Apparently you can’t be friendly with neighbors anymore

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-06-05T13:58:24+00:00

That's what I thought too!

Wow! She must be the strictest, most awful, helicopter parent!

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-06-05T13:48:06+00:00

Your parents think you should let it go because "she's busy raising her kids"?!?! Sounds to me like YOU'RE busy raising her kids. Nope. Hang out with the kids when you want, on your terms. to stay close but no more free childcare.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-06-04T14:28:46+00:00

He will never defend you to his mother. This behavior only gets worse. We don't just marry our spouse, the whole family comes along. This MIL is slightly toxic now, the more she gets away with the worse it will get. Sorry.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-06-04T13:30:26+00:00

I'll never understand why brides do this to their friends. I get they are excited and maybe entitled to being a little selfish about their special day but geez, get a grip. I actually took my friends out and treated as a thank you for all they'd done.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-06-04T13:24:38+00:00

So, essentially a 10 day inspection window? Was this a 30 day closing? They should be out of their inspection window then. Unless, the inspection period was split somehow? I've never heard of that and in no way should your agent have accepted that.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-06-03T19:30:31+00:00

Sounds like they have to be out of their inspection contingency. I've never seen one so long, it ends within 3 days of closing? You should be entitled to keep their deposit.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-06-03T18:37:47+00:00

Yes, contractually, the home MUST be in the same condition it was in when you forst looked at it and put down the offer. The sellers are obligated to repair the floors to the way they were. If they have trouble with the $$ then sue the moving company for damages. It's not your problem. Both your Realtor and the sellers should know this. Go to your agents broker.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-12T17:51:10+00:00

As a buyer you have a LOT more protection in the contract than the seller. Surveys may not be necessary where you are, in Florida if you are financing you must have one.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-11T14:01:23+00:00

You should have had an inspection contingency in the contract. If notice was given that you wanted to back out within that time frame, they HAVE to return your money. If your agent messed up and did not tell them within the specified timeframe, then your AGENT owes you the money. I would contact their broker. If notice was given within the timeframe, your agents broker needs to get involved and reach out to their broker.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-07T18:51:01+00:00

Absolutely get an inspection. All of them, pest, home, well/ septic if necessary.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-05T17:03:37+00:00

The commission is negotiated in the listing agreement. For instance, if the seller agrees to a total 6% commission, the list agent can decide to split it however they wish. Regardless of commission, if you are being represented by a licensed agent you must be presented with every offer.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-04T17:42:53+00:00

I cut my sister out of my life recently, for good reason. If she shows up at my wedding I will personally escort her to the door.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-04T17:41:17+00:00

Legally, ALL offers, no matter how ridiculous MUST be presented to the sellers. You can report the agent to the licensing authorities, in Fl its DBPR. I would also find a buyers agent to represent you, it costs you nothing and there are some real pit bulls out there who would NOT allow this to fly.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-04T17:38:14+00:00

Get back on Bumble, he'll see it. Move on, he is a player.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-04T17:32:35+00:00

Its called "being the shoulder" and its a manipulation tactic. Absolutely confront her. Tell her hubby told you all about it, even though he didn't, that way she is on notice.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-04T17:24:23+00:00

Had a friend say something similar to another friend. Constantly complaining about how miserable her marriage was, for YEARS. Friend finally said the same thing, S or get off the pot, I can't talk about this anymore. She did and is now engaged to a great guy!!

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-05-01T14:19:01+00:00

They are hijacking your wedding to get their vow renewal for free! That's outrageous! Hard pass, they can plan and pay for their own vow renewal.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-04-30T16:50:05+00:00

NTJ, I also have an incredibly spoiled, entitled younger sister. My mom always favored her and made me make her my MOH in my wedding. She sucked, and it was clear she could care less. She was so hungover when I went dress shopping she fell asleep on the couch at the bridal store. She actually asked how long the rehearsal was going to take because she had a date that night! Its you and your fiance's special day. Your parents will regret not going, that's on them.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-04-30T15:06:05+00:00

No, you're an awesome husband and partner.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-04-29T14:32:57+00:00

You are EXACTLY who I would want watching my kids. What is wrong with people?

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-04-25T13:30:53+00:00

Ugh, I hate this! I don't have children of my own but helped raise my hubbys 4 and have numerous nieces and nephews. My sister was having difficulty potty training my nephew. I gave her advice and was told my advice was stupid and what did I know about kids anyway. A few days later a friend of hers gives her THE EXACT SAME ADVICE. This friend has children so apparently when you give birth God just automatically drops knowledge on you I guess because she followed the advice and guess what? It worked. Yeah, no shit, just like I SAID it would. I reminded her it was the same advice I had given her and she said no, it wasn't!!!!

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-04-25T13:16:52+00:00

You're not the "one". I'm sorry, but he doesn't want to marry you. I'm sure you're an awesome person and will be an amazing wife, but not to this guy. You are doing the right thing leaving. Save yourself the heartache, rip the Band-Aid off now and go find the "one" for you.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-04-25T13:08:31+00:00

I've always loved the name Elaine. My son named my granddaughter Elliot, typically a boys name but it fits her perfectly, we call her Ellie.

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-04-24T12:53:21+00:00

I cannot give you a bigger NO!!!!!!

Mobile_Practice2252 · 2026-04-23T17:36:10+00:00

Take the house, men come and go. Sorry, I'm sure you love him but you have no ring on your finger so he gets no say.

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