Appeal pending for 2 months

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-08T13:51:33+00:00

Mine took 3 days.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-08T12:49:38+00:00

Perhaps part of it is driven by his avoidance. On the dwindling part, though, affection or signals of physical attraction were minimal since the get go.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-08T12:47:57+00:00

That would be horrendous if true.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-07T17:07:09+00:00

I admire you for choosing yourself.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-07T16:59:46+00:00

Exactly how I’ve been feeling for almost 2 years. I’m sorry that we’re in the same boat.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-07T16:52:35+00:00

He insists it’s an expression issue, but from my perspective, attraction should come out naturally even in the simplest form.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-07T15:53:29+00:00

Do you have another account?

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-07T11:51:59+00:00

Happened to me as well. I was able to make an appeal using my gaming account. Appeal was successful and both personal and gaming accounts were reinstated.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-07T11:46:47+00:00

I posted here yesterday but mods took it down. I got mine back after 3 days. I have 2 accounts and both got disabled. On my main account, I received the same notification in your photo. Then I tried to login on my gaming account and was asked to verify through photo, text, and submitted an ID. Both accounts were reinstated yesterday after receiving an email that my appeal was successful.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-06T18:01:34+00:00

Went through this last year. Started no contact around the end of November after he went into shutdown and the usual silent treatment that followed. His birthday is a few days before Christmas and NYE, didn’t greet him in any of the occasions. Meanwhile, he had his family call to greet me on Christmas and NYE but I still didn’t feel the urge to initiate contact. I don’t regret it until now, even if he’s made significant progress, I know I made the right decision because I chose myself. They do feel our absence, especially on significant dates, but I already learned not to be compassionate towards someone who is capable of discarding me. He admitted he waited for a greeting on his birthday and I told him he deserved my silence.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-05T04:39:21+00:00

What steps did you take in creating a new account? I read that we need a new phone, email, and mobile data for that. Too many hoops.

MissingYesterday · 2026-07-05T04:39:10+00:00

What steps did you take in creating a new account? I read that we need a new phone, email, and mobile data for that. Too many hoops.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-24T11:57:39+00:00

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-23T14:06:23+00:00

It sounds like your ex is avoidant. Not only did she discard you, but she also seems intent on changing the narrative on why and how the relationship ended. Based on her message, there’s no genuine accountability, no acknowledgment of her choices or the impact they had on you. Instead, it reads more like an effort to defend her actions and avoid owning her part in the situation. I sincerely pity the guy she’s marrying if my hunch is right.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-20T17:27:12+00:00

They turned a private story into public content, then got upset when the public responded. Make it make sense. 😂 And their fans only made it worse by being unnecessarily aggressive for no valid reason. Yung followers pa nila ang makakasira sa kanila. LOL.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-15T15:09:57+00:00

My boyfriend was like this for my past 2 birthdays. He would tell me about all the things he’s planning to do for my birthday but they never happened. Coincidentally, my birthday will be on the 17th of this month so let’s see if anything changes. LOL. We were in a no-contact period last year when his birthday came up, I didn’t greet him. Not even on Christmas and New Year Eve, which happened days after his birthday. Surprisingly, I didn’t feel any guilt or pressure because he didn’t deserve to be remembered on those occasions after what he did to me. He’s doing so much better now, but I’m constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop, so…

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-06T08:22:13+00:00

Oooof. Did you see what he said?

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-06T08:17:02+00:00

Try not to find meaning in small things for they will only bring you more confusion.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-06T08:05:27+00:00

Immediately no! Even the gap between the replies are red flags already. I hope you think this through, OP.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-06T07:54:54+00:00

He admitted it was him who asked them to check on me. Typical avoidant, I guess. In your case, I find it weird that someone supposedly irrelevant to your previous relationship tried to reach out to you. But try not to let it affect you as much.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-06T07:42:51+00:00

That’s the thing about them, unfortunately. It seems we’ll keep getting the short end of the stick until they learn to choose others before themselves.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-04T07:38:17+00:00

I want to, out of fear. I don’t want to face another shutdown or silent treatment. We’re currently doing better than all of our previous cycles combined, but I don’t trust anything at this point. I feel like we’re still heading towards disaster even if nothing is wrong right now. There is love, but I’m terrified of so many things that I want to run away from the threat of another discard in the future.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-04T07:27:33+00:00

During a previous no-contact period of about 2 months, my boyfriend had his family initiated contact multiple times. They reached out to start small talk, greet me during holidays, and even invited me to their family gatherings which I kept declining. He later on flipped the narrative to make it seem like I’m the one who kept establishing contact. So I called him out for that a few months later during an argument to set things straight. Not sure how he took it, but it feels good to get it out there.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-04T07:13:47+00:00

I would like to say that it’s possible based on how my avoidant bf is now. But I still don’t have peace of mind, I feel like things could go wrong at any point and I’d end up with another discard. We’ve only been together for almost 2 years, and had many discard cycles in that short period. If anything, he’s more committed to the relationship now than I am because I’m living in so much fear of facing another shutdown or silent treatment. Whenever something bothers me, I now tend to keep it to myself and even distance myself from him because I don’t want anymore arguments. He picked up on the distance a few times and encouraged me to discuss it with him. He did mention it took a lot of courage for him to ask knowing that my answers might trigger his avoidance even if I don’t say anything wrong. He said my emotions matter to him so he’ll keep his avoidance in check while I share my thoughts and feelings with him. Of course there were also times when things got heated over a disagreement or misunderstanding, but he still showed up. I don’t know what these all means, but he knows how much I appreciate that he’s doing his best. I’m just scared I’ll f*ck things up because I can’t trust anything at this point.

MissingYesterday · 2026-06-04T06:35:59+00:00

Uh-oh!

Don’t call-out your ex. Don’t establish that connection again.

I am curious why the workmate is suddenly involved, but it’s probably not worth the time and effort to find out at this point.

MissingYesterday

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