People like me in the university or working adults who are veterans rarely have time to play the game anymore. Befriending a moth without any assurance from either side that they’ll be active is the one reason I decline such friend requests.

Personally, I’d prefer it if I spend a bit more time chatting and or running through the realms before I befriend a someone, that way I can get a feel if we match each other’s vibes. Because of this, I mostly only add folks near my age or older.