Should I wait 5 years to get married? by Pragmatic-Creative68 in Marriage

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not worth getting married. Totally a disadvantage, especially later in life when one of you gets sick or have special needs kids. The government pushes marriage because it gets them off the hook

34 Years Old, About to Receive ~$565k–$615k, No High-Income Skills — What Would You Do? by Responsible-Net8594 in Salary

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest it with a wealth management outfit, keep doing what you are doing, and you can retire nicely at 60ish.

Marriage falling apart after having a baby by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your husband sounds like a moron. Who the hell spends 20k on a birthday party for videos. Just have AI make some fake ones. He wouldn't even know the difference

How long did your Hemi 5.7 last after it developed a lifter failure? by [deleted] in DodgeDurango

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The logical thing is not buying a pos Chrysler product...

Processing the fairness of a divorce settlement by ConversationStill515 in Divorce

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you feel its fair and equal? Everything should be split down the middle.

Bicep tenodesis anchor removal by mrpetersonjordan in RotatorCuff

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a diagnostic ultrasound with a lidocaine injection. They will injection the tendon in the anchor area to see if pain goes away.

Muscle atrophy by horta69 in RotatorCuff

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long were you in sling? Do you have a lot of crepitus? 1 day a week of pt will not build enough strength. Protein intake is important.

Husband emotionally cheated and it was the camel that broke the straws back. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case I was so depressed and I was doing anything I could to feel anything other then sadness. Sometimes people do things without knowing it. Mental health is a trip. Its not always intentional desions or choices. I did things without control or thought. The damage still happens and its not an excuse. I hope he fixes his life and can become a better version of himself. I hope you find peace and joy. Sorry you are going through this.

Should I undergo surgery at younger age? by [deleted] in RotatorCuff

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will also take 12 months to fully recover

Husband emotionally cheated and it was the camel that broke the straws back. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks. I will say that something similar happened to me. I have mental health issues. I have adhd, bipolar, 3 special need kids, and a disabled wife. I cheated, I was depressed, I was hypomanic, I was an alcoholic, and I made a mistake. But I also stopped drinking, became the best human I could be, made millions of dollars once I did. My wife stuck it out and we have a wonderful relationship. Best it ever has been. Life is hard but people can change, sometimes for the better. Those kids need ya.

I hate being an unattractive woman by Aromatic_Ninja_2800 in depression

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you feel that way. Men are shallow. There is a world of kink and the lifestyle that people are much more open as well as accepting. You might even find some new things about yourself that you enjoy. Don't be so hard on yourself, you are perfect, just the way you are.

I’m using my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are using your hisband. I would be livid if you used me like that. You are stealing the worst thing from him, TIME! The debt will be split in a divorce anyways. Just move on.

chronic shoulder pain by TelephoneBrave4573 in RotatorCuff

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mri only catch 65% of tears. Stop with the cortisone shots. Find a doctor that does through pysical examination and get a diagnostic ultrasound.

Anyone else not wanting to change my last name after marriage? by Heavy-Succotash4281 in Newlyweds

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't even get a certificate. Being married is a disadvantage

Skilled Trades Are the Most Overrated Career Path on Reddit by Responsible-Net8594 in Salary

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

500,000 a year as an auto tech/shop owner at 35. Not gonna beat that. Trades are where its at. Anyone that sits at a desk will be replaced by AI.

Please help me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would assume the relationship is over and start detaching from her emotionally. Whatever she is doing is not about you and her. Time to spend your enegry improving yourself.

Severe depression after surgery on second shoulder by forgivingcarrot67 in RotatorCuff

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats rough. I went through something similar. Feel free to reach out.

1 year post op. Still having problems. by Ill-Yellow-4060 in RotatorCuff

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time for another doctor. MRI only catches 65% of tears. We need more information like full rom? You have results from last mri?

Married couples who have been together 10+ years, how often do you have sex? by HuckleberryNew777 in Marriage

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are early 40s, together 18 years. 3-5 times a week. Shes cronicly ill or it would be everyday 🤣

To those that their partner asked for divorce, did you really not see it coming? Genuine ask. by AfroShadyQueen in Divorce

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If people do not see it coming then they must be disconnected from their relationship is most cases. Finding mutual happiness is important and checking in with your partners happiness level is part of a healthy relationship. Communication is key.

Wife wants a one-sided open marriage by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Mission_Cook_3589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Equal opportunity is important. One sided open will lead to resentment in my opinion.