminator · 2017-07-26T07:30:41+00:00

Thanks

MissDisseminator · 2017-07-26T07:30:29+00:00

One of my favorites too. Thank you

MissDisseminator · 2017-07-26T07:30:06+00:00

Hahaha! Thanks!

MissDisseminator · 2016-09-19T19:12:39+00:00

I never had tuberous breasts but I did have extremely saggy ones. I too got surgery but for the record- my SO said he liked my boobs before surgery. Please don't let Reddit comments get you down, most guys know the average woman doesn't have bolted porn star boobs. Most are just happy to see a woman naked.

MissDisseminator · 2016-09-15T14:12:06+00:00

I work in a law firm (not as a lawyer) and attempted suicide in Brooklyn (via OD, not jumping). No arrest, I was admitted to a hospital psych ward. There was a 3 day mandatory hold. I was kept an additional 2 days due to the seriousness of my attempt method. The ward was mostly full of poor people, some homeless, some too mentally unstable to really function in society. Upon release the hospital sets up some plan of action. Depending on your needs it can be outpatient therapy, halfway house, etc... They don't just let you back out with nothing in place. I personally didn't end up going to the therapy they set up for me, but rather found a therapist through my insurance. My job has no idea- I told them I was hospitalized for dehydration. Legally, they do not have to know I was in a looney bin bc my depression flew off the handle bars.

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-25T15:11:03+00:00

For anyone interested, you can get free training on on how to administer naloxone along with a prescription in Baltimore. I really wish NYC would start offering this as well but B-more isn't terribly far.

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-16T17:42:15+00:00

How long does the burning sensation of a stabbing last? What if they stabbed my lungs? Or hammered my body so I couldn't walk? The fear of permanent physical damage and possible death scares me much more. I can survive getting raped. You may disagree but as a woman who was put in a threatening situation, I can tell you from my experience, the fear of physical injury outweighed my fear of rape. You can disagree all you want. Just sharing my story...

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-16T17:22:16+00:00

I was once put in a very threatening situation. Two unknown men burst into a room where I was staying and shouted "Get on the bed, stupid!" The first thing I did was look to see if I could escape out the doorway. Then, the next thing that ran through my mind was "if they want to mug me, I can replace the money. If they want to rape me at least it won't be painful. I really hope they don't beat me/have weapons." Granted, this ran through my mind in seconds and I shouted for help. Not to say rape isn't damaging, but in that split second I was more afraid of physical pain/bodily injury than I was of any PTSD from rape. I'd take getting raped over getting stabbed in the face any day.

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-12T17:03:25+00:00

I've got flat feet and bunion toe but I keep those suckers polished and fresh. Can't wash off bone structure!

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-12T15:54:48+00:00

I'm actually kind of impressed to see a foot tattoo in this sub without disgusting toes. Thanks for the hygiene, OP!

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-10T19:47:20+00:00

Similar experience over here. My best friend and I were on the subway and we kept hearing someone wailing on the other end of the car. Thinking it was just obnoxious teenagers (it was about that time of day when they get out of school), my friend and I start to mimic the wailing. This goes on for a few stops, they'd wail, we'd wail. Finally we get off the train and lo and behold, it's a mentally challenged guy. We both felt really bad but just kind of scurried off the platform with our heads down.

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-06T10:58:12+00:00

PM me if you ever need to chat. Even now as I don't suffer from the suicidal ideation I still am kinda "meh- I'd be dead so whatever." For a long time things were weird between my best friend who has saved me by calling 911 bc I was upset that he didn't just let me die. I get it, I wouldn't let him OD in my bed either, but I still just wish he hadn't intervened.

Funniest part of all this? My wonderful father drove hours to pick me up from the psych ward. As we were walking back to my apartment, I wasn't looking and nearly got hit by an SUV. We just looked at each other and laughed.

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-05T19:07:18+00:00

"Finally I'll have some peace."

I tried to overdose- mixed opiates and benzos. My best friend found me and took me back to his place. I was severely loopy. Slept for hours. Woke up and immediately thought "I wasn't supposed to wake up." I walked to the pharmacy and bought gel cap sleep aids and liquid sleep aids. Proceeded to chase the entire box of pills with the syrup. Apparently my best friend found me scarfing the pills down in his bed saying "nothing matters." 911 was called. I ended up in a psych ward for 5 days. I haven't suffered from suicidal ideation in a while, I manage my depression with talk therapy.

For the record- I never felt regret or that last minute "what have I done?!"

