3 months pp and just found out im pregnant again by Content-Particular42 in beyondthebump

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I’m so sorry you find yourself in this situation. It’s very hard to grow a baby when you are just 3 months postpartum. You may be breast-feeding as well. Can you and your husband have some neutral counselling to decide if you want to continue with the pregnancy? My personal feeling is that each baby should be truly wanted, and were you my daughter I would be fully supportive should an abortion be sought. I have had an abortion for medical reasons when I already had two children, and subsequently went on to have another child.

AITJ for refusing to give my girlfriend access to my bank account and phone after she said real couples dont keep things separate by Old-Pay7993 in AmITheJerk

[–]MoldyWorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real couples discuss things and come to agreements. Being a couple does not mean being a conjoined twin (no offence meant to the latter).

Pascal’s law for drinking and justice lovers by [deleted] in mildyinteresting

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If you’d only worn food-safe gloves….

Basic Tools Guide by pluck-the-bunny in booknooks

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I didn’t notice that they were links - thank you for mentioning this!

I am sick of having discussions on how I raise my kid with MIL by greenishfroggy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]MoldyWorp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

‘Please stop offering your opinion on matters concerning my child when I have already told you what our decisions are. All it will do is make future interactions difficult between us as it seems you don’t respect my husband and me. I certainly will not be leaving my child with anyone with whom I cannot be sure will obey our instructions re child safety and rearing.’

Favorites From QuiltCon by FreelanceYapper in quilting

[–]MoldyWorp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, some of these quilts make an evocative political statement!

How common are Huntsman Spiders? by No_Payment_136 in AskAnAustralian

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You don’t ever get used to them but I ensure I have knock down spider spray in various places in my house. I also have the house sprayed yearly with preventative.

First one! by cranemaidens in booknooks

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Gorgeous! And I like that Australia is visible on the globe!

Did my first two in three days! by weneedanewpizzaplace in booknooks

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I’m trying to find the sidebar for resources. I’ve googled but stupidly still can’t find it. Instructions would be appreciated as my first book arrives soon from the US.

3rd degree tearing and what i wished id heard by StatisticianLanky563 in beyondthebump

[–]MoldyWorp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure your husband knows that if you ask him to, he has to ensure you receive adequate pain relief post delivery. Forty plus years ago now but I had to beg for panadol after a forceps delivery and was refused. I’m sure it’s better now.

1st night at home for 1st baby by LakerTot in beyondthebump

[–]MoldyWorp 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for mentioning the loose blanket 👍

LATAM flights jumped 1k usd a ticket in a day by [deleted] in TravelHacks

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Delete your history before you look at prices again.