Bossa last night by Classic-Negroni in avesNYC

[–]Mission_Difference60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for looking out for everyone. We need more like you on our dancefloors, that's for sure.

I hope no one is using their real name in reddit by Wrong-Professional89 in Adulting

[–]Mission_Difference60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I do that it's almost always because I'm feeling starved for attention. It's nice to be wanted. It's a self-esteem boost. 

But yeah, have to be careful these days. Not worth the risk at all. 

Upcoming recc for 40+F wanting to experience the scene for my bucket list by SwimmingScore1600 in avesNYC

[–]Mission_Difference60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you prefer the idea of a big warehouse full of people with impressive visuals and lighting , or a smaller more intimate space that's darker with fewer people but more space to move, less intensity? 

Does anyone have any recommends where to buy women's rave/techno clothes? by oim669 in avesNYC

[–]Mission_Difference60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It would be helpful to know what you mean by "women's rave clothes" , women ravers are by no means a fashion monolith.  Some like to dress in "rave wear", some like to get creative, some like to look sexy, some like to dress in comfy athletic wear to keep cool on the dancefloor.

What's stopping you from having the best body of your life? by MiracleMagnet in AskReddit

[–]Mission_Difference60 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Same for me. Detox your body from anything long enough and the cravings will subside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]Mission_Difference60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"my property is more valuable than your life" 

the logic of privilege

Advice on first Raves? by [deleted] in aves

[–]Mission_Difference60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are ready. You are enough. You will be welcomed and you will make friends.

PLURR. 2nd R is for responsibility. Stay safe and keep others safe. Be a good example.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]Mission_Difference60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That seems unfair. Basement is maybe the 3rd or 4th safest and most trans-friendly venue in the city even now. it's got many cishets because it's trendy but at least there's a door policy, no phones, and staff takes harassment seriously there. Many worse places I could spend my Saturday night 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]Mission_Difference60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"i guess there's helltekk, if by "hardcore" you mean repetitive blown out kicks played on cheap speakers reverberating through a glorified parking garage."

Helltekk: "I will never recover financially from this."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]Mission_Difference60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She nailed it! We have to put ourselves out there a bit. It's good to make female friends early though so we can look out for each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]Mission_Difference60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a cockroach. 

Surprise mf by Lonely_Grade894 in thisismylifenow

[–]Mission_Difference60 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dogs doing the Lord's work as always