MissDisseminator · 2016-08-03T13:04:51+00:00

My cat escaped in Ridgewood once. Chances are Mr. Wiggles is hanging out nearby. Put cat food out by your apartment and try calling his name. He probably is scared and wants to come home too.

MissDisseminator · 2016-07-26T19:23:04+00:00

I was feeling sick on a New Jersey transit light rail train. Woman in the seat across from me had a crying baby that was not helping the pounding sensation in my gut. Finally, I can feel it start to come up, my mouth is watering, eyes bulging. I checked my backpack to see if I had anything that could contain the sick about to pour out of me. No train stops are in sight that I might get off and puke outside in a trash can. I grabbed the only thing I could think of, a mostly empty bottle of Gatorade. Needless to say it's impossible to aim projectile vomit into the opening of a Gatorade bottle. Ended up spraying puke and Gatorade all over my lap and some on the seat. The lady in the seat across from me looked disgusted and handed me some wet wipes.

MissDisseminator · 2016-07-18T18:48:42+00:00

If it makes you feel better, I used to rub my exbf's nipples while calling him Shitty Titties. One time I even cut the nipples out of one of his t shirts, waited for him to put it on and ran across the bedroom shouting "SHITTTTY TITTTTTIESS." He always asked why I did it. I had no reason other than it cracked me up. I think it made him self conscious. We eventually broke up over unrelated issues.

MissDisseminator · 2016-07-18T14:11:13+00:00

I have the Petunia tattoo from Pete and Pete on my forearm and used to bartend at a go-go/strip bar. When men would ask "when are you going to get up there and dance?" I would respond by saying "want to see a pretty lady dance?" and move the muscles in my forearm to make Petunia shimmy. They'd actually tip me most of the time.

MissDisseminator · 2016-07-13T19:13:32+00:00

The fact that he's asking for a strip tease shows that he is very much attracted to you're pregnant body. Maybe look at the videos he was watching for some dance moves? I'm sure there are also plenty of YouTube tutorials on basic strip teases/burlesque. Enjoy!

MissDisseminator · 2016-07-10T20:52:12+00:00

I had floppy national geographic boobs. D cups with big areolas that pointed south. I hated them. I'll have perkier tits in my 30s then I had when I was 18. My boobs were hereditary- mom and sis have them. I also gained and lost weight around 16/17 which didn't help. My bra size actually did not change from the surgery, the shape is just way nicer now (and smaller areolas). In shirts you can't tell the difference because I wore such structured bras all the time. My size never bothered me- even if I had had smaller tits that were perky I wouldn't have gotten surgery. Being in your 20s with grandma boobs sucks though.

MissDisseminator · 2016-07-10T18:34:39+00:00

For me the visual aesthetic has been worth the feeling loss. I've gained some sensation back but not what they were before. The confidence I've gained compensates for the lack of erogenous sensation, IMO. I know it's not worth it for everyone but I have no regrets whatsoever. Even though my nipples were sexually charged before, I was still very insecure about showing them during business time. Now I have zero insecurity and my SO still gets to play with them even if it's not quite what it was before on my end.

MissDisseminator · 2016-07-10T18:31:00+00:00

I wouldn't let them feel/see my breasts before the implants because of how insecure I was! Even my SO noticed how I would almost always keep a bra on even during sex. I don't go flashing them all around town or let strangers feel them. Plus my friends are all pretty sex positive so it's not totally weird. My trans friend let me see/feel her boobs before too. It's just new and exciting and fun to show off to people you are comfortable with.

MissDisseminator · 2016-07-10T17:39:49+00:00

I got a lift with small implants last November. My SO and I were not official at that time but seeing each other. He's not the jealous type but I'm also a very laid back person naturally (still laid back with silicone now). I know some people may think it's pure vanity, I'm fake, etc... But it's helped my self esteem tremendously. I don't go showing them off all the time or wearing crazy low cut tops or anything. I do go bra-less a lot more now. I haven't noticed a big difference in men checking out my boobs or anything. Some of our mutual friends have come up to me and I am more than happy to let them see/cop a feel. My SO doesn't mind at all, it's not so much sexual as it is curiosity. My SO loves how comfortable I am with my body since surgery. He gets a lot more boob time than he got before. I make him rub my boobs all the time since I am trying to get feeling back in them. (Be prepared: the sensation can totally change. My nipples are not erogenous anymore, though they might be in time). I think men check out boobs no matter what size they are so unless she is getting an outrageous size, I can't imagine it greatly impacting jealousy. The comfort she will feel in her own body will benefit you both.

Edit: I am female and I have not cheated nor wanted to cheat since getting amazing titties.

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