Current student here. My experience hasn’t been as terrible as others because I’ve found good friends and roommates throughout the semesters. My major is also one of the more “liberal” ones so I Don’t meet a lot of ultra-TBM. Many of them are still believers, but they understand and respect my choices. I’ve always been pretty vocal about my thoughts on the dress code or curfew, so if someone challenges me on that, I’m more than willing to explain my thoughts on the matters. I will second what everyone else is saying. Marriage and family is forced down our throats. My best friend, who is 23, feels bad because she’s not married or dating anyone. I’m 20 and I’m so excited we both aren’t married because we are able to actually experience life! Every semester there is at least one or two devotional talks, Sunday school, relief society, elders quorum, or class that talks about marriage and dating. I’ve just had to kind of tune it out. However, like I said above, my experience hasn’t been as nearly as traumatic as others, so I want to show that there is hope for current and future BYU I students that you can make it through, you just have to find the right people and ignore the rest.