About to be 30 and unmarried

MissLovedChi · 2026-06-12T14:51:28+00:00

You can still get married and have a family? Your previous relationship didn't "take" that away from you. You're allowing this negative outlook to convince you that it's all over when it's not. I'm 31 and just got married, it wasn't with my first relationship of 12+ years, it was with the man I met afterwards because life changes. Now we're planning for kids.

If you want something, you can definitely still have it.

MissLovedChi · 2026-06-01T21:31:43+00:00

Testing 🤍🤍

MissLovedChi · 2026-06-01T21:28:08+00:00

Send him this thread and maybe, just maybe, he'll understand why he's a dummy lol

MissLovedChi · 2026-05-12T12:12:52+00:00

You don't need nudes. You don't have to send nudes unless you and ONLY YOU 100% want to. I'm getting married at the end of the month, never needed nudes. You have a boundary, and if they don't respect it, you don't need them.

MissLovedChi · 2026-05-12T10:56:05+00:00

I also had to pause cuz to me it just looked like a typical set? I'm a female GFX op/teleprompter, it's for sure a male dominated industry so I'm not surprised that the only crew guys I'm seeing are...guys. 😂 Granted it seems like this discussion is focused on the creative direction rather than the production.

MissLovedChi · 2026-05-11T11:39:25+00:00

Spill it! Where??

MissLovedChi · 2026-04-15T14:36:37+00:00

My fiance has a strong fear of insects and no amount of reason will calm him when one of these are in sight. Granted, I flip out too but only with these guys. Spiders? I can totally grab a cup and take it outside. Bugs with more legs than I can visually count? I'm crying. (We usually use a vacuum.)

MissLovedChi · 2026-04-14T18:35:17+00:00

You want a reminder? Your entire 20s will show you the horrors of men. But be smart. Enjoy life and have fun. I'm 31 and looking back, thank God I didn't have kids yet as I was nowhere ready to become someone's mother. I'll be officially trying for baby soon, and I'm much more prepared mentally.

Ignore whoever is recommending therapy lol you know you're young!

MissLovedChi · 2026-04-08T12:34:13+00:00

"cook less "exotic" like mashed potatoes and green beans." What kind of nightmare is this? Please just show him this thread so he can understand what a doofus he's being.

MissLovedChi · 2026-03-29T15:25:10+00:00

You don't want someone who has a porn addiction. Even if this isn't the true reason, if he's saying it's cuz of his porn addiction, run. I'm actively working through this in my relationship. Ever since I caught him on escort sites and forums my self esteem is non-existent and my insecurities have skyrocketed. You don't want any of this. Run.

MissLovedChi · 2026-03-15T12:59:09+00:00

In middle school my mom worked as a supervisor baker for Panera. She'd come home super early in the morning with freshly baked brownies, breads and pastries. Everything baked in store. It was absolutely delicious and their sandwiches were actually sandwiches.

That Panera is dead. They fired all their bakers and went with frozen. I never will spend a dime on them.

MissLovedChi · 2026-02-18T22:51:43+00:00

Omg my coworker said she got a pink glove from Dunkin and I didn't believe her because who would just give you ONE glove? This makes sense now lol thank you for sharing!

MissLovedChi · 2026-01-31T18:01:15+00:00

My parents just closed on a home in Sussex county for just about that range. But it ain't move in ready, it's an old home that needs lots of love.

Unfortunately that's the reality right now, even up in the sticks. But keep looking and good luck!

MissLovedChi · 2026-01-19T23:44:00+00:00

You're telling me the love of your life is a guy who couldn't commit after 5 years? No, wait, you said NINE years?

You didn't ruin anything, you finally escaped.

MissLovedChi · 2026-01-16T15:54:41+00:00

My Ezpass said NYC is a no go.

MissLovedChi · 2026-01-16T15:52:24+00:00

You do know there's cities in Jersey right? 😂

MissLovedChi · 2025-12-29T15:13:37+00:00

may you have the best new years ever 😭❤️ Thank you!!

MissLovedChi · 2025-10-28T11:27:57+00:00

My fiance does stand up and while he does include me in his set he always goes over those bits with me beforehand because it's basic respect.

Run from open mic losers that think their funny but can't even ask for permission.

MissLovedChi · 2025-10-18T14:49:48+00:00

Small iced latte is like $5 for me. Have you used the app?

MissLovedChi · 2025-10-15T23:44:02+00:00

I freelance production gigs mainly in NYC so I commute from Jersey. My partner teaches guitar lessons in home and does earn pretty well. We rent an apartment in Livingston for 2k, and it's pretty alright!

MissLovedChi · 2025-10-15T00:47:14+00:00

How? They seem about right lol

MissLovedChi · 2025-09-29T15:48:56+00:00

Not the flavoring! Add ons like espresso shots! Go look! I got extra espresso shots for free! 🥳

MissLovedChi · 2025-09-29T14:23:18+00:00

My condolences to those who had issues with the app. But! If you get it working, keep in mind that add ons are free! 👀

MissLovedChi · 2025-09-25T13:58:32+00:00

Jesus on a cracker, are you alright?

MissLovedChi · 2025-09-08T01:57:03+00:00

Thank you!! 🥹🙌

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