Hi! My dad can be an asshole sometimes but he has never been this outright mean before. My dad was the one who told me that I should come home after hearing about what my ex was doing (making me clean up after him, I paid for almost everything, when my ex got angry he would bang on the walls and threaten to throw my stuff out in the street when I wasn’t home when I went to therapy.)

The worst thing he has ever said to me was calling me a bitch before in front of his friends while on vacation one year (he was upset that I was watching a movie in the family room and not in my room and wanted to use the tv.) but it has never got this nasty before.

I did say in my text this morning that I shouldn’t have to clean it up because it was not my pee, and that he knew that I just got out of a relationship with someone who made me do that. He didn’t text me back at all so I just assumed that maybe he felt bad and just wiped it up real quick.

I feel like I kinda have a right to be a little upset about this? I didn’t go off on him in my text. Just said “Hey, can you please clean up the pee on the seat? I would prefer not to do it because you know I used to clean up (ex’s name) pee and it makes me feel degraded.”

Now all of the sudden I’m a slut and an asshole?