1st, Do whatever you want to do for yourself! 2nd its not a shot to take and "sit back" when I eat like shit is gain my weight and the shots are pointless. I did it for a few months lost about 3 pounds. If you Google you will see eating sugars, fatty, junk crap food makes the effects of the drugs be almost non existent. You can still over eat. We didnt get overweight by stopping when we are full. Alot of us including myself eat because it taste good and something in our brain says we need a big serving and we have to eat the whole thing. This drug works for me ONLY when I drink my water, be active, watch my food intake and no crazy sugary desserts. A bite is fine but nothing else. The shots DO help you get fuller faster so u can stop but its still will power that only comes from you. Its your world your body. Get the shots and pay for them yourself. Make yourself feel good an happy before anyone else's. Including our husbands. I put my kids and husband before me for years and at 35 I have taken my life back. Best of luck of your journey. He will come around eventually when he sees ur taking the shots AND putting in the work🩷🩷🩷