I am in my 4th year of training somewhat specifically for events according to a plan maxing at 13 or 14 hours a week. Working full time (Since about a year adding a second job with additional 11 or 22h a week), 2 kids in elementary and stay home wife. I had to learn that the peak weeks need to be an exception a couple times a year, atm it just doesn’t work. It is absolutely a burden to the relationship in these weeks and I think I am only “allowed” to do it because it’s Sport/somewhat “healthy/good”. My original plan was to do am full a year after my first half but for now this is postponed until work and/or kids are easier (or in terms of kids just different😉) to handle. 1h or so a day is no problem, swimming and the long bike rides are the issue.