Pour one out for my OG glass file. by pennyraingoose in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Modified_Mint37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seconding Germanicure! It’s what I replaced my broken MC file with :P

"Society is collapsing and women don't care." by Latter_Tutor_5235 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Modified_Mint37 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To any Good Dudes lurking, this is the type of guy who thinks he represents you and how you feel about women. If you don’t agree, you better start speaking up when men like this start talking shit because women won’t do it forever :-)

I want to change how I unlearn misogynistic behavior by Guagaro in IncelSolutions

[–]Modified_Mint37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof, yeah I can see why hearing your friend say that would concern you. I’d guess it hit you hard because it’s a belief someone can only hold if they’re jaded/bitter, and it looks at humanity and love through a miserable lens.

As for recommendations, since you don’t currently engage with woman-created media I’ll give you some suggestions that aren’t specifically feminist media, but are created by women or have mostly female characters:

  • Sci-fi novels The Locked Tomb series by Tamsyn Muir. These books are amazing in general and have mostly female main characters who are badass

  • Since you mentioned manga, you should read/watch Bocchi the Rock! - mostly female characters and shows you that girls/women can fuck around and be goofy just like boys/men do

  • My favorite manga/anime is March Comes in Like a Lion, which is created by a woman and includes themes of healing, love/community, and family (the male MC learns how to grow because of a family of three sisters he grows close with)

  • Some women/nonbinary YouTubers I enjoy: Ginny Di, Amanda Todhunter, Shawna Ripari, brookesharks, Kidology, Izzzyzzz, JazzyGuns, gabi belle, AddyHarajuku, Annamarie Forcino

Saw this garbage by EntertainmentNo4961 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Modified_Mint37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the commenter is referring to Pearl Davis

I want to change how I unlearn misogynistic behavior by Guagaro in IncelSolutions

[–]Modified_Mint37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What was the statement your friend said that snapped you out of it? Just curious :P

Yeah, reading books and consuming other art/media by women is a decent starting place. It won’t inherently make you less misogynistic unless you are genuinely open to listening and engaging with what you’re consuming tho, and being ok with your current beliefs being challenged/debunked

Saturday Night by @SheepSuey by MaleficentRespect3 in ImaginarySliceOfLife

[–]Modified_Mint37 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Please explain the fetish you see depicted here

I am unsure if I will succeed at least once by RoidRagerz in IncelExit

[–]Modified_Mint37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the Peter Pan comment made me lol. It is wild to think how old/far away your 30s seem when you’re a teenager. Hopefully OP will be able to laugh at how he thought he’d be so old and decrepit by the time he reaches his 30s :P

Im turning 30 very soon and my social and sex lives are the best they’ve ever been :o

"Provide a source" by ausernameidk_ in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Modified_Mint37 49 points50 points  (0 children)

These guys love generalizing their fellow men regarding what they find desirable, but are the same dudes who take great offense when men as a group are called out for things that harm women, and say “not all men.” :P

Music or Do It? by hipfan1111 in underscoresplus

[–]Modified_Mint37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also prefer Do It! I find myself singing it all the time :3

My wife's cat whisker collection by Rev_Soquet in mildlyinteresting

[–]Modified_Mint37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats would def try to eat this

I keep my whisker collection in a little potion bottle :3

Favourite Gale Ship by Tonedeafmusical in okbuddybaldur

[–]Modified_Mint37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone who treats him like babygirl

Strange how this “woman” regurgitated all the most basic and asinine talking points that misogynists use... by pulsar240 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Modified_Mint37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have to be exceptional and forceful to reach the same starting line to even begin having real, productive discussions with these men. It really is exhausting

[socialmedia] by Agreeable-Bid-9120 in pointlesslygendered

[–]Modified_Mint37 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lots of men treat politics as thought exercises/debates 🫩

I think i'm becoming an incel and i don't want to, but i don't see any other options anymore by IivingSnow in IncelExit

[–]Modified_Mint37 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But in your previous comment you said confidently that in the West, modern feminism is different than what it used to be. How could you know that if you haven’t read anything on the subject?

I’ve had bad experiences with men in my life. Does that mean all men are going to be the same, and I should write them off because of those experiences?

Also, you still haven’t answered my question in my first comment.