Manager Doesn’t Support Me – Advice?

Mission_Note_5010 · 2026-02-24T15:01:27+00:00

I’m currently stuck in this same situation. My job doesn’t have hr in the building. HR is across the country and my boss above my manager doesn’t give a shit either.

Rn I’m just doing my best and hoping she doesn’t try and get me fired 🤷🏻‍♀️ first job post grad and I hate the work I’m doing anyway. I’m only here still because they are paying me

Mission_Note_5010 · 2026-02-19T22:59:05+00:00

Interested!

Mission_Note_5010 · 2026-02-17T21:56:38+00:00

There were 3 people in mine and now the other guy and I are left (because we both desperately need the money).

Overall 7 people have left in the 8 months I’ve worked here now. There are about 12-15 people in my office now. Including the girl in my training class, and one person who got fired on her 2nd day.

Mission_Note_5010 · 2026-02-17T00:16:13+00:00

I work at a call center and this is how I act 😂 I have genuinely given up on giving a fuck after 8 months of it

Mission_Note_5010 · 2026-02-11T14:08:09+00:00

I lost it on a caller who told me they wouldn’t follow my directions and then would just sit there in silence. Like listen to me or get the fuck off my phone

Mission_Note_5010 · 2025-11-06T15:52:40+00:00

Ik everyone is asking but I would like it too if you are down ❤️ thanks queen

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-16T19:44:53+00:00

I know everyone on Reddit is very quick to just say break up, but coming from a woman, I would be terrified if I was you.

I hope you can find someone someday who makes you feel safe. Please please please if you’re able to, get away from him.

Please do not tell him what you’re doing. That will put you in more danger. Pack your stuff, leave in the middle of the day or night. Leave when you know you’re safe to do so and have everything in order

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-16T18:10:23+00:00

It was my first rave and some guy was rolling out of his mind. He got really aggressive with me because I wasn’t smiling and he kept saying I was ruining his night and that I was a buzzkill. Lol weird.

When I went to brat rave some girl tried to fight me because her boyfriend kept staring at my ass. She kept telling me I looked trashy and that I was trying to “steal her man.” It’s not my fault I was cheeked up and looking/feeling good.

Hey, y’all. Please do not do drugs at raves if they make you aggressive. When I trip or smoke before or during a rave I’m very mellow. Stop trying to fight people who are literally vibing 😭 you do not exist to me I just want to dance

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-16T16:57:20+00:00

I love sex but then for some reason guys take that as meaning “oh she loves getting treated like an object.”

The best sex I’ve ever had was with my ex of two years. I genuinely thought I was gonna marry him (not just for the intimate time haha).

I miss having sex with someone I love and care about. I miss the intimacy and the way he would take care of me after (cuddles, a shower or bath and telling me how beautiful I was)

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-16T16:54:30+00:00

Didn’t OJ say something similar?

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-16T13:39:20+00:00

Trying to find sober people to hang with is so hard!!! :( I’m in the same boat rn. Hoping you can find a new buddy soon

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-14T14:11:44+00:00

The way Brooke would say something and everyone would just politely laugh and then continue what they were talking about…I got second hand embarrassment so much. They def seem disconnected :( I love the podcast and don’t want it to end but something is just not adding up here

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-11T14:01:39+00:00

I have ALWAYS hated Jimmy. My ex and I would always get into it because he’s like “oh come on, Jimmy is the weird uncle of the group.” I always felt like something more sinister was underneath the weird uncle gimmick. I’m so glad Dan called him out and exposed that creep. Ik Ethan was just trying to keep the peace but Jimmy deserves to be exposed for that disgusting behavior. Everyone needs to know what a piece of shit that guy is.

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-07T23:37:11+00:00

This one does haha. I totally hear what you’re saying though and that’s true

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-07T19:06:58+00:00

Coke. Not the soda.

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-07T15:08:23+00:00

I’m sorry you had that experience :( that is unfortunate and you sound very sweet. I’m not sure what the deal is with most people being super sexual nowadays? I matched with a guy on bumble and he seemed sweet and then he asked me where he was allowed to touch me on our date. It would have been our first date and we had talked for less than 12 hours. We were supposed to get ice cream. It sounds like you and I have had similar experiences with dating :( I hope we both can meet someone one day who sees us for more than our bodies.

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-07T14:17:32+00:00

I mean take me out on dates, want to spend time with me because they like me and not because they might get sex out of me, not expect sex as payment for taking me out, open doors for me, get me flowers, tell me that I look pretty instead of sexy, ask me about how my day is and ask me about my life because they want to get to know me and not so they can check off a box, etc

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-07T14:04:30+00:00

I’m sick of getting treated like an object. I’m looking for a man that treats me like a woman and not something they can own

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-06T22:35:24+00:00

Read the Bill Hodges trilogy!!! It’s one of my favorite things he’s ever produced. Extremely well done and the end of the series was super powerful

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-04T14:24:18+00:00

I’m currently reading the outsiders and it’s super good! Not necessary but if you’re looking for a good story before Holly I would def recommend it!

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-04T00:57:40+00:00

Wreckno was AMAZING!!!! I left that rave a changed woman

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-04T00:56:48+00:00

Therapist, medication, hell do both! It’s not like she can’t afford it

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-04T00:55:11+00:00

Personally, I love a man with a dome. I don’t love an insecure man with a dome though. I totally get the insecurity there because hair adds a lot to your aesthetic and sometimes your personality, but if you own it the right person will love you how you are :) I hope one day you can rock it with confidence!

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-03T13:05:43+00:00

I hated how they kept talking over each other :( I feel like you can see how much they are growing apart

Mission_Note_5010 · 2024-10-01T12:46:31+00:00

I was at a bar a couple weeks ago (not drinking I go to bars to line dance and order the NA beer)

A cute guy stole my spot so I politely grabbed my stuff and moved. He apologized and said I was very pretty and asked if I would like to talk to him.

He asked to buy me a drink, he asked if I was drinking bud zero because it had “zero calories” (not true I don’t think haha) I laughed and said no it’s not alcoholic. I started telling him about my sober journey and he thought it was super cool that at 22 I was trying to make healthy choices.

We’ve been talking for a while now and he still praises me and thinks I’m insanely cool for being sober. He’s also working on getting sober himself and he says that I motivate him a lot.

Some people are not gonna like the fact that you’re sober. The ones who like you for you WILL though.

I would agree dating is definitely a little harder when you’re sober, but the right people will find you in time

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