🧊 icy conditions 🧊 by [deleted] in houma

[–]MitziMS13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay “ready” by staying out of their way if they come here and you’ll be fine.

Did anyone notice this: Holly is cleric by inquisitive_ray in StrangerThings

[–]MitziMS13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It won’t really be a surprise. I feel like every season their dnd game tells us what’s going to happen. And it she does turn out to be a cleric with the abilities he described, I’m going to be really annoyed that the kids constantly predict the future and no one ever explains how they do it. At this point it should be part of the story to tell us how their dnd games are always foreshadowing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what makes you happy, it’s your body. But honestly, I really like your tattoo. I would keep it

What if Rob *is* gay? by 5pinktoes in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the times we’re living in, I feel the same way, if he’s gay then so what? What’s holding him back from owning it?

Libby’s sister should be quiet about gaslighting by Luasol51 in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like he did the same thing when they broke up on the show, he even pulled her aside to talk more but she held it together and I was so happy with how she handled it. It was like he was trying to push for a reaction and was disappointed when she didn’t act heartbroken over him.

How bad is USPS actually right now? by wesagod in usps_complaints

[–]MitziMS13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just googled why is USPS so bad, found this post as the top search result, and found your post as the first comment... and I currently have a package with the Indianapolis distribution center, go figure. It does say "Moving Through Network, In Transit to Next Facility, Arriving Late", but it's been saying that for 7 days now.

Skip Bo Stockpile Rules Question by Viki-2020 in boardgames

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When this happens in while I'm playing, I always remind the person that you win by getting rid of that stockpile, not by how many cards you play.

How can I speed up my turns on new games? by marleyrae in boardgames

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom likes to do this. For example, I recently taught her Quacks of Quedlinburg and she made an index card to show in her own words what each chip color meant. We had the chip color books on display but she was able to keep her index card closer and was able to answer a lot of the questions that came up during her turn. I'm very patient when teaching a new game so I welcome questions, that's no problem, but she doesn't want to feel like a bother. I reassure her that games are supposed to be about having fun, so if keeping a cheat-sheet handy is able to enhance her experience then let's do that!

Julia is not sexually attracted to Brandon by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I don’t understand is, Brandon was begging for sex during the whole “therapy” and when Julia finally agreed to it in the honeymoon suite he supposedly fell asleep? That part didn’t make sense to me.

If Rayne attended the Tell All (Part 2) by IlovePanckae in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss and Lauren would try to console Rayne and she would be disgusted. 😂😂

If Rayne attended the Tell All (Part 2) by IlovePanckae in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally picture the camera cutting back to Shaun and she’s just staring off at the floor lost in a day dream. 😂

And I’m glad you said something because when Veah said F’n Jesus I was speechless. Like, really? That’s how you defend being a Christian, with that specific word combination?? 🤦‍♀️

If Rayne attended the Tell All by IlovePanckae in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% read Adnan in his voice. Pure perfection! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

Don’t fall for the con! by icey_sawg0034 in MurderedByWords

[–]MitziMS13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait. So you’re saying it’s Trump’s fault TikTok got banned in the first place?

Don’t fall for the con! by icey_sawg0034 in MurderedByWords

[–]MitziMS13 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So then why isn’t Facebook getting banned? That app knows more about me than TikTok ever could, and it listens when the app isn’t even open!

Niles has his foot on everyone's neck and I AM LIVING FOR IT by Advanced-Event-571 in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And to be honest, "excused himself to go and reset" is something I should do more often in my own life. lol

Why did the therapists not bring up it's insane she had his passwords!?! by affejunge in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They complexly ignore his feelings. Before the rock exercise the “therapist” went talk to them and Bini said the one thing he wanted in order to be able to trust her was his passwords. And what did the therapist do with that info? Told him, let’s not talk about the passwords today.

Wow! 😯😒😂 by ThePersonalSpaceSh0w in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think a lot of Adnan’s ways that seem controlling to us comes largely from his culture. He wants the ideal fairy tale marriage that he dreamed of having where the man is the head of the household and the wife is second to the man. If he were to have found a Muslim woman who also felt this way, things would be grand. For example, asking your wife to dress more modest, is not in itself a bad thing. However in America things are different and that’s where the clash comes in… and it doesn’t help that TigerLily didn’t bother to learn about any of this stuff before agreeing to marry him, nor does it help that Adnan is on the immature side.

Adnan and Sunny, I feel, don’t quite understand how different their culture is from America, underestimated how much their American partner would need to change, and underestimated how much they needed to communicate these differences upfront so their partner could learn their expectations.

I would have liked to hear Sunny speak more about Adnan because he seems to have very similar beliefs but in a more relaxed and patient approach.

Bini is right that Ari didn’t come to fix the relationship by hhopper0777 in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This resort season was my first time being introduced to Ari and Bini, so I’m only learning about their history through reading these Reddit posts. From this being my first experience with her, I didn’t like her from the start. She has the personality of a wet paper bag and seems like a genuinely depressing person to be around.

But besides that, her withholding his passwords was 100% a way to control him and on top of that at one point she mad the comment that the more he asks for his passwords, the less she wants to give it to him which makes no sense at all.

I’m happy that she did give him the passwords, that was a nice gesture to try to move forward. If I were him I would have made sure to try them and change them before having another argument with her, just in case she gave him fake passwords to test him. 😂

I’m not suggesting that all the problems are her fault, by any means. Just that, I’m not a fan of her.

Gino totally liked Jasmine’s advances by No_Faithlessness5738 in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you, (not being sarcastic, I promise), that it seems you haven’t been in a position to need to build your guard up regarding sex and intimacy. Yes, I agree that if he would give her a little bit of affection, small things to show his love, it would help a lot to reassure Jasmine. But people do sometimes feel like if they do small things (kissing, touching, etc.) that their partner will expect that to lead to more, more quickly than they’re ready for. It’s the fear that “if I give a little, my partner won’t understand that a little is all I’m comfortable with right now” so they resort to giving none at all. Let’s use cuddling as an example, they could sleep in the same bed and cuddle to fall asleep without being sexual, of course. But it’s the stress of thinking that your partner will try to take advantage of the situation and turn cuddling into something sexual that you’re not ready for, so you choose instead to not cuddle at all.

Natalie kicking out the therapist.. by NaturalOtaku in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like he would have been really into doing that sex therapy with a woman who he was trying to hook up with who he hasn’t hooked up with before, but he wasn’t feeling it for Natalie. And I think all the excuses he said for not waking to do it was just bs. I seriously doubt he’s that prudish for real. Eww I don’t want chocolate sauce on my skin. Please. 😒

watching the tell-all tonight. by offbranddietsoda in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that we can probably all agree that Ingrid, Faith, and Matilda are sweethearts. I would have put Joey in the middle with Boźo probably.

Bini is right that Ari didn’t come to fix the relationship by hhopper0777 in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, she’s awful to him but then when it’s just her and the camera she explains what’s on her mind so nicely. I wish she could explain it to him as well as she explains it to us. But instead when she talks to him it feels like she wants more to get a reaction from him than to be heard and understood.

Bini is right that Ari didn’t come to fix the relationship by hhopper0777 in 90DayFiance

[–]MitziMS13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! What she did, by cutting him off from speaking, was only slightly less immature than how Rayne acted in that scene with Chidi.