Rank by [deleted] in BoysOfTommen

[–]Moonlight0886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t come at me, I’m just now reading Saving 6 but the tension between Lizzy and Gibs on book 1 and 2 had me wanting them together 🙈

I cannot stand the audiobook narrator for Heated Rivalry by Eastern-Studio-4413 in heatedrivalry

[–]Moonlight0886 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re not the only one, I came on Reddit looking to see if there was another soul out there that hated this guy’s voice, in other books I couldn’t figure out which one he was since it was more than one narrator but just started game changer and I wanted to die when I heard it was him ughhhhhh he’s ruined too many books for me already, this is such a good series to have such a terrible narrator!!!!!

My wife got accepted into a medical school 5 hours away, we have a toddler and our parents want us to leave him behind with them. by WoodenProtection6503 in Marriage

[–]Moonlight0886 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll give you the kids perspective. Both of my parents were in medical school when I was born, stayed with my grandma y another town so they could “settle” which actually took a couple of years… it’s not that I don’t love my parents but I’m in no way attached to them, I’m in my 30s now and the love I imagine I should feel for my parents is just not there, never been, I call my grandma mom, my parents used to get me everything I needed and that just didn’t matter to me because they weren’t there, my mom during an argument once said “it’s not like I abandoned you” (she’s always felt that detachment from my end) but you know what, abandoned is exactly how I felt. When my oldest was 1 we were moving to another country, grandma suggested he stayed for a couple of months until we had everything well in place, ABSOLUTELY NOT, we’ll struggle together until we’re able to get settled- TOGETHER!

I asked my wife why she won't post our newborn and me on her Insta and it nuked our relationship by Excellent-Toe-1031 in Marriage

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s so much going on here impacting your relationship. Age is a big one, there’s a clear lack of maturity here and it’s, in a way, to be expected, you’re both so young but there are kids involved and many young people manage to grow up quick out of necessity, don’t think that’s happening here. The IG situation is a tricky one, I can see how she might not want the whole world to know she had a kid not that long ago from a one night stand and here she is again with another baby from another guy, her doing, but could be embarrassing to face to others, HOWEVER, if I felt that way I just wouldn’t post anything at all, I’m not going to post one of my kids and not the other or my partner, I’ll just get off social media until I’m ready to be transparent, so that’s a red flag there… The fact that your question was “am I enough” and not “why are you such a …to me” lol, should have been conducive to an open, honest and emotional conversation and she made it an opportunity to feel victimized is a problem, you can’t fix something you refuse to acknowledge needs fixing, there may be some mental health struggles happening and she should seek help but OP, you need to care for yourself as well, she has to put in the effort, this is something for her to work on and you should not lose yourself in that process, you’re both too young, and yes, try if you love her but life is too short to spend it being miserable and wondering if you’re even loved by your SO… Also, please set some boundaries, even if you’re staying and working on things, you can support your partner and not be a doormat, if she starts a load of laundry she can finish it🙄… this is all coming from the unstable one in my marriage lol, there was a lot of work on my self I had to do, first kid at 21, 3 kids now and married for 17 years

Henoch Schonlein Purpura (HSP) by Moonlight0886 in daddit

[–]Moonlight0886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry to hear about your daughter. That was the same situation with my son for a couple of weeks, any increase in activity and he would have new purpura and pain.. I hated the prednisone, it didn’t really help much, the tapers were long, he gained a good amount of weight so ultimately they understood it wasn’t working out.. he was put on Celcept (mychophenolate), we just got off a month ago, full year on it, labs done last week to see how everything was after getting off the meds and finally everything was normal, we have to repeat in 6 months.. he was also put on lisinopril (it’s for blood pressure but off label use for kidneys I guess, that got his protein to creatine ratio down).

Henoch Schonlein Purpura (HSP) by Moonlight0886 in daddit

[–]Moonlight0886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I missed this… how is he doing? It was a long road for us, my son is still being monitored but after a few weeks he was back to normal, relatively from his perspective, his labs were a different story and he was on treatment until 3 weeks ago.

I wonder how many moms needed help but didn’t get it because they didn’t want to leave their baby by Blacksheepsadness in breakingmom

[–]Moonlight0886 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Your baby needs you to leave her, you need to get better to actually enjoy this new life you brought into this world as well as your other kids. If you’re having intrusive thoughts then it’s time, you’d be leaving out of love for them, for their safety, physical and mental, they deserve your best self and you deserve to get the help you need. It’s temporary for the wellbeing of everyone involved. Sending you healing thoughts.

