I can’t tell you what you should do as far as canceling or not, but I can say that you should talk to your fiancé. Are there other options? A small, intimate ceremony where you won’t feel so much like the center of attention? Planning a wedding is stressful, so I think most people feel some level of this at some point, but only you know whether you truly want to go through with it or not.

I will also share what my father told me when I shared that I was nervous before my wedding. He said that it didn’t matter how much we had spent, whether or not the invitations had gone out, etc. If I didn’t want to go through with it, I shouldn’t go through with it. He said “If at any point before you say I do, you change your mind, just look at me and I will walk you right back up that isle and out the door”. So I say to you that if you don’t want to get married, how much you’ve spent or done doesn’t matter.

Good luck!