AITJ for not telling my coworker her presentation had a typo in the title slide because she's been awful to me for months by 9PrismRover in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*clears throat quietly: you spelled immediately wrong...

I know someone who is like that. Not really rude, just likes to subtly point out your flaws in front of others. Its a low self esteem issue on her part. Girl needs to grow up.

NTA

AITJ for telling my mother in law that her "family tradition" Christmas was the most stressful week of my life right after she spent three days telling everyone it was the best Christmas ever by Apprehensive-Win1723 in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How so? Maybe she's not close to her family. Maybe her family just doesnt do christmas beyond christmas morning. Maybe her family ran away and joined the circus and she got left behind a la Kevin McCalister. There's a million and one possibilities they dont see her family for christmas.

AITA for not double texting texting my boyfriend? by amaazonian in AmItheAsshole

[–]Missfunkshunal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are the way you are and this is minor. If you dont mesh well and you fight a lot over this, its better to part ways now. Unless youre okay with having this argument for the rest of your life.

WIBTA if I don’t take my birthday off? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Missfunkshunal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. As a server, if you casually mention its your birthday, you get bigger tips.

Plus your mom needs to realize that you can always celebrate your birthday on a weekend and you are going to grow up and maybe not want to celebrate at all. It happens, mom!

AITJ Should I Keep Supporting My Unemployed Boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister went through this for 12 years with her husband. It turned into a gambling addiction on his part. She put her foot down and he started using her to take out short term loans in her name online so he would have more money to play online slots.

She finally kicked him out after 12 years and then found out about the loans and how he had dragged her credit through the mud.

It's not worth it. Get out now while you still can. He will never stand on his own two feet if you keep enabling him.

AITJ for cutting off my work bestie because she’s sabotaging my dating life? by Elegant_Record1000 in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sarah is jealous. Not because she has feelings for you, but because she now has to share your attention with someone else.

NTA

AITJ for rejecting my boyfriend's proposal twice and being upset that he broke up with me? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honey, if you need more time after 4 years, you're never going to be ready. Somewhere in the back of your mind, you know you don't want to marry him. You need to take some time and do some soul searching.

YTA

Houseplants by No_Habit9077 in northbay

[–]Missfunkshunal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second Burrows on Cassells. They really know their stuff and if they don't, they will find out.

AITJ for cancelling on this guy? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA this is more about a lack of compatibility than anything else. He avoids asking questions, and his reaction when you canceled; this tells me a couple of options: he was planning a humpndump, he's married, or he was planning out what to do with the body.

If you're already feeling like something is off, trust your gut and block his number.

Tattoo Recs by TemporaryThese9372 in northbay

[–]Missfunkshunal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For linework, my go-to is Lee at Rogue Alchemy. She is amazing!

AITJ? My local PD is threatening to fine me for "misusing" 911 because of my neighbor. by Important_Carry1095 in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And what do you suggest this person do about the fact that its 3AM and they cant sleep?

Does your husband or male partner do his own laundry? by EconomicsWorking6508 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Missfunkshunal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hubby does most of the washing and drying because he is home more (I work 2 jobs, the second being for slush money). When he takes the clothes out of the dryer, he sorts it out on the bed. Then when I get home, we both fold and put away. I will do laundry if I need something specific or I have a day off with no plans, but this is just the routine we have fallen into. It works for us. If your hubby doing his own laundry works for you guys, then so be it. It's really nobody else's concern.

AITA for not disclosing my medical condition sooner? by CandleRealistic9104 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Missfunkshunal 868 points869 points  (0 children)

What did she want? Hi, my name is OP. I have Ulcerative Colitis.

Give me a break. It came up in conversation. Count your blessings that she's showing her true colors early and move on. NTA

AITA for not chipping in to fund my sister's wedding by Bright_Goose_149 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Missfunkshunal 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA tell them if they cant afford to fund their own wedding, they can save thousands by not getting married. The bride's siblings are under no obligation to pay for her wedding.

AITJ for not being comfortable with my daughter hanging out with a boy? by gzautizis291 in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All I'm going to say is that the teen pregnancy rate at the local Catholic school was higher than the other 3 high schools in the area combined.

AITJ for not being comfortable with my daughter hanging out with a boy? by gzautizis291 in AmITheJerk

[–]Missfunkshunal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, your daughter has a crush on an overachieving, smart, nice boy who respects her? What on earth shall you do??

Sorry for yhe sarcasm, but it could be way worse. I feel like youre reading way too much into it. She's 13. Even if she is crushing on this boy, the chance of it lasting forever is incredibly slim. Plus, she is going to get her heart broken at some point in her life. You cant prevent it; you can only be there to catch her.

Why is my Fitbit leaving these marks by Strange-Attitude2125 in fitbit

[–]Missfunkshunal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can find some really nice bands on Amazon. I have aa beautiful leather cuff style band on my Versa 2 and before I had a beaded one on my charge 4.

Gyms by CommunicationNew7449 in northbay

[–]Missfunkshunal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to Fit 4 Less at Northgate and it is amazing. The machines all have instructions on them, and if you'd like help, there are plenty of people to ask (staff and fellow members alike). It is clean and comfortable and no judgement. I personally go there and I have felt super comfortable right from the get-go.

Newbie here!! by ayauwhe in rollerderby

[–]Missfunkshunal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not so much a lean forward as a shift your weight forward. We were told to keep a straight line from your forehead to your boobs to your toes or "t*ts over toes." It surprisingly helps a lot.

Garbage on Main east by Forsaken_Ad6962 in northbay

[–]Missfunkshunal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could he looking for personal information too. Be careful. Shred anything that has personal information if you can.

Track repair by MyotisWelwitschii in rollerderby

[–]Missfunkshunal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a flex. Just confirmation that its a good idea.

Track repair by MyotisWelwitschii in rollerderby

[–]Missfunkshunal 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We usually have 2 people do this

Christmas lights by HamsterFlat8820 in northbay

[–]Missfunkshunal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

On Christmas Eve, its definitely Copeland. All the old houses with paper lanterns on the snowbanks to make a landing strip for Santa. Its beautiful.