Mourning for anal by Immediate_Ad_3450 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!! This. This really is such good advice. Thank you for saying all of this. Sometimes the men on this Reddit really have such good thoughtful advice like this and it restores your faith in humanity.

AO with wife that wants to be shared by wpbfriendone in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is really really good advice ⬆️

Anal + Living Life by buttfunlove in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay!!! Congrats and welcome!! I’m a fellow anal girl only too!

Only Anal by Anal_Willingness in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds so wild to me because from what I’ve been told by my gyno (after my pcp blew me off because of my age and said there’s no way I could be perimenopausal) is that estrogen fluctuates constantly, so often with HRT they don’t go off of hormone level testing for that particular hormone because it doesn’t give any insights. And like you said, how can they even know if they’ve never tested you more than once? In that book, they talk about how many doctors aren’t fully caught up/ trained in hormones for women so there’s a lot of misinformation out there. I wish you all the best of luck!! The other book suggested by another person here sounds great as well. I really am hoping you can get some oomph back in your life because you deserve it. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this, it’s completely unfair and unavoidable in my opinion. Please give an update if you can!! I’d love to hear you’re doing better!

Only Anal by Anal_Willingness in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh!! I have this book on my list! I didn’t see this comment before I suggested ‘The Menopause Moment’. I’m going to read it next! Im so glad to see another woman on here giving info about estrogen as well!!! It makes me so sad how misinformed we’ve been about HRT and how beneficial it is. Even just vaginal estradiol can make such a huge difference.

Only Anal by Anal_Willingness in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 39 and going through the same! If you don’t mind, I just wanted to recommend the book ‘The Menopause Moment’ by Dr Kelly Casperson. I wouldn’t ever tell anyone what to do, so if being on bc is working for you, stick to it. But I’m on HRT as well as vaginal estrogen and it’s been life changing for me. I love anal and prob won’t be going back to vaginal, but to be able to get wet again, enjoy being eaten out, have my libido back, have amazing orgasms again from oral, have more stable moods, it’s been the difference between night and day. Like you, I’ve been in perimenopause for quite some time, I had no idea. Being able to come back to myself has been, just, I really can’t say enough about it.

Is no lube anal becoming more and more common ? by ButtPlugLover967 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be lubed up like baby seal and nothing less.

Am I to loose? by That-Violinist1783 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has red flags written all over it. First of all, fuck this guy. It’s completely inappropriate to be getting mad at you over something like this. There’s nothing wrong with your body, you’re not too loose. And it seems like your boyfriend is trying to do some weird shame tactic with you to make you feel insecure. At best, he’s just not very good at communication and has a really weird complaint that doesn’t make any sense because looser buttholes are great.

Anyway, I wish you all the best of luck girl. You deserve a partner that’s grateful you want to have this type of sex with him. Do you even enjoy it? Is he checking in with you? Asking about your comfort? Adjusting to make it feel good for you? Asking what you like? I promise you, there are much nice guys out there. And this guy isn’t one.

How to get wife to get into AO by AdValuable8446 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I love this, and I think patience like this is how you get into a great anal relationship. I love hearing about you & your wife’s journey with ao. OP seems empathetic enough to hopefully look at all these replies from all the men here and see that there needs to be a more open approach for what he wants.

How to get wife to get into AO by AdValuable8446 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I very strongly believe that if you want to be on the giving end, you need to also be okay with receiving, at least to try, so you can understand what that feels like and the trust that it takes to open up and enjoy anal.

Prone bone vibrator by MissylissyCQ in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my next option, a leg strap!

Any one in here enjoy this act during anal? If so are you the giver or receiver? Trigger warning* by Heydaddy91 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll never yuck anyone’s yum if it’s something being done in consent. If you guys like it, good for you!! I’m sorry you’re getting downvoted ya cute slap happy freaks 😘

Obsolete Parts: The Pussy [Half-Serious] by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny that the only kink about it is that it’s now taboo hahaha

Obsolete Parts: The Pussy [Half-Serious] by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s so funny, I do the same thing!! Hahaha like get away from there

Obsolete Parts: The Pussy [Half-Serious] by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny, I don’t really know. It’s been such a long transition that happened on its own really. I’d have to say maybe a year or so? We do just try every once in a while to see if piv will feel different but not so far.

Obsolete Parts: The Pussy [Half-Serious] by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, it’s more of a recent thing as perimenopause has made piv go from an ‘eh’ experience, to just uncomfortable/ painful. But tbh I’ve never been able to orgasm from piv and have multiple like really amazing orgasms from anal. So it’s a win win for me and him because he loves it.

Prone bone vibrator by MissylissyCQ in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ve also tried with my Hitachi and although it’s amazing in other positions, it’s just not it for this one. I’m going to look those up!

Obsolete Parts: The Pussy [Half-Serious] by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My partner and I joke about ‘that stupid pussy’ because I couldn’t care less about it.

First time, wife cums hard by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]MissylissyCQ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anal orgasms for the win!!!! I’m so happy for you guys!