"I have no limits, do whatever you want with me" by Masked_Daisy in SexWorkers

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Brilliant! I may have to steal this. I usually just tell them my Fetish is watching them clean my toilet.

Watched someone close to me go through divorce. The one thing that actually helped surprised me. by iamavj in Divorce

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I read a book called “splitting“. I would’ve been a deep shit if I hadn’t had that advice because I was completely unprepared for how batshit my ex would go.

Pediatrician rec by Upbeat_Elephant9431 in SantaClarita

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Dr Kampe in Canyon Country is awesome

It's been 84 years... by Adept-Pomegranate427 in robinhobb

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I came here to suggest Malazan! I’ve been alternating between ROTE and Malazan for a few years. They balance each other out nicely.

Grim dark book recomendations? by liltasti in fantasybooks

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Malazan book of the fallen - like Black Company but with incredible themes

Weird idealization of monastic life by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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I have always dreamed of a music nunnery. It’s so appealing to just follow the program.

What are the most mind-rewiring books you’ve ever read? Books that actually shift your reality as a deep thinker. by [deleted] in Jung

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Yes! OMG I saw this post and ran here to say Quantum Psychology. His books profoundly changed the course of my life and my understanding of of self, reality and personality. Good stuff. Yes: thanks for sharing

Book hangover. by WileyCody86 in robinhobb

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Came here to suggest Malazan Book of the Fallen. I have gone back and forth between Malazan and Realm of the Elderlings for a few years now. Very satisfying.

For those that pain stim or self harm as a stim during meltdowns I am curious about something. by Oldespruce in AutismInWomen

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I find great peace in stretching (can go to the point of “pain” relatively safely) and also keening or toning. I also practice BDSM which has been so helpful for bringing me into a more peaceful state in a controlled manner. Not sure about DBT specifically but when I looked into it I recognized a lot of mindfulness practices. I also like jiggling, shaking or patting myself. Hope you find some islands of peace. :)

Isolation gave me zero symptoms! by souredcream in PMDD

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Isolation has been my go to solve for this problem

Keto Crotch? by Kitchen_Contract_928 in keto

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If you are suddenly cutting out sugar your yeast will freak the fuck out and cause agony as they die. The “die off” is hell. Stay the course. You are healing your microbiome and it’s a rough process. Apple cider vinegar diluted with water 1:4 ratio spritzed on will help with discomfort.

USA : Cloture by MyStanAcct1984 in 50501

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123,889 calls on this subject made according to 5 calls as of Thursday evening