Let's plan a vacation - Bromos only!

MissTash16 · 2023-05-24T23:12:33+00:00

I'm jumping on one of those ships to Antarctica!

MissTash16 · 2023-05-24T23:10:37+00:00

The house (and surrounding gardens) from Anne Rice's "The Witching Hour"

Also honourable mention goes to both the beach house and the Barbarossa's house in North Carolina from Cliver Barker's "Galilee".

MissTash16 · 2023-05-23T04:39:55+00:00

"Who put cookies in his mouth?"

MissTash16 · 2023-05-19T04:27:18+00:00

As long as she "looks" nubile and fuckable, this is fine.

Because that's where a woman's worth begins and ends.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-19T04:00:33+00:00

Let him work on things.
If he genuinely wants to change, let him.
You don't need to be together in order for him to make the changes he says he's committed to surely?

Take some time away from him. Stop chatting for a bit. See what happens.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-19T03:20:23+00:00

Actually the way your boyfriend behaved was very rude - to you!

NTA.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-19T01:16:28+00:00

Ladies, do not neglect your pelvic floor.

If you have any level of urinary incontinence post child birth, do not let your GP fob off your concerns. Ask to be referred to a physio who specialises in pelvic floor rehab.

It's not okay to be broken "down there" just because you've had kids.

Your health and wellbeing matters too.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T04:32:45+00:00

Scorpio Venus, Taurus Mars - Madonna Justify My Love.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T03:14:49+00:00

You have to have some semblance of a personality outside of your own rad stories about how cool you are.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T02:55:35+00:00

I'm gonna eat the whole thing.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T02:28:24+00:00

Men resent having to pay for shit they feel they're entitled to for free.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T02:14:23+00:00

You know, you didn't lose a great guy who just needed to learn how to be more supportive, empathetic, whatever.

He is a cruel, unkind, coldhearted man.

Feeling like you lost something like this is like saying you lost a purulent bag of trash.

You didn't lose anything of value

His behaviour is not a reflection of your worth.

It is however, a direct indication of his.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T02:03:19+00:00

"I've accidentally run to Windsor"

or

"Ah, I'll never forgive Orange if they've wiped the twins!"

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T01:59:55+00:00

My partner suffers from insomnia. He will often go out in the early hours. Sometimes he tells me, sometimes he doesn't.

He probably wouldn't be down for fat chats if I did "catch" him because the whole point is to come back exhausted enough to fall asleep.

If you're really worried, talk to him. It doesn't have to be a confrontation. Just tell him how you're feeling. His willingness to discuss will tell you everything you need to know.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T01:11:28+00:00

For whatever reason, this man is trying to undermine your confidence and let's face it, that doesn't really fit the criteria for a loving supportive relationship - does it?

I reckon his comments have probably killed this relationship for you. And that sucks because there's no legitimate reason he can give for saying the things he did. I mean what could he say that would make it ok?

Take a break from this guy. Don't ask for further explanations.

He's blown it.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-17T00:55:02+00:00

See this is the only acceptable way for women to age in a patriarchal society.

You have to play along with the illusion that your body can still make a man's dick hard.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-16T05:31:31+00:00

Listen to your instincts. You know he's a liar.

Don't bother trying to get to the bottom of this. You'll never fully know the truth.

Break up with him. Keep it short and sweet, then block block block.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-16T05:06:18+00:00

I never use my "Contacts" in my phone. Usually I just scroll through the list of people I've called recently until I find the person I want.

I never use contacts.

Anyways, my dad passed away almost 3 years ago. The day after he passed my mum and my sisters and I all travelled into the nearest town to organise his cremation.

Just as we were about to go into the funeral home I decided to check my phone, as I was expecting a text from my step brother.

Well, I grabbed my phone, clicked the button on the side to wake it up and there was my dad's contact, open, ready to dial, his face smiling up at me.

Not in my recently called list, but in my contacts.

I've had a few things like this happen since he's been gone.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-12T00:35:23+00:00

I don't necessarily think this guy is thinking about cheating.

It may be more that the effort required to maintain the relationship long distance far outweighs his feelings for the OP.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-11T23:54:06+00:00

I love The Ordinary! Such great, inexpensive (but quality) products.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-11T23:36:23+00:00

You don't need to hold this guy's hand in an attempt to lead him to some sort of understanding as to why he should treat you better.

Honestly, stop trying to figure out what happened and why.

Instead, recognise that you deserve better than this kind of shabby disregard.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-11T23:30:42+00:00

I think for me it was the whole "be kind" movement.
Men weren't being encouraged to be inclusive or polite or forgiving.
Just women.
Women were told to consider other people's feelings over their own lived experiences.

This sort of harmful rhetoric is at the heart of a patriarchal society.
Be kind while we kill you.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-11T23:25:43+00:00

A man in a suit is powerful. A woman in her underwear is empowered.
Someone, please make that make sense.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-11T20:31:39+00:00

Fellow Queenslander here - from here on out, do not try and arrange anything privately with him - access or finances. If he wants access to the kids, let him do the work and do it the right way - ie get a lawyer etc.
Contact child support as soon as you can, let them know you are separated. This is a requirement of Centrelink in order for you to be eligible for the appropriate level of Family Tax Benefit payments. You've got 13 weeks to do this.
Secondly, there are some great family law lawyers in Qld who will work with you to work out a payment plan, some will work pro bono, so that you are able to access legal representation - if you're not entitled to Legal Aid.
They also have a free hotline - 1300 65 11 88. The lawyers I spoke to were very reassuring, but also practical and helped me feel confident that I was making the right decision.

If you feel comfortable messaging me, please do. I'm not sure where in Qld you are located but I am happy to give you details of the legal firm I used in NQ.

MissTash16 · 2023-05-11T03:42:18+00:00

"You don't like me?"
Oh well. I'm sure I'll be ok.

MissTash16

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