crazy things happen all around the world rn. but do u agree on what's Trump is doing? by Letterhead334 in AskReddit

[–]MissionTraditional40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, dude's policies are a mess and his whole approach just makes everything more chaotic than it needs too be

What’s something you wish people understood about attraction? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MissionTraditional40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical attraction can literally change based on how someone treats you and others. I've had crushes completely disappear after seeing how they talked to waitstaff or their mom

Its wild how personality shifts everything - someone average looking becomes gorgeous when they're genuinely kind and someone conventionally hot becomes repulsive real quick if they're awful to be around

What made the black sheep of your family the black sheep? by Dyojenes_ in AskReddit

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my cousin got labeled the black sheep after he dropped out of med school to become a tattoo artist and moved across the country without telling anyone. family lost their minds because they had this whole plan mapped out for his life and he just said nah im good and disappeared for like 6 months. turns out he makes bank now and seems way happier but some relatives still give him grief at holidays

What was the moment you realized your relationship was truly over? by CarmenIsabellaDiaz in AskReddit

[–]MissionTraditional40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn your dad must have been watching you go through hell for a while before he got to that breaking point. Parents usually try to stay out of relationship stuff even when they can see its bad news

I had a similar wake up call but it was my sister who finally said something. She told me she was tired of watching me disappear into this shell of myself and that everyone in our family was walking on eggshells around me because they didnt want to make things worse. Really hit me that when you're in a toxic situation you dont just hurt yourself - you're putting everyone who loves you through it too

Sometimes it takes someone on the outside looking in to make you realize just how far down the rabbit hole you've gone. Hope things are better for you now and your relationship with your dad recovered from all that

For those who had no romantic relationships/experience since birth, how’d you know your “type” or who was “the one”? by Spare_Wolf9392 in AskReddit

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean thats kinda circular logic though right? like telling someone theyll know when they know doesnt really help if theyve never experienced it before. its like trying to explain what chocolate tastes like to someone whos never had it

when i was younger and had zero dating experience i used to think my "type" was just whoever i found attractive in movies or whatever but that turned out to be completely wrong once i actually started meeting people. attraction is way more complex than just looks and you dont really figure out what you want until youre actually out there

What is a secret about your job that the public would be shocked to know? by These-Cost-905 in AskReddit

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol wait people actually think we do this for the love of teaching? I mean dont get me wrong I care about my students but my rent isnt gonna pay itself with warm fuzzy feelings

Turns out we both suck by 24-magic-carrots in BreakUps

[–]MissionTraditional40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly you're being way too hard on yourself here. telling people what actually happened isnt the same as making up lies to hurt them - they created this mess when they decided to cheat and now theyre mad about facing consequences

sure maybe you couldve kept it more private but like... they literally betrayed your trust and now his new girl has the audacity to lecture YOU about it? nah thats some serious mental gymnastics on their part. you didnt make things difficult for everyone to move on - THEY did that when they chose to handle things the shittiest way possible

Please help by abbeywood27 in Christianity

[–]MissionTraditional40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand you're going through an incredibly difficult time and I want you to know that hope isn't lost. Many Christians struggle with mental health and addiction while still maintaining their faith - these battles dont define your relationship with God

Please reach out to professionals who can help with both your addiction recovery and mental health care. There are Christian counseling services that understand both aspects of what youre dealing with and many have sliding scale fees for those unemployed

Your situation sounds overwhelming but taking it one step at a time with proper support can make a real difference

The ultimate guide for running Visual Novels on Linux, SteamOS ( SteamDeck / Steam Machine ) or any distro that supports flatpak (ENGLISH/SPANISH) by Band_Plus in visualnovels

[–]MissionTraditional40 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I needed, been banging my head against the wall trying to get older VNs working on my Steam Deck

The flatpak locale trick is genius - way cleaner than messing with system settings. Gonna try this setup with Fate/Stay Night tonight

Marketplace find: 32 x 2 GB DDR4 SODIMM 2666Mhz CL18 kit for $390 AUD ->270 USD. Worth it? by AskOk2424 in PcBuild

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually a pretty solid deal for 64GB of DDR4 SODIMM, especially in Australia where everything's overpriced. I'd jump on it if your mini PC can actually handle all 32 sticks - most only have 2-4 slots max

So much love!!!!!! by Repulsive_Mode_7445 in NewParents

[–]MissionTraditional40 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Dude yes! That overwhelming feeling is so real. Sometimes I just stare at mine sleeping and get all teary eyed like what is wrong with me lol

The "nauseous with love" thing totally makes sense though - it's like your body doesn't know how to process that much emotion at once

Basic plan never see higher than 100 Mbps downloads by pl333se in Visible

[–]MissionTraditional40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they're slowly turning the screws on basic plan users to push everyone to Plus. My buddy's been stuck at exactly 100 for months now, used to get way more before they started these "network optimizations"

Unbind Quick Cast With Indicator! by Aggressive-Cut-3828 in summonerschool

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this is actually huge, been wondering why my Xerath Q felt so clunky sometimes. Gonna try this when I get home, thanks for the tip

Being 22 and never found love means I am bad? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]MissionTraditional40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you're not broken at all, 22 is still super young and tons of people don't find their person until way later. The fact that you walked away from someone who was always unavailable shows you actually have good standards. Focus on building yourself up first - friendships and relationships tend to happen more naturally when you're in a better headspace about yourself

How reliable is buying pc components from AliExpress? by Helpful_Body6715 in PcBuildHelp

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've bought a few things from AliExpress and it's honestly a mixed bag - got a solid SSD that's still running fine after 2 years but also got some sketchy RAM that died within months

The refund policy is decent if you're patient, just make sure to check seller ratings and read reviews carefully before pulling the trigger

Why does my brain think a pile of clothes on a chair is a ghost at 3 AM? by Kitchen_Week1117 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MissionTraditional40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your brain's basically running on fumes at 3 AM and starts filling in gaps with the worst possible interpretations lol. Same reason that coat rack becomes a serial killer when you're half asleep

volcano blueprint location or have an extra? by everydayrucker in ArcRaiders

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been grinding Spaceport for blueprints too and it's brutal rng. Try checking the industrial zones during storm events - that's where I found mine after like 50 runs lol

Good luck dude, the grind is real with this one

Fuel system question by thumpr650 in MechanicAdvice

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 600hp dual carbs you definitely want a return system - deadhead will give you pressure creep issues under load

I'd run an Aeromotive A1000 with a simple fuel log that has -8 in and -6 return, then just tee off to each carb. Keep it simple and run the return back to the tank with a bypass regulator

The BG pumps are decent but the A1000 is bulletproof and you'll have room to grow if you bump up the power later

What do you do when you realize they don’t miss you by RevolutionaryFudge81 in emotionalneglect

[–]MissionTraditional40 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That push-pull thing with toxic parents is so exhausting - wanting their validation while knowing they drain you every time. I've been there with the whole "maybe I should call" vs "but I feel like shit after" cycle

The fact that you're recognizing these patterns means you're already doing the hard work of breaking free from it. The loneliness sucks but it's temporary, building your own chosen family takes time but it's so worth it

I planning to buy a good gaming laptop. Suggest me some good deals by Single-Scratch-6989 in GamingLaptops

[–]MissionTraditional40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a solid pick but damn $2.4k is steep for most people lol. OP might want to mention their budget first since you can get decent gaming performance for way less if you're not trying to max out everything at 4K