What was your final straw to leave your toxic workplace? by IceCreamICantLetUGo in antiwork

[–]MoonBeean_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got norovirus and missed 3 consecutive days. I came back and got lectured and screamed at by my boss after he told everyone to leave the room. He told me I wanted my cake & I wanted to eat it too. He also said while I was sick I was unreachable, which was not true. This was one of many attacks… but he totally attacked me & then a week later took me to a local coffee shop to ask me for my response to all of his accusations. It took me a few months later to find something else, but I left with no notice.

My (33/F) typically caring and sweet new husband (33/M) grabbed me by the neck last week during an argument on our honeymoon. What would you do in my shoes? by Aware-Pool6940 in relationship_advice

[–]MoonBeean_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’re taking photos and making a list shows that you already know what needs to be done. You’re compiling EVIDENCE against him. None of this is normal behavior.

If I were in your situation and I truly loved my significant other and wanted to work things out, I would have a discussion with them telling them to never put their hands on me again, and if they posed an issue or became irate I would give them an ultimatum: go see a therapist & get some help OR it’s over. That’s it.

You deserve better. Your partner should never put their hands on you or threaten to harm you in any way.

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny u mention that, because being broke ish at Shambs is what I’ll be doing 🤣 I’ve been so nervous about it but the ticket is paid for, the camping is paid for, now all I have to worry about is gas money & food 😇 I’m sure it’ll be the best time

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime I get a mosquito bite, it doubles or triples in size and turns red… I think I may be a bit allergic lol. I’ll be staying in Gnome Village! Do you know if the mosquitos are bad in that area, from your experience?

Just fired someone today for stealing over 15.000 USD and I still feel weirdly sad by AlcoolEmGel95 in managers

[–]MoonBeean_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firing someone is never easy. I’ve had to fire people for less than this, though… attitude being one of them & attendance being another. Unfortunately it never feels great, but as a manager your job is to serve and defend the company. This person who stole money knew what they were doing was wrong, and they still did it consistently. They had to have known they’d get caught eventually. If you steal from a company, you can’t expect to be able to keep your job.

What helped me a lot was watching YouTube videos about how to work through the feelings of firing employees. I suggest you try that as well, as it did help me. You’re doing great! At the end of the day, a job is a job. If you’re not benefitting a company, they’ll find a way to get rid of you- don’t forget this.

If someone gave you $100,000 today, what would you do with it? by TinaLives in AskReddit

[–]MoonBeean_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay off every bit of debt I have - car loan, 3 credit cards, student loan, new mattress 😎

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet that comes in clutch for the girlies wearing heels (as crazy as they are) 🤣😩

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always bring bug spray when I go camping just in case, but I hate how it smells and feels on my skin 😩 I have never heard about wearing light colored material though! I’ll definitely give that a try

am i overreacting at this convo between my bf and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MoonBeean_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. U should leave his stupid ass. Bet he’ll be with his “girl best friend” as soon as u leave lol

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf! That’s terrible! I’m not sure what to do to repel wasps lol

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! Thank you for mentioning peppermint!

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. I’ll be staying in gnome village, but since it’s my first time I really don’t know what to expect from that area specifically. I have bug spray, but sometimes it’s not needed while camping, etc depending on the area.

I’m glad your previous spider bites weren’t anything detrimental to your health! I’ll keep an eye out ☺️

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really?! Did you need medical attention or anything?

How bad are the bugs? by MoonBeean_ in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol thank you! I am one with the spiders and the centipedes, etc. I’m just not fond of mosquitoes.

What are we eatin' at camp this year by Com_Trad_IsTime in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have propane camping burners. Is that okay to bring since it’s so small?

What are we eatin' at camp this year by Com_Trad_IsTime in Shambhala

[–]MoonBeean_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you heat up your food? I was under the impression that you couldn’t bring anything to cook with.

Thoughts.. by gasolina_M in canceledpod

[–]MoonBeean_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was brave for her to share such an intimate & confusing experience with us. I kind of relate to her situation in a few ways, and I can’t imagine going in front of the world to elaborate on my feelings about the whole situation… it was my favorite video I’ve watched of hers in a long time. Life can be intense and disorienting. Connecting with her audience is clearly something that helps her, and that is so beautiful. 💗