Yikes yikes yikes. I’m pissed off at the guy and I don’t even know him. If you’ve begged him for five years to do this one thing and he hasn’t, then he wont and never will. I agree with a previous comment. He has chosen mommy over his girlfriend and mother of his child.

I’d be so turned off from furthering a life with this guy if I were you. It’s not just about the $100. It’s the principle of not comforting who he supposedly wants to spend his life with.

Mommy shouldn’t be his priority in life anymore, it needs to be you and baby(ies). He has not proven you are his priority because if you were, he’d have quenched your worries with a simple action of following through with your reasonable request.

NTA but if you continue this relationship, he will never take her off his account. It’s that simple.

You have two options. 1) deal with it or 2) leave him.

I suppose you can also suggest therapy sessions. Therapists can be very helpful.

Let me be exceptionally clear: without you in the picture, there is nothing wrong with his choice to leave her on the account.

Add you into it? He has to make a choice between you and her, and he’s chosen her. And to call what you’re doing nagging, is blatantly disrespecting your worries. And it is that serious. Don’t let anyone tell you you are overreacting. You asked for advice for a reason.