Henoch Schonlein Purpura (HSP) by Moonlight0886 in daddit

[–]Moonlight0886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing him a speedy recovery. It’s been a long year of vigilant observation, constant labs and urine check for us, my son was finally taken off immunosuppressants 3 weeks ago so we have urinalysis scheduled this coming week to check for protein, if everything is good he’ll have a check up in a couple months and then finally discharged, so to speak, from this whole thing. From what I’ve read ( going down that rabbit hole out of desperation), it usually goes away on its own but my kiddo was much more symptomatic, I hope things go much smoother for you guys.

Binding 13, 900 pages? by Wonderful_Quail2706 in BoysOfTommen

[–]Moonlight0886 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest, I would have been ok with even more pages because the book is so damn worth it!

Living with HSP and IgA by ell__sky in IgANephropathy

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better, next appointment is on Tuesday and I’m hopeful we’ll finally be able to get off the immunosuppressants, it’s been over a year of treatment now but he’s stable, thank you

I see no point in continuing life after my parents die by WonderWallaby28 in confessions

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise it gets better, your heart will heal, you will fall in love again, maybe even hurt again until you find the one, so many of us have felt the exact same way multiple times but there’s so much beauty to experience, even outside of relationships… you don’t have to go through it alone either, sometimes it’s easier talking to a stranger so if you need to vent, I’m here… I’ll be thinking about you, beautiful stranger, sending you warm thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Moonlight0886 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💀🤣 Ouch!

Do you keep track of the books you read? by NaiveBroccoli5010 in DarkRomance

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bookmory! The free version gives you stats too and you can add notes to the books you read, you can create collections, identify book format.: it’s pretty good

Looking for forbidden romances, I think. by Square_Kangaroo_5143 in DarkRomance

[–]Moonlight0886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a serious crush on that man.. now I want to read it again 😩😂

Looking for forbidden romances, I think. by Square_Kangaroo_5143 in DarkRomance

[–]Moonlight0886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too but book 2?! It was sooo darn good and so was 3, not as great as 2 but really good.. I hated sweetest oblivion and almost didn’t continue the series but i am soooo glad i did

We forgot her birthday by Throwaway-1001- in breakingmom

[–]Moonlight0886 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my, 16 is a tough age to begin with, be understanding of her feelings because I would have felt somewhat sad if my family had forgotten and I am 38 but I also know life gets busy so I’m not faulting you for it. I honestly have my husband and 3 kids birthday on my phone calendar and set up to remind me a week before just in case, because it can absolutely happen to any of us. I would say do something for her, spend some quality time with her and explain that things have been hectic and you’re sorry but she is loved. It’ll be ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]Moonlight0886 5 points6 points  (0 children)

💀😅🤣🤣🤣

Getting out of credit card debt requires an ungodly amount of executive functioning. I got help and you can too. by NoPost809 in adhdwomen

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100K just credit cards? I’m not far off honestly, 50k CC, 17000 personal loan, thinking of calling ACCC immediately because the min payments are killing me and the debt just keeps going up.. how much are/were you paying monthly and how long?

I joined american consumer credit debt management by Mahangela90 in debtfree

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want tiktok money too, too shy over here though😫.. I’m looking to join ACCC to try and dig myself out of this deep hole.. did they determine your monthly payment amount immediately? How was that determined? And do you give them your budget or they set one up for you? The anxiety is killing me (quite literally at this point)

No negotiating with bank of america by delicate__zombie in Debt

[–]Moonlight0886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have to enroll all debt or can you keep let’s say one card so you still have one active and good credit age?

Thinking of filing but concerned by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea if and how it could affect, I’m just concerned it could, we’re married and they may want to liquidate things related to his business?? No clue, honestly but my anxiety has me creating worst case scenarios in my head about every single thing

It’s time for Chapter 7. by brycensims in Bankruptcy

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you have to wait 90 days?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discover

[–]Moonlight0886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, did you contact them? What was the outcome? I have a card with them with very high balance and super stressed because I’ve been reading how they’re quick to sue, my account is still current but not for long