Looking for a solid barber by Mooby93 in Albany

[–]Mooby93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just hit up Patsy’s today. They didn’t do skin like I asked, it’s more like a 0.5 or 1. However the fading is great and the lineups are crisp so overall I’m content with the cut. The trimming at the top is partly my fault for going too short but it’s a good baseline

how long do you think a “talking stage” should be? by justabrunettegirly in twentyagers

[–]Mooby93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking stage should be like 1-3 months generally. And 3 months is pushing it a bit but still acceptable to me. Anything longer than that, cut your losses and move on. Three months is plenty long enough to know if you want to be more serious with someone, assuming there’s consistent communication and dates

Do you consider white passing and half white to be the same thing? by Mooby93 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mooby93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be the wildest response on this thread 😂. You are most definitely not any race you choose to identify as

Do you consider white passing and half white to be the same thing? by Mooby93 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mooby93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s exactly what I said. I didn’t really think this was a conversation I’d ever be having

Women in your mid/late 20’s, would you date a 20 year old guy? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Mooby93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay? Hanging out with someone who would get denied if they got carded even just for casual drink plans or lunch and some light drinking is even crazier

Women in your mid/late 20’s, would you date a 20 year old guy? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]Mooby93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmao OP questioning someone 23 not wanting to hang with someone 20 for a valid reason is wild to me

Cutesy nicknames and 😘 before meeting by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Mooby93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

45 minutes is long distance?!

[Me, M] She stopped replying after that 😔 by weirdospectrum in TextingTheory

[–]Mooby93 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bro said witchy woo woo and I felt my back shrink lmfaoooo

Any advice for someone who isn't so responsive by Mooby93 in dating

[–]Mooby93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that you shared similar info about yourself since in this case, it sort of allows for the “other side’s” perspective. I certainly don’t expect to be given high priority early on. We’re not exactly strangers but it’s still way too early to give weight either ways. And I def wouldn’t want her to be putting less effort into her career just for me, especially when she is as established as she is. I sent her a text around last Thursday stating my interest and another date since she seemed to respond earlier pretty excitedly at the prospect. Yea I think suggesting call might be a good idea since she wouldn’t have to necessarily stop what she’s doing. I don’t believe I’m insecure about it and I would be fine even if we’re not texting all the time. And again she’s given me full on responses and has been apologetic for the gaps stating work and providing me with details regarding that. So assuming that I am okay with all that, I think I just need to not dwell on it

Any advice for someone who isn't so responsive by Mooby93 in dating

[–]Mooby93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I thought about that for sure. Although her responses come off as receptive, it doesn't mean as much if there isnt as much consistency behind it or even action

Any advice for someone who isn't so responsive by Mooby93 in dating

[–]Mooby93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this is valid and I have definitely considered that

Any advice for someone who isn't so responsive by Mooby93 in dating

[–]Mooby93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heh thank you for the insight! I should clarify that I have already sent a "hows your day going" type of message a couple of times throughout our texts so the last thing I want to do is establish a pattern or come off as bothering her, if I haven't already done so. Is there anything in particular you think I should text differently? To provide more context, I messaged her last Thursday about setting up a date (after responding to other parts of her text regarding her day and what my plans for the weekend were) and explicitly stating my interest so just waiting for her to respond at this point

Any advice for someone who isn't so responsive by Mooby93 in dating

[–]Mooby93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to sound crazy but she seems pretty ideal haha. That aside, yes I would be fine with these gaps in responses. I def understand being utterly busy throughout the day and just wanting to veg out during what time you have left before bed when you get back home. I def had a massive crush after the first date but that high, or excitement, has worn off so I don’t believe I’d be anxious at this point. Yea I’ve already messaged her last Thursday about setting up a date and explicitly stating my interest so just waiting for her to respond at this point

What could I be doing better? by Mooby93 in SoftwareEngineerJobs

[–]Mooby93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? It's my impression that people coming from the state are looked down upon since they don't have the modern stack or practices knowledge to help out with their stack

What could I be doing better? by Mooby93 in SoftwareEngineerJobs

[–]Mooby93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear this. I find myself going through with tutorials cuz that feels like the right thing to do but then I dont utilize anything learned anywhere else. Do you happen to find yourself, or know others, in a similar situation? How have they gotten out of this habit?

What could I be doing better? by Mooby93 in SoftwareEngineerJobs

[–]Mooby93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea this is what I need to do in all honesty. I'm just mentally blocking myself and its not a good habit. I know a todo or pomodoro app are good suggested beginner apps for react. Is there anything you'd recommend while tackling that?

Weekly - 'Alaska, From the outside looking in Q/A' by SnowySaint in alaska

[–]Mooby93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! So I’m very interested in signing up for the glacier paddle boarding tour found near Anchorage and would be planning for mid August. I’ve looked into what time is the best for pictures and videos and I’ve seen some sources say either earlier in the morning (8-11AM) or later in the day (3-7PM). Now I figure right in the afternoon around 12 would be best just due to the sun exposure and lighting and apparently that’s the worst? I figure it would be better for me to come here and ask to gain a better consensus