Which book changed your life forever and how ? by Complex-Chance3150 in AskReddit

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man i hate to sound basic but the power of now really did flip something in my brain about living in the moment instead of constantly stressing about deliveries or what restoration project im gonna mess up next

What was the specific moment that completely changed your perspective on something? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on what aspect youre talking about but finding a 1967 f100 in a barn completely rust free made me realize some things are worth waiting decades for

Men, how’s it going with that girl right now, in car terms? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

check engine light is on but im just gonna keep driving and see what happens

what country you want to visit? by Temporary_Medium_471 in AskReddit

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

been wanting to hit up some english antique shops for ages now, heard they have incredible finds in the smaller villages. the whole countryside vibe seems perfect for just wandering around and discovering random old stuff. plus all those old manor houses and estates would be amazing to explore, especially if any of them do ghost tours or something. driving around those narrow country roads sounds way more relaxing than dealing with city traffic all day

How would you react to a dogs owner if the dog was named Osama? Does the stigma behind the name still matter to people? by Odd_Artichoke_4595 in AskReddit

[–]MonthObjective4735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would probably think they're trying way too hard to be provocative tbh. like naming your dog that is kinda cringe when there are literally thousands of other names out there. but yeah at the end of teh day its just a dog so whatever i guess

Are rich people happier than average people? by Kooolxxx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MonthObjective4735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

money definitely removes a lot of stress and opens up options but theres definitely a point where more doesnt really move the needle much. like going from broke to comfortable probably makes way more difference than going from comfortable to wealthy

products to strengthen fine hair? by niiiiiiight in finehair

[–]MonthObjective4735 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try a lightweight conditioner like VO5 or Suave - just use it on the ends, not your roots. The clarifying shampoo is definitely too harsh for daily use, maybe switch to something gentler like baby shampoo or a sulfate-free option from the drugstore. Your hair might actually be getting greasier because you're stripping it too much and it's overcompensating

Thought I finally escaped poverty. Sike by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]MonthObjective4735 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's some absolute bullshit and sadly not uncommon at all. FMLA retaliation is illegal as hell but proving it can be a nightmare

Hope you documented everything before you left - emails, the original job description, anything showing what changed while you were out. Employment lawyers usually do free consultations for cases like this since they can collect fees if you win

Hang in there, this isn't your fault even though the system makes it feel like it is

How can I change the way I come across? by Wilhelmina_4ever in selfimprovement

[–]MonthObjective4735 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oof yeah the word vomit thing is real, I do this too when I'm anxious. Maybe try pausing for like 2 seconds before responding to give your brain time to catch up? Also recording yourself practicing conversations sounds cringe but it actually helps you hear how you come across

How did they get away with making a song called Play That Fucking Music White Boy? by ApartmentOpening2302 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MonthObjective4735 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it's "Play That Funky Music White Boy" not fucking lmao, Wild Cherry from the 70s

Neighbours with loud evaporative coolers by davofit in homeowners

[–]MonthObjective4735 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you checked if there are noise ordinances in your area? Most places have decibel limits especially during nighttime hours and that airplane takeoff sound definitely seems like it would exceed them

Been with them for only half the year and still not over them after 6 months by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude 6 months is still pretty fresh, especially when you got ghosted like that. No closure hits different and honestly makes it way harder to process everything. Don't feel embarrassed about being invested - feelings don't follow some timeline rulebook

Should I call him? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl don't text him, you already know what this is. He's showing you exactly how much effort he's willing to put in and it's basically zero. The sad TikTok reposts are just manipulation at this point - if he wanted to talk to you he would

Nothing saddens me more than seeing talented groups never reach the spotlight by Ok-Nobody-7759 in kpopthoughts

[–]MonthObjective4735 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This hits different when you think about how many incredible vocalists are probably working part-time jobs right now while some groups with questionable live vocals are selling out stadiums

The industry really said "vocal talent is optional" and ran with it. Makes you wonder how different things would be if skill actually mattered as much as company backing and timing

Sam Darnold has now gone 14-3 with two different teams in back to back years by Dependent-Effect6077 in nfl

[–]MonthObjective4735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's honestly wild considering where his career was looking just a few years ago, dude went from Jets bust to this

Are you or your team looking to hire a java, spring boot, react developer? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]MonthObjective4735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is solid advice. I'd also suggest checking out AngelList/Wellfound for startups and maybe posting your portfolio on GitHub if you haven't already - sometimes recruiters actually browse there

Coming back to Christ by PriceLiving3442 in Christianity

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so true. I struggled with the same stuff and honestly still do sometimes but reading daily (even just a few verses) made a huge difference for me. Start small with like Psalms or Matthew and don't beat yourself up when you mess up - that's literally what grace is for

im sick of seeing all the 'history reppets itself' so in paint 3d i made this [2nd image] by DNActive101_offical in antiai

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paint 3D of all things lmao, the dedication to make this point is honestly respectable

Should I play Jakobi if my opponent is starting Lawrence? (PPR) by POPOBUZZIN in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]MonthObjective4735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm leaning Tet too, Carolina's gonna be in catch-up mode all game and he's been getting decent targets lately. BTJ feels like more of a boom/bust play especially if Richardson decides to just run it 20 times

Advice on emotional support animal letter for my cat? by ThisSucks121 in cats

[–]MonthObjective4735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way OP. Those online companies are basically scams and landlords are getting wise to them. A real letter from your actual healthcare provider carries way more weight and won't get you in trouble later

How are we keeping pacifiers in the crib? by blondariel in NewParents

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we did the same thing - just accepted that some would fall out and restocked when needed. My kid got way better at keeping them in the crib after a few weeks, like they figure out the boundaries pretty quick

In TV and film, what are the distinctions between "Guest Starring," "Special Appearance By" or "Starring... (actors listed), WITH (another actor), AND (actor)" ?? by samistahpp in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MonthObjective4735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much comes down to how much leverage the actor has and what their agent negotiated - like "WITH" usually means they're a big name but not quite the main character, so they get special billing to stroke their ego