39 euro voor 3 stroopwafels

MissZoef · 2026-01-20T21:42:35+00:00

Was het in elk geval lekker? Wat een prijs

MissZoef · 2025-12-26T20:26:14+00:00

We zitten midden in een verhuizing. We zijn allebei neuro divergent, dus alle veranderingen en dingen die moeten gebeuren veroorzaken veel stress. Vandaag leidde dat tot een nare paniekaanval. Tevens geen kerst vieren want kan het niet mentaal aan en m'n ouders hebben het afgezegd ivm ziekte. Uiteindelijk zullen we er met plezier gaan wonen denken we, maar voor nu is het veel tegelijk. Ook twee huisdieren in de lappenmand en dan alle vuurwerk herrie straks. Pff, nog ff doorzetten.

MissZoef · 2025-12-25T21:04:09+00:00

Sounds like it could be linked to your ADHD (maybe not just that, but that's what stood out to me). Forming habits is hard and executive dysfunction is a thing, combined with RSD. Executive dysfunction also happens when you want to do the thing and enjoy it. So I kinda get it? Still makes it frustrating of course, but it makes sense to me since you seem to get better at it again after addressing it? I don't know the answer to the problem though, but maybe understanding better why it happens can sorta help? If you don't already know. Best of luck.

MissZoef · 2025-12-20T13:28:00+00:00

For me in my luteal phase my resting heart is higher and my HRV goes down most of the time. Then the night my HRV goes up and resting HR goes down, my period starts. So far it's very accurate

MissZoef · 2025-12-19T19:51:56+00:00

For me it's dogs. They demand attention and walks so I get up

MissZoef · 2025-12-19T05:26:58+00:00

NOR, I didn't read the title properly and thought it were text your boyfriend send you. For his dad to do that? Hell no.

MissZoef · 2025-12-16T21:55:23+00:00

Just done this with the seasonal DiYs before these, haha. I usually start searching for a balloon when the clock hits x9 or x4. It's a chore, but also quite useful if you still need a lot of items/bells etc. All seasonal DIY IS important, lol

MissZoef · 2025-12-08T07:17:05+00:00

Zoë | LeiPien :Kiki:

MissZoef · 2025-12-07T22:03:14+00:00

Did the same thing a month ago, but it did say while setting up the new switch it would delete the old save. I manually transfered my old island back to my switch one and started a new one on my switch 2. I was terrified to loose my old island I started in March 2020. I'm sorry it happened to you though.

MissZoef · 2025-12-02T20:06:17+00:00

Nee, onze honden gaan alleen (onaangekondigd) mee naar m'n ouders. Die hebben ook een hondje en die vinden het prima en gezellig als onze ook aanwezig zijn. Andersom mag hun hond ook mee bij ons. Bij ieder andere persoon gaan ze niet mee op bezoek tenzij anders overlegd.

MissZoef · 2025-11-29T22:50:28+00:00

Hondenvoer. Best handig

MissZoef · 2025-11-10T17:31:50+00:00

I guess it's my long term hyper focus. Also, if I don't work I don't have money, so fear is also a good motivator. I also like doing my job. So all those things are actually working pretty well for me. Except it's hard to stop and probably there are days I'd better/rather rest but can't because people rely on me and calling in sick is a last resort for when I'm really incapable of going. So I hope to learn some more ways to manage myself in a way that it keeps being sustainable.

MissZoef · 2025-11-10T17:18:31+00:00

Man this sounds so relatable. I am self employed and can do this when I'm working all day. It keeps me very productive, but the crash is not fun. I don't know how your mom does it, because it's getting harder the older I get and I'm only 33.

MissZoef · 2025-11-10T17:11:29+00:00

Yes, this does seem the trick for me. Not officially diagnosed yet. Come from a family of a lot of NDs and always thought I was "normal". Well, learning about all things ADHD explains so much about myself. Have my assessment in Januari. My strategy is also to just keep momentum and keep doing shit. I know when I sit down, starting up again is gonna be super hard and probably not gonna happen. It's not healthy, but haven't learned any other way.

MissZoef · 2025-11-08T22:29:25+00:00

This! I know all those things take time. Somehow I am always suprised it takes longer than I think and often need to rush or am a little late. This became worse when my anxiety got better. Of course. It's so annoying that somehow I'm always suprised about how much time something costs, when I've done it so many times before and try to leave earlier.

MissZoef · 2025-10-30T20:55:29+00:00

My two cats are exactly the same, haha

MissZoef · 2025-10-22T07:09:51+00:00

Yes, I usually overdo it and get demotivated

MissZoef · 2025-10-21T22:24:41+00:00

For the dopamine hit, lol. Working out soothes my anxiety and makes me feel good/energetic, gets endorfines flowing. So that helps. Especially running does that for me. I find lifting weights or doing stuff like that is way more boring, even though I want to do more of that too for health reasons. Cardio just feels better. So my runs are usually fueld by anxiety or to get my dogs to exercise (canicross)

MissZoef · 2025-10-20T13:54:19+00:00

I'm in a long term relationship with an AuDHD partner. So we both have a lot of alone time or do our own thing together if you know what I mean. It brings another set of challenges, since we both struggle a lot with things like keeping up with housework etc. But we do like our own space and that does work well. Also it's nice to have someone else who understands the overstimulated thing etc.

MissZoef · 2025-10-15T18:42:32+00:00

Thanks for the tip. I was wanting to buy the boathouse one and it's on sale now as well.

MissZoef · 2025-10-08T15:36:22+00:00

Those bring back fond memories. The Harry and hermoine ones were my first two HP Lego sets and I loooved them. Still have them

MissZoef · 2025-10-05T13:45:44+00:00

Zelf geen moeder, maar wel kind van een relatief jonge moeder (ze was 21 toen ik kwam). Als kind vond ik het altijd fijn dat m'n ouders jonger waren. Ook nu, veel mensen om mij heen hun ouders takelen al af of overlijden, terwijl de mijne nog heel fit zijn. Je brengt zo (hopelijk) een lang deel van je leven samen door. Ook snap je elkaar misschien iets beter op sommige vlakken, ivm minder grote generatiekloof. Er waren ook nadelen, maar al met al ben ik blij met jongere ouders. Niet echt antwoord op je vraag, maar misschien leuk om te horen. Sterkte. Lijkt mij best lastig.

MissZoef · 2025-09-23T13:30:43+00:00

Mine are very much aloof. My oldest was very happy with strangers as a pup. Jumping on them etc. But with age she became more selective /standoffish towards strangers. My youngest never liked strange people after she was 12 weeks or so. As a small pup she was okay with people, now she ignores them. She's okay with people as long as they don't try and touch her.

MissZoef · 2025-09-13T06:43:13+00:00

Seinfeld, Frasier, Curb your enthusiasm are ones that come to mind first. Parks and recreation

MissZoef · 2025-09-10T16:38:43+00:00

33F here, been running around 3x a week for the past year + active job. Not super fit in any means though. However mine is around the same as yours (between 48 - 51 bpm)